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[Josh with a J]

Dude, chill out.

It is cool broski, I laughed at it.

(ps she's saying sorry now and crying so all is good) Look, I get she's going through something that I'll never understand but there are some lines you don't let people cross if you have any kind of self respect (no, I didn't post what she said).

 

[Josh with a J]

I'm a parent myself.

Fair enough then dude, grats

 

[You Know Nothing]

Thought it was raining. But no, now it's snowing. The roads will be fun. RIP.

 

[Granadier]

Not in the middle of the pacific.

I beg to differ.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/French_Polynesia

 

[Jobbs]

Me at the doctor every time

 

[RobotNinjaHornets]

I'm going to Belgium for the third year in a row at the end of April for Groezrock. Gonna be rad.

 

[A Fish Aficionado]

A figure of speech.

Spoiler

I hella new you'd guys would be smartasses.

 

[Jobbs]

I'm going to Belgium for the third year in a row at the end of April for Groezrock. Gonna be rad.

yay

and I just made middle of the night hot cocoa. So good things are happening for us both!

 

[Transhuman]

I get she's going through something that I'll never understand but there are some lines you don't let people cross if you have any kind of self respect (no, I didn't post what she said).

Did she say your dick looked like a dead slug? Did she say you would never make it as a DJ? Did she threaten to kill herself and the baby because she wouldn't want the baby to live with a disappointment like you as a father?

 

[Josh with a J]

Did she say your dick looked like a dead slug? Did she say you would never make it as a DJ? Did she threaten to kill herself and the baby because she wouldn't want the baby to live with a disappointment like you as a father?

All of it except my dick looked like a dragon

 

[jb1234]

All of it except my dick looked like a dragon

A dragon stomped on me once in a game of D&D. I hope that your oversized lizard dick is kinder.

 

[Symphonia]

Fair enough then dude, grats

Look, I apologise. I was kind of abrupt with what I said. I don't take back what I said, however. You're lucky to have a partner and child on the way. There are people out there who will never have what you've been blessed with. I lost what I was blessed with, and I have to live with that every day for the rest of my life. I hate myself knowing I will never see my daughter again. The fact you were saying you're 'done' and ready to give up just really pissed me off, willing to give up what others don't and never will have.

 

[Josh with a J]

Look, I apologise. I was kind of abrupt with what I said. I don't take back what I said, however. You're lucky to have a partner and child on the way. There are people out there who will never have what you've been blessed with. I lost what I was blessed with, and I have to live with that every day for the rest of my life. I hate myself knowing I will never see my daughter again. The fact you were saying you're 'done' and ready to give up just really pissed me off, willing to give up what others don't and never will have.

I never meant that I wouldn't be there everyday for my kiddo because I will. I meant I was done sitting there and being told how much she hates me and wishes someone else was the dad.

Edit: which she is taking all back but fuck, that shit still hurts.

 

[Jobbs]

I meant I was done sitting there and being told how much she hates me and wishes someone else was the dad.

I would have a hard time listening to that too. I'd give someone some leeway for going through all the biological stuff she's going through... But I'd have a hard time listening to shit like that, especially if I was doing my best

 

[Symphonia]

It's the hormones. She doesn't mean it.

 

[Josh with a J]

It's the hormones. She doesn't mean it.

Doing my best and just taking it all on the chin. I can't even give her space and let her be because she gets mad if I do that too.

Edit: Just frustrated. I'm good now.

 

[Jobbs]

It's the hormones. She doesn't mean it.

No... No. Hormones can be strong I'm sure, and I'm sympathetic, but there are limits. At some point you have to be responsible for your words and behavior. Those are some really horrible things to say. What we say matters.

 

[Jobbs]

Playing Oxenfree and one of the characters has such bad and annoying vo (ren) that it's making the game bard to play

 

[Symphonia]

No... No. Hormones can be strong I'm sure, and I'm sympathetic, but there are limits. At some point you have to be responsible for your words and behavior. Those are some really horrible things to say. What we say matters.

Dude, I HAVE BEEN THERE MYSELF. I have had those things said to me. Then the next day she was gushing all over me, telling me to never leave her. It really is the hormones.

 

[You Know Nothing]

http://www.ajc.com/news/news/crime-law/police-naked-drugged-florida-man-ransacks-model-ho/nqXLc/

The man told officers he was under the influence of 10 pills of MDMA at the time.

Anybody wanna pop some molly?

 

[Josh with a J]

Anybody wanna pop some molly?

You'd never have to ask me twice but I've quit everything now =(

 

[Jobbs]

Dude, I HAVE BEEN THERE MYSELF. I have had those things said to me. Then the next day she was gushing all over me, telling me to never leave her. It really is the hormones.

So she can do anything? How far can you let her take things before you stop giving a pass? Can she kill your dog? All I'm saying is there's a line, clearly, and for me the stuff she said to jwaj is perilously close to it if not beyond it.

 

[Symphonia]

Killing a dog? Are you fucking serious?

I'm out. Your logic is beyond flawed.

 

[Jobbs]

Killing a dog? Are you fucking serious?

I'm out. Your logic is beyond flawed.

It's not flawed. I'm establishing that some line must exist, yes? Since we can agree a line exists, all we must do is say where it is. For me, it's very close to "I wish someone else was the father".

 

[You Know Nothing]

At what point do you stop tolerating very real emotional and verbal abuse brought about by hormonal vagaries? To expect anyone to tolerate being shit on constantly even with extenuating circumstances isn't realistic unless you're a doormat.

There's a limit, words mean things, emotional pain inflicted by said words shouldn't be expected to simply be shrugged off after a certain point.

 

[Lucian Cat]

It's not flawed. I'm establishing that some line must exist, yes? Since we can agree a line exists, all we must do is say where it is. For me, it's very close to "I wish someone else was the father".

I'd be inclined to agree with you. Words hurt and can't be unsaid regardless of the situation.

 

[Jobbs]

And it's so fortune that this game (Oxenfree) allows me to be a dick to these people. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to tolerate playing it. Mostly talking about Ren, whose voice and personality are indescribably obnoxious.

Spoiler

I just slapped him in the face.

 

[RobotNinjaHornets]

Playing Oxenfree and one of the characters has such bad and annoying vo (ren) that it's making the game bard to play

lol

 

[Symphonia]

Right, yeah, pregnant women are evil bitches who cannot and must not be tolerated.

Jesus.

 

[Jobbs]

lol

I saw that autocorrect fail and let it fly, hoping to provide amusement to anyone who is amused by such things

Right, yeah, pregnant women are evil bitches who cannot and must not be tolerated.

Jesus.

Bro when did I ever say that? Haha

I'm saying I'll give my pregnant girlfriend/wife some space if she's going through some hormonal shit, but there are limits. Hormones don't give you a pass to say the most hurtful words that exist to those who love you. I respect women enough to believe that

 

[Lucian Cat]

Right, yeah, pregnant women are evil bitches who cannot and must not be tolerated.

Jesus.

That's not what we're saying, dude.

 

[Halcyon]

I feel like I woke up to my parents fighting.

 

[Jobbs]

I feel like I woke up to my parents fighting.

FUCK YOU! YOU ARENT MY REAL DAD! YOU'RE JUST ANOTHER GUY MY MOM HOOKED UP WITH! GO AWAY!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!

 

[Halcyon]

FUCK YOU! YOU ARENT MY REAL DAD! YOU'RE JUST ANOTHER GUY MY MOM HOOKED UP WITH! GO AWAY!!! LEAVE ME ALONE!

Do you not sleep?

 

[Jobbs]

Do you not sleep?

I slept 3 hours

I've been having trouble sleeping since I was sick and I think all the meds I'm on are helping with that

 

[Halcyon]

Thats no fun. I feel on the opposite side of the spectrum and was tired immediately when I got home last night. Slept like a log.

 

[Transhuman]

Give your wife the attention she deserves, sexually

 

[fengshuifever]

I slept 3 hours

I've been having trouble sleeping since I was sick and I think all the meds I'm on are helping with that

How are you faring lately?

 

[Jobbs]

How are you faring lately?

Doing pretty good, thanks. I had a really nasty -- and, as it turns out, dangerous infection -- I've recovered but I feel like it took a bite out of me and I'm still waiting for the bite to grow back.

This was what happened to me when I went to the doctor when I was sick, basically

Playing Oxenfree on the couch right now. It's interesting. I have thoughts.

 

[Halcyon]

I had a cyst on my tailbone in high school and I had a similar doctors visit.

I can already tell today is going to be a long day.

 

[Ceallach]

I had to be in my service uniform today. For some reason in this uniform more than any other i feel the need to go wayour girlier than normal. I think it is because I elect to wear the skirt and heels. Spent a ton of time on my hair and makeup, wearing stockings, good bra instead of sports bra, everything fresh pressed. Gonna get annoying in this later, but I'm effing cute as hell rn.

 

[FUME5]

No corn chip crumbs today huh.

 

[Chuckie]

I had to be in my service uniform today. For some reason in this uniform more than any other i feel the need to go wayour girlier than normal. I think it is because I elect to wear the skirt and heels. Spent a ton of time on my hair and makeup, wearing stockings, good bra instead of sports bra, everything fresh pressed. Gonna get annoying in this later, but I'm effing cute as hell rn.

Pictures! Sounds cute af.

 

[Jobbs]

Pictures! Sounds cute af.

yeah it sounds hot, let's see the hotness

 

[Misha]

I still really don't understand how beards apparently make job interviews more difficult. Tons and tons and tons of guys have them and for a lot of men the beard makes them look more mature and confident.
It really makes no sense to me

 

[Halcyon]

On my way home last night, a massive double rainbow stretching like a dome along the horizon appeared. Potatoe quality gif.

 

[friskykillface]

Looks like a portal

 

[Misha]

On my way home last night, a massive double rainbow stretching like a dome along the horizon appeared. Potatoe quality gif.

woah. I saw 5 rainbows(not at the same time) that were all very clear but thats way more impressive

 

[Halcyon]

In real life it was mesmerizing. It looked like I could just drive over to the ends of each leg of the rainbow. They were very thick and clear.

People were all pulled over along the road looking. It was like a cool communal experience.

I made a longer gif

 

[Turin]

On my way home last night, a massive double rainbow stretching like a dome along the horizon appeared. Potatoe quality gif.

For a second there it looked like a planet. Melancholia vibes.