I was totally on board with your post until this...
Well full disclosure. I'm one of those crazies that actually don't believe the problem is "skimpy" outfits, underboob, cleavage until you see bush, panty shots etc etc. The problem isn't what is shown the problem is how we view it.
Woman lounging around with one of her boobs out? The "perverts" come out to ogle.
Same boob, same woman but now a child is getting their food. The "perverts" aren't seen(well somewhere someone has that fetish I reckon)
I'm at the beach, I see another child like my niece run around in the Zelda bikini she wanted(probably because I played them a lot with her) I don't think about it for a sec.
Somewhere someone is disgusting and see it as sexual.
Sure the sentence might be that women themselves should decide when they are sexualized but due to many years of bullshit they themselves can't even decide that and probably never will as long as we are human.
*PS if you where one of those idiots walking around with your cellphone camera snapping pictures during the #FreeTheNipple march in Malmö a few months back, I get it. I do but please listen to the message instead of just filling up your spank bank next time but if you still refuse. Please go fuck yourself.
Full disclosure. Sure I like women as well but "normal" lady in the club barely does it for me. Think Amazon and my preferences are laid out.
When will we get Dynasty Social Justice Warriors?
Dude, do not speak of them. If the elders find out they will send in the clean out crew.
This is the only thing I like about the term "SJW". The stupid fun you can have with it. Of course there exists idiots somewhere that probably use it as a serious label but coooooooooooooooooooome on! White Knight was at least a reasonable class before you went full on Paladin to finally rise into the ranks of Saint. What will a Social Justice Warrior go for advance class? Knight?
The actual trend we're seeing -- and both your examples fit pretty clearly here -- is that games which are inherently sexual at a deep-seated level (like all these loli dungeon crawlers, or specificallyh fanservice-oriented games) typically come over fine when they don't cross specific lines, while pre-existing general-audience franchises that get perverted fanservice garbage slapped on top get edited since that content is just there to pander to a non-central audience anyway. Taking swimsuits out of DOAX would eliminate the actual point of the game, while taking gross and creepy sexualization elements from a general-audience RPG like XCX just means you aren't including anything that's going to (rightfully) piss off a bunch of people in the game's actual target market, and which is very clearly not part of the franchise's previous style or content. It's kind of impressive rhetorical sleight-of-hand to claim that series with no innate sexual content which were crassly sexed-up for their latest entries are amont anyone's "more sexual properties."
I had Ziggy and Chaos running around in Swimsuits, also Kos-mos and Shion.
I had everyone but Shulk in a swimsuit later on. If people think this is added... Then They are wrong.
In the end I don't really care. I've been trained enough to ignore loli creepy garbage so to not ignore it since they already took it out is good by me.