People were never this harsh on Gore, Kerry, McCain, Romney, Dole, etc.
The degree to which people demand Hillary to crucify herself (and she better pay for her own fucking nails) seems rabid and insane. My God.
I really can't reconcile any of it other than viewing sexism as some kind of hatred multiplier.
It's a little hasty to chalk it all up to sexism when you consider that she's been a far more divisive figure within her own party than any of the people you mentioned, and when you consider that her loss, regardless of why it happened, ended up throwing the world into a hell spiral. Stakes are a lot higher these days, and the situation is a little more complex than just one's gender.
Also, I'm not asking that she crucify herself, I'm just saying that if you're claiming to take responsibility for your loss, trying to save face in the same breath spoils that a bit. It's like Obama with the Wall Street speeches. It's not the worst thing in the world for someone to do, but don't expect people to stay silent about it.