If they yelled at him to drop the gun, it's a normal reaction to turn and see who is actually telling you that.
Completely agreed.
If I hear something that surprises me and I can't see, I'm going to look first.
100% agreed because I would had done the same thing.
Trying not to hulk out in this damn thread. If your back is turned and somebody yells drop the gun while you're on the phone in a store where you JUST BOUGHT THE GUN, surely the totally reasonable thoughts going through your head are:
1. Woah! somebody has a gun?? where? They can't be talking to ME, I just bought this HERE!!!
2. Where??? Police? Huh???
3. or just.. "Huh??"
at NO point am I thinking, instant freeze and drop gun because they are not possibly talking to me. I'm on the phone, playing video games, in the video game section with the toy gun that I just FREAKING bought. I was likely checking the gun because, having played with airsoft guns, I wanted to check the quality of the gun because to make sure it's not a crappy build. I can't tell from the outside of the package, so I'd probably buy it in the store, check it out, and return it if it's a crappy build.
The LAST freaking thing I'm thinking, though, is that somebody is thinking that I'm waving the gun randomly at scared people in the store and that my life might end in the video game section.
Or at least, that's not what my 22 year old self would think. My 39 year old self would have the cynicism and life experience to know that shit ain't fair, I have to think about EXTRA stuff that wouldn't normally come to a regular 22 year old kid's mind that isn't a black male in america. I check myself TODAY at 39 because I know that walking too close to people might freak them out so i've gotta keep my reasonable distance, talk extra chipper or make sounds to let them know that I'm there (day or night), I can't wear a hoodie even in the rain - just in case, and even as innocent and innocuous as it might seem, I can't open up a toy gun in the store that I bought it from because people might think whatever the hell they might think and I could be dead. Sadly, his mistake wasn't just opening up the gun. His mistake was that he wasn't vigilant and was on the phone. You can't be caught with your attention down like that because things are happening and you don't know how much of that is happening around you and because of you REGARDLESS your intentions.
Simple stuff like that. He can't just be a 22 year old kid buying a toy gun, talking on the phone to his girl in the video game section of the store. Had he not been on the phone or distracted, he'd have known that all of these eyes were on him - which they ALWAYS are - and he wouldn't have been caught slipping.
Those are the kind of things that black men have to think about DAILY.
Enjoy.