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[ugly]

Everybody feels shitty. Some lots. Some little.
I propose a place to simply express something shitty.

Remember! There is no need to feel guilty for feeling super-shitty about a problem you may not think is as serious as somebody else's. Our difficulty levels are tailored to our situations.

If you don't feel shitty, may I suggest reading the posts and, instead of offering advice, first just try to comprehend the situation from the poster's perspective.

I'll start:
I feel stuck in my current living situation and am finding it difficult to make the steps to change that. I guess when you are forced into acceptance just to bear with a situation it saps you. It's hard to actualize the concept of what it feels like to be happy when you ignore bad signals... But it makes me feel a bit better to at least say it.
Also I forgot my Dad's birthday

What do you feel shitty about, GAF?

 

[ElectricBlanketFire]

I hate The Beatles.

 

[sadceph2001]

The Beatles are overrated.

 

[Magnus]

The state of jobs for recent grads and new professionals in Toronto. Internships (often unpaid), entry-level jobs that pay low, or are low-security/no benefit contracts for very short periods of time. Or BOTH.

The era of "work hard = success" is over.

The prospect of really getting the career going feels fleeting at a time in my life (and the lives of my peers) where we should apparently already be into buying a home, possibly having kids and - wait for it - saving for the future.

All that said - I finally have a sudden crop of exciting prospects coming at me. Fall really is the hiring season. Wish me luck.

 

[shuri]

I'm tired of SJW stuff being discussed everywhere, all the time, no matter what the original subject was. Everything has to turn into a sjw discussion. Everything.

 

[BertramCooper]

The Cleveland Fucking Browns.

Fuck my life.

 

[PerezDeCorcho]

Standardized testing is an evil that must be extinguished.

 

[Magnus]

I'm tired of SJW stuff being discussed everywhere, all the time, no matter what the original subject was. Everything has to turn into a sjw discussion. Everything.

...alright, I'll bite.

What is SJW?

 

[MrCookiepants]

I hate The Beatles.

The Beatles are overrated.

It's okay, nobody really likes them.

 

[YesNOnoNOYes]

i hate papercuts :<

...alright, I'll bite.

What is SJW?

social justice warrior. its the term for the 'cool kids' use when their unchecked behaviours are checked.

 

[Cuphead]

I have to go home for family dinner instead of playing video games Wednesday.

Shit

 

[TurbulentTurtle]

The state of jobs for recent grads and new professionals in Toronto. Internships (often unpaid), entry-level jobs that pay low, or are low-security/no benefit contracts for very short periods of time. Or BOTH.

The era of "work hard = success" is over.

The prospect of really getting the career going feels fleeting at a time in my life (and the lives of my peers) where we should apparently already be into buying a home, possibly having kids and - wait for it - saving for the future.

All that said - I finally have a sudden crop of exciting prospects coming at me. Fall really is the hiring season. Wish me luck.

Only if you also wish me luck.
I'm in the same position.

 

[Einbroch]

I've spent $300+ on a free to play game.

 

[Panthalassic]

I feel guilty that I "turned out" queer after being raised in a Catholic family and Christian/homophobic country. I feel like I fucked up somehow and sometimes I wish I could be "normal". My family doesn't know (except for my sister, who was like 'whatever'), and I think it would really destroy my Dad if he found out. He already hates that I cut my hair pretty short (even though everyone else agrees that it looks so much better on me than my long hair). It's been bothering me a lot lately, especially since I'm graduating university soon and will have to go home.

At the same time, girls are so great. They're nice, and soft, and cute. I love girls (and non-binary people) so much.

That felt good. Thanks for the thread.

 

[Snuggles]

The person I'm stuck in an office with eats these fucking apples all day and does it obscenely loud, it's disgusting. Shut your fucking mouth when you eat you pig. Fuck.

 

[Astarte]

I've spent $300+ on a free to play game.

I spent ~$2000 on a free to play game :V

 

[YesNOnoNOYes]

I feel guilty that I "turned out" queer after being raised in a Catholic family and Christian/homophobic country. I feel like I fucked up somehow and sometimes I wish I could be "normal". My family doesn't know (except for my sister, who was like 'whatever'), and I think it would really destroy my Dad if he found out. He already hates that I cut my hair pretty short (even though everyone else agrees that it looks so much better on me than my long hair). It's been bothering me a lot lately, especially since I'm graduating university soon and will have to go home.

At the same time, girls are so great. They're nice, and soft, and cute. I love girls (and non-binary people) so much.

That felt good. Thanks for the thread.

ohaaaaaaaaaaaaaai im you, sort of.

such same circumstances ;___; grew up in traditional family with catholic mother, and i'm in the closet with my gf and i think i will never tell my parents cuz it will break my dad's heart into pieces ;___;

so, totes understand you yooooo

 

[JensenBeeswax]

I had to move for my first job ever and it's making me miserable. Missing friends and the folks, yo!

 

[Magnus]

Only if you also wish me luck.
I'm in the same position.

LET'S DO THIS

i hate papercuts :<



social justice warrior. its the term for the 'cool kids' use when their unchecked behaviours are checked.

I've honestly never even heard of this. Is this something new?

 

[Halcyon]

I got a 3rd breast implant but since i'm a guy it just looks like I have 1 big titty sounded by 2 deflated man teets. I would like it removed.

 

[kudoboi]

school fucking blows and i would be so much happier if there were no exams tomorrow.

 

[YesNOnoNOYes]

LET'S DO THIS



I've honestly never even heard of this. Is this something new?

..... new as in something in the last few years, then yes, new.

also renly is so cute in your avatar aaaaaaa *____*

 

[Link]

I'm a Mets and a Jets fan. It's a neverending cycle of frustration as they find new ways to lose. The worst part is having my pessimism confirmed on an almost constant basis, like last week.

 

[Schattenjäger]

Tired of fucking companies leaving you hanging during the job interview process...
I get it .. You need to interview more candidates ...haven't made a decision yet; etc.
But let me know the minute you don't want me.. So I can have closure
And a double fuck you to the people that say they will call you back either way.. And still don't

 

[Dereck]

I'm fed up with speaking too quickly and stumbling over my words, I am constantly working to fix this problem.

 

[norinrad]

My problem with HR continues. I want to work 4 hours less a week and they are giving me a hard time about it, not to mention i have to commute 3 hours just to get to work.

Hopefully things turn around soon.

 

[Aaron-Lagann]

I watched all of Sword Art Online in a marathon the other day. That has me pretty down in the dumps.

I don't feel guilty about anything I've ever done.

 

[Replicant]

I feel lonely. I'm tired of trying to make friends and end up with one-sided friendship. It's like the other person don't care or only making a half-hearted efforts.

I want a BF. I feel like everyone but me is pairing up and having nice time together.

I don't know what I want to do now that I've been made redundant.

I'm surprised I'm not too depressed about my life (yet). I do feel sad though. My life feels like a blackhole filled with never-ending misery.

 

[John Kowalski]

I'm actually feeling rather ok today. Maybe i'll have some alcohol.

 

[Always-honest]

I can't stop fucking smoking. I hate me for that. Weak fuck.

 

[Featheredkitten]

Morning sex is the worst type of sex there is, it's awful and terrible and all things bad.

 

[Panthalassic]

ohaaaaaaaaaaaaaai im you, sort of.

such same circumstances ;___; grew up in traditional family with catholic mother, and i'm in the closet with my gf and i think i will never tell my parents cuz it will break my dad's heart into pieces ;___;

so, totes understand you yooooo

Yeah. I also love my family a lot!! But I feel like if they ever found out it would really suck, and they'd probably kick me out. My grandmother already told me that if I ever dated a girl she'd write me out of her will and my Dad saw my Pride sticker I have on my external hard drive and kinda grilled me really hard about it e,e.

 

[MaizeRage25]

The Cleveland Fucking Browns.

Fuck my life.

LeBron!

 

[Snuggles]

Morning sex is the worst type of sex there is, it's awful and terrible and all things bad.

I disagree. There's something about being only half conscious while you transition from an intense spooning into sex that's kind of cool.

But to stay on topic, I haven't had any of that in quite a while. I've become too detached to connect with anyone. I don't even try. I just don't give a fuck anymore.

 

[PranooY]

I watched all of Sword Art Online in a marathon the other day. That has me pretty down in the dumps.

I don't feel guilty about anything I've ever done.

Is it bad?


On topic: I feel bad that I procrastinate a lot.

 

[YesNOnoNOYes]

Yeah. I also love my family a lot!! But I feel like if they ever found out it would really suck, and they'd probably kick me out. My grandmother already told me that if I ever dated a girl she'd write me out of her will and my Dad saw my Pride sticker I have on my external hard drive and kinda grilled me really hard about it e,e.

Me toooo! Aaaa ;___; I love my folks so much that it's super hard sometimes not to be able to tell them the truth about who I am because they just wont be able to accept it, and I am not prepared for estrangement cuz I think that's super sad :<

idk why things has to be this way ;___;

...

on another note, so happy to meet another me <3 he he

 

[Arken2121]

A bit depressed. Been so since I was a kid. Shit sucks man.

 

[Aaron-Lagann]

Is it bad?

It's pretty good. Then pretty mediocre. Then offensively bad, having the plot of the second arc revolve around rape.

 

[demon]

For years I've had a lot of pent up anger and resentment towards my parents, specifically my mom, about things that happened and how they brought me up during my teen years, stuff that affected me. I've never really talked to them about it and I've always pretty much had a pleasant relationship with them, and I wish I'd let it all out 5-10 years ago because now they're kind of old, facing a retirement that isn't what they'd hoped for and gone through a lot of shit themselves recently, and I don't think they'd be able to take it. Was just thinking about it this morning and it made me depressed.

 

[Air]

-when I was younger, I felt one of my friends forced me to choose between him as a friend or his girlfriend as a friend. She was always supportive of me, and my other friend hasn't been in contact with me for about a year now. I tried reconciling with the girl but she doesn't want to(I don't want to have seen with her or anything). It's probably been my biggest mistake. I chose poorly.
- earlier this year my company dissolved due to one member realizing too late this wasn't for him. I wouldn't be upset but he had plenty of opportunities to back down and it felt he was only doing it until something better came up (we had been working together for about 4-5 years). I'll be making a short film later that will reference my feelings of this moment but disguised as a breakup between a character and his girlfriend.
-I love one of my other friends like a brother, but it gets annoying when every girl feels the need to tell me they want to bang him.
-I have a hard time with expressing positive statements or affectionate ones to people I care about. I'm changing but it's very hard.
-It saddens me that I've been trying to be social with my coworkers, but they always drink or plan to without telling me. I usually have a fun time partying, but the past few instances made me realize it probably wouldn't be worth it.
-I really like my boss and she's always super flirty with me (not sure about anyone else). But I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend. The temptation to just be that guy is stronger than you would think.

I have a lot of skeletons in my closet. This is no way to live :/.

 

[Pickman]

I'm kind of bummed that one of my best friends didn't ask me to be part of his wedding party. At first he said he wasn't having groomsmen at all, and then a couple weeks ago apparently decided he was since his fiance wanted bridesmaids. I didn't even hear about the change until after the bachelor party this weekend with the wedding a week away, and even then it was second hand through my best friend who is a groomsman.

On the same hand, I probably couldn't afford the attire and going out after the wedding like everyone planned since the bachelor party itself put a huge dent in my wallet, but still. Could've taken out a payday loan and made it happen.

 

[Pila]

At my job, blue collars have to write down what they do on a sheet, I pick them up and check them. If they don't write their report, I have to tell the boss about it. It's miserable, I feel like some spy lol. It's the only thing about my job that I'd love to drop.

 

[Rykestrasse 68]

Just came out of a relationship that I thought was going to end up with marriage and babies. I'm mourning the loss of that future and those babies- and trying to come to grips with the likely reality that children are probably not going to happen for me now because of my age.
I look in the mirror and I see a ton of gray hair and my viability as a suitable mate slipping away- as a woman I feel how much my "value" is tied to youth & beauty and it sucks.
Before the break up I felt like I was doing it right, like my life was going somewhere. Now I'm back with my folks who are ill and aged, I'm under employed and attempting a career change and sleeping on a bed I found on the street because there were significant expenses and furniture left behind. I feel like I quite literally have nothing, and seeing my folks so frail and unwell while burdoning them with my lack of financial ability and mourning my relationship... It sucks and I feel bad for my folks.
Also, gaf has made me have a strong sense of mistrust in men- I know its the internet, but sometimes being a woman just sucks, and makes me feel like the world doesn't see me as a human being. And all the shows I like on TV get cancelled or have shitty endings. Such bullshit!

 

[CyanideFuse]

Is it bad?


On topic: I feel bad that I procrastinate a lot.

I was just going to post this myself.

I am like a ten-tonne cog. It takes me ages to get going but when I do I am incredibly efficient and hard working at most things I put my hand too.

I am currently sick to fucking death of waiting for some money to transfer from my savings so I can pay off capital on the mortgage. It has been set aside for two weeks as 'unusable' money but today is the day I send it to the mortgage company. I should feel happy at paying off quite a bit of it but I cannot help but see the negative in all this.

 

[ugly]

For years I've had a lot of pent up anger and resentment towards my parents, specifically my mom, about things that happened and how they brought me up during my teen years, stuff that affected me. I've never really talked to them about it and I've always pretty much had a pleasant relationship with it, and I wish I'd let it all out 5-10 years ago because now they're kind of old, facing a retirement that isn't what they'd hoped for and gone through a lot of shit themselves recently, and I don't think they'd be able to take it. Was just thinking about it this morning and it made me depressed.

Homie I say if you have the capacity to feel something that strongly then that's something powerful! To be able to point out what you like and don't like is fucking something. Which I mean in the nicest way. There's always some little way to begin to release the teeniest little morsels of a burden - after all, you have the deepest and wisest vision into your own situation!

 

[Air]

Oh and I feel like I probably could have gone out with the model 'Damaris Lewis' but I didn't for some reason. Definitely kicking myself over that. But even though I've had few encounters with her she always seems to remember me.

 

[shuri]

Also, gaf has made me have a strong sense of mistrust in men- I know its the internet, but sometimes being a woman just sucks, and makes me feel like the world doesn't see me as a human being.

That's pretty bad! Wow! But where exactly on gaf were you attacked or least have seen things that affected you this much?

 

[FonkyByNature]

I hate The Beatles.

haha i agree. The Beatles sucks ! way overrated !

 

[aygomyownroad]

My cousin claimed I was "living on another planet"

The reason was I make more money than him, have a nice car, own my own house and have family (I'm 29 he is 27). He earns minimum wage and lives at home with his parents.

I felt like shit all weekend because it felt like I was in the wrong for working my backside off at school to get a and b grades, worked my backside off at Uni and then changed career and worked my backside off to be where I am today while he left school at 16 and did nothing with his life.

The reason for him saying this? I voted No in that referendum in Scotland because I felt free uni places are important as I wouldn't have been able to afford to go had they not been free.

He is a scrotum and I'm still annoyed that after all the hard work I've put in to my education and career he feels that I've been privileged... Damn it.

 

[Snuggles]

I hate people who hate The Beatles.