Then you don't understand what I'm saying.
This isn't a courtroom.
Applying the rules of evidence in a legal proceeding to general discussion amongst your peers is a bad fit. It doesn't work. It's stifling. That nature is needed in a legal proceeding. It's unnecessary, limiting, and more often than not obstructionist outside of that. You did not inherently "do it more right" than anyone else because of your choice. Pretending you're serving on a jury while having conversations with other people isn't really doing anyone any favors. It's just playing pretend, often to the detriment of the conversation.
It's an out, more often than not. You can withhold judgment without invoking "Innocent until proven guilty." I mean, I'm doing it right now.