Oh, I've heard of this stigma before. It makes sense, since anime fans can be really annoying.I've noticed that I've been growing a bit apathetic towards anime over the past 3 years as I've studied to become a professional animator/artist (Senior art/animation instructors in the west don't really wanna see that stuff in your portfolio. As far as they're concerned it doesn't look professional)
Outside of Miyazaki/Ghibli and classics like Akira (which they make us study), I generally don't pay a lot of attention to Japanese animation. I mostly look at western animated shorts/shows/movies with the occasional subtitled or dubbed foreign gem mixed in every so often.
If I'm mostly unenthusiastic about anime then I have to imagine that most mainstream people probably don't give a hoot about it (sans Miyazaki...maybe)
But... I think anime is a treasure trove of complex and skillful animation, as long as you know where to look for it. There are sites like Sakugabooru that collect only the best nuggets of animation from various shows, which could be a good resource for someone in your position, akin to Ghibli's works.