I strongly disagree. In fact, I'd say that conflation of a wide variety of issues is precisely the reason this whole thing is so godawful and contentious.
Some of the issues:
-Zoe Quinn cheating on her boyfriend
-Zoe Quinn being too close to game journalists
-Zoe Quinn disliking an IndieGoGo campaign and speaking out against it
-Zoe Quinn getting harassed and/or doxxed
-Phil Fish getting doxxed
-Anita Sarkeesian getting death threats
-Leigh Alexander writing an angry column about "gamers"
-other game journalists writing similar columns or writing angry tweets
-a variety of awful Twitter hashtags
-the general idea of conflicts of interest in games journalism
-games journalism's interface with crowdfunding
-Kotaku's stance on disclosures
-corruption and/or the appearance thereof in IGF awards
-probably a bunch of other stuff I'm not remembering.
And of course this is going on against a background of:
-shifting demographics in video games
-shifts in "where the money is" from consoles to other platforms
-anger at IAPs, simple games, and "non-games"
-the rise of indie devs
-Tropes v Women in Games being a thing
-game devs in general becoming more sensitive and aware of the way women and minorities are represented in games
These intersect in all kinds of crazy ways. So you see someone saying "I think there might be a problem with conflicts of interest in games journalism because they all know each other," and then someone else looking at that, wondering why they didn't care until Zoe Quinn cheated on her boyfriend, conflating the two and calling that person a misogynist. Or you see someone saying "wow all this anti-Sarkeesian stuff makes me uncomfortable being called a gamer," and then other people looking at that, conflating it with Alexander's column, and assuming that person is a bully who hates all gamers. Or you see conspiracy videos that actively and carelessly conflate all of this stuff, because it suits their purposes to be lurid and to throw as much shit at the wall as possible.
Then, of course, you mix in tribalism, personal identities, and all of the background stuff, and suddenly it's a massive shitstorm where everyone is talking past each other, a lot of people are really angry, and nobody is really engaging in any meaningful way.