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I just had a retarded fight with my girlfriend yesterday...

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dem said:
Even if you looked at some titties.. WHO THE FUCK CARES???
Looking is no crime


She is obviously crazy.. so just end it and move on.
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Man forreal, this should not be an issue.

GF: stop staring at that girls ass

Me: You should be happy taking a glance is the only thing I do..

GF: Xzibitblankface.jpg


a preemptive fuck you to the white knights
 
DeathNote said:
You bolded what you did because you thought it was a contradiction. It was not when you consider the sentence before the second bolding.

You can be drunk and loud but not drunk enough to forget what happened.

That segment is not lame.
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Do I have to spell it out for you? In this account she is petty, jealous, power tripping, etc. He is drunk, loud, cussing, being obnoxious. I'm pretty sure he wasn't drunk enough to black out and forget everything that happened. But the fact they were arguing such means that the whole fucking argument is lame, which is what I was getting at.
 
My girlfriend woke me up at 1am once yelling at me wondering where a wooden spoon was because she was baking. I had no idea why she was pissed. It wasn't until a few days later that it was because I didn't do the dishes that she made a mess of a few days prior. Of course, in usual girl fashion, never let me know that she thought it was a problem or she wanted me to do the dishes. I made the assumption that if you make a mess, the sensible thing would be to clean it up, since it is YOUR mess.
 
She's cheating on you, she's winding you up until you smack her in the face and then she has a reason to leave, unlucky dude.
 
I had a girl like that once. And I eventually ended it. Honestly you have to ask yourself whether this is worth it. There are a few things in your story that worries me and none of it have to do with her accusing you of looking at some tits.

ultim8p00 said:
When we got into the car, she we started talking about the whole incident again, except this time she said she wasn't mad that I was looking at some girl's tits, but she was mad that I raised my voice at her when we were talking earlier. I told her it was because it was loud in the club and I was drunk and irritated. I didn't mean to yell at her if that is what it came off as, but I was trying to tell her what happened but she didn't want to believe me. She insisted again that I was starring at some girl's tits and then she said that I wouldn't even know or remember because I was drunk. I told her that I wasn't that drunk. Then she accused me of being immature because I sat down on the couch (wtf?). Then she said she didn't care and that she is not jealous etc etc. At one point I was talking to her and she said I was cussing at her. I wasn't. Yes, I did say SOME profane words as I was talking, but it was not at her (And she was being a hypocrite at that point because she told me fuck you, and she called me a fucker a little earlier) The whole thing was just retarded, but what really pissed me off was when she threatened to make me walk home because she was driving, and she told me to get out of her car when she droped me off. I was pissed. Fucking bullshit, I have my own fucking car. I could have gone out myself if I had to. I also fucking helped her fix this car. And I jumped her car out in fucking cold rain when her car wouldn't start.
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There are so many wrongs in here. I know it's a fight but Jesus she's very insecure and immature. How long has the relationship been. Has she been this way before or is this the first time?

Either you're not remembering what happened or she is just crazy and I'm inclined to believe the latter.
 
ultim8p00 said:
What...the...fuck does this even?

She said I raised my voice. I told her it was because it was loud in the club, I was drunk, and irritated. I appologized for this.

She then said I looked at some girl's tits, but I forgot because I was drunk. So I said I wasn't that drunk, as in I wasn't so drunk that my memory was starting to fail me.

What about that is so hard to understand?

Oh wait, I'm going to tell you what happened here. You tried to play the tough-shit, no-nonsense guy, but it backfired, and 3 people called you out on your bullshit. Now you are trying to salvage what is left of your ego by giving us some "life lessonz cus I did it too" speech but you just look stupid. Stop now. This wasn't even a big deal, I don't know what the fuck your problem is.
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Fucking LOL. Holy shit dude, my ego is at stake here?! I had no idea the situation was so grave. I thought I was just commenting on some dumb fucking argument between a couple of dumb drunk teens, I had no idea my entire personality structure was hanging in the balance!

Seriously dude, you are a fucking whiny little manbaby. First you let your girl get you all pissed off with some typical moody girlfriend BS, then you come to GAF to whine about it, then you start raging at someone who laughed at the whole stupid affair. I'm sorry I didn't stroke your ego and tell you how stupid she was being and how right you are. But with every post you've made since the OP, you come off as more of a whiny little douche. I'm starting to think your pissy GF was right all along.
 
Asked my wife. Says it's cool if we're just walking down the street , she wouldn't care; might look herself if they were that eyecatching :lol

BUT if we're out with our friends at a party or something, it's not acceptable as she feels that it would be disrespectful and embarassing for her.

She's 29, no drama, white titties if that matters.

Lesson? Doesn't matter if you looked or not; if she thinks you looked and you're out with friends and her friends think you looked, you should probably apologize and say you feel bad for embarassing her.
 
I would to have loved being in that club just chilling on another couch watching the op and his girlfriend argue with a grin on my face sipping on a drink., his girlfriend having her friends keep tabs on the OP, the entire thing would be a cool little drama to watch :lol
 
Satyamdas said:
Fucking LOL. Holy shit dude, my ego is at stake here?! I had no idea the situation was so grave. I thought I was just commenting on some dumb fucking argument between a couple of dumb drunk teens, I had no idea my entire personality structure was hanging in the balance!

Seriously dude, you are a fucking whiny little manbaby. First you let your girl get you all pissed off with some typical moody girlfriend BS, then you come to GAF to whine about it, then you start raging at someone who laughed at the whole stupid affair. I'm sorry I didn't stroke your ego and tell you how stupid she was being and how right you are. But with every post you've made since the OP, you come off as more of a whiny little douche. I'm starting to think your pissy GF was right all along.
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She has insecurity & jealousy issues. Unfortunate. Take it or leave it!
 
Jeramii said:
My girlfriend and I usually compete to who can find the hottest chick when we are in public. It is great having someone like that..
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same boat. Having understanding partner is the best thing but it goes both ways. You have to understand them too.
 
ultim8p00 said:
Here is what actually happened that whole day. Maybe I did something wrong and she is mad at something else?

-We went to her friend's house. She wanted to introduce me to her friends. We had a good time, it was fun.

-We went to the club. One of her friends payed for our tickets. All of us. I thought that was real cool of him, so I bought him a drink. I was in a good mood that night, so I bought her friends drinks to.

-Then I wanted to dance with her, but she seemed more interested in her best friend which is understandable. Her best friend lives out of town and she only comes into town every now and then and they like to catch up. So at this point I told my girl that I'll be around the corner.

-I walk around for a bit, I see my buddy and we start talking. We were also looking at people dancing, mostly girls. I saw a girl that seemed familiar, so I was trying to look at her face. But this girl was black, not white. And her tits were not exposed.

-My buddy then tells me that my girl's best friend is keeping tabs on me and that she keeps looking in my direction and talking back to my girl.

-So I go to my girl and ask her what's up

-Jersey shore nonsense
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Your fault. Why go and ask your girl "what's up?" it seems to me you were asking for trouble. If anything was bothering her, she will come and talk to you, which in return you will easily defend (because she will look like an idiot). But going to her as if you felt guilty gives her the more reason to be blunt with you, cause she will feel she's not the only one who thinks something is wrong (cause you did too, that's why you went and talked to her first). Oh and don't tell me that the reason you went and talked to her is because you felt that you were "tabbed" cause she won't buy that.

Also, what I learned is that don't ever apologize for something you didn't do. I mean don't try to be the "bigger person" in admitting you were wrong so that you can just get past this, cause this will give her the more reason to believe you were actually in the wrong. If you really think she's special, then she will come to you, cause she damn knows you didn't do anything (believe me, she knows).

Always avoid confrontations, just defend yourself and turn the other cheek. Never attack.


P.S. it seems to me she was trying to get rid of you to hang with her best friend for a few days without you. It's just me.
 
ultim8p00 said:
Kind of a long read...

So basically my girlfriend and I decided to go clubbing yesterday and we had the most retarded fight ever. We got to the club and while we were there, I saw one of my buddies and I went to talk to him. I noticed that her and her friends were watching me while I was away so I asked her what was up. She then accused me of looking at some white girl's tits, and she said I was being disrespectful to her and the girl who's tits I was looking at. I kept telling her I was not, and she kept insisting that I was until I got pissed off. Then I told her that I wanted to leave (she was driving so that I could drink that night). I was pretty drunk at the time too, and pissed, which is not a good combination. She then told me that I didn't have a choice and that I was going to leave when she wanted to leave. I didn't feel like arguing or dancing anymore since it was so close to closing time, so I sat on the couch for 5 minutes, then we left.

When we got into the car, she we started talking about the whole incident again, except this time she said she wasn't mad that I was looking at some girl's tits, but she was mad that I raised my voice at her when we were talking earlier. I told her it was because it was loud in the club and I was drunk and irritated. I didn't mean to yell at her if that is what it came off as, but I was trying to tell her what happened but she didn't want to believe me. She insisted again that I was starring at some girl's tits and then she said that I wouldn't even know or remember because I was drunk. I told her that I wasn't that drunk. Then she accused me of being immature because I sat down on the couch (wtf?). Then she said she didn't care and that she is not jealous etc etc. At one point I was talking to her and she said I was cussing at her. I wasn't. Yes, I did say SOME profane words as I was talking, but it was not at her (And she was being a hypocrite at that point because she told me fuck you, and she called me a fucker a little earlier) The whole thing was just retarded, but what really pissed me off was when she threatened to make me walk home because she was driving, and she told me to get out of her car when she droped me off. I was pissed. Fucking bullshit, I have my own fucking car. I could have gone out myself if I had to. I also fucking helped her fix this car. And I jumped her car out in fucking cold rain when her car wouldn't start.

Furthermore, I am not going to sit there and be nice and calm when someone is trying to lecture me and tell me what I did and didn't do, when I clearly know what I did.

Anyways, I woke up this morning and I was in kind of a good mood, so I texted her asking her if she was doing okay etc...she has not responded at all, and this isn't the first time she has done that.

I'm going to talk to her tomorrow and I'm going to tell her that she better not pull that "you are walking home" type power-trip shit again. And that if I tell her I didn't do something, she shouldn't tell me what I did and didn't do.

Goddamn, I am pissed. I feel completely disrespected and I am not going to take shit like this. What do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable?
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Bitches ain't shit. I would side with you if I went through dat. Sometimes chicks pick fights outta the blue cuz they felt they needed some drama to spice things up, or it was that time of the month.
 
THEY ARE TITS. They are made for looking at/feeling. She needs to deal with it. Especially when women are wearing low cut blouses at the disco.
 
ultim8p00 said:
I was pretty drunk at the time too, and pissed, which is not a good combination. She then told me that I didn't have a choice and that I was going to leave when she wanted to leave. I didn't feel like arguing or dancing anymore since it was so close to closing time, so I sat on the couch for 5 minutes, then we left.
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You little bitch. Should have left in a fucking cab.
 
Oh...

I was pretty drunk at the time too, and pissed, which is not a good combination. She then told me that I didn't have a choice and that I was going to leave when she wanted to leave. I didn't feel like arguing or dancing anymore since it was so close to closing time, so I sat on the couch for 5 minutes, then we left.
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Seriously man, you need to grow some balls. A woman wants a man, not a controllable kid.
 
New Haven Sandstorm said:
What's the big deal about sitting on the fucking couch? Are you saying he should have left or what?
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Just the idea of him sitting on the couch after she "scolded" him about the car thing is ridiculous. I'm not a relationship expert, but I don't think it takes one to call this.

I am actually very tempted to break-up with this girl. I just called her and she did not pick-up, and she still has not returned my text.

Let it be known that I tried. I am giving her until tomorrow. If she does not get back to me then I'm going to end it tomorrow. I'm not going to take petty bullshit.
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Man, you keep making mistakes. First the text message (yes, it was a mistake, cause it further proves your guilt) and then the call (this one is just dumb, I'm sorry).

Don't break up with her, just stop caring. And I promise you she will come back crawling, and then you can make up your mind at that moment.
 
Jeramii said:
My girlfriend and I usually compete to who can find the hottest chick when we are in public. It is great having someone like that..

Sorry op sounds like a shitty time.
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Hah. That's inevitably going to blow up in your face.

OP, could you have looked at black breasts and been good? Latina?
 
Ginko said:
Just the idea of him sitting on the couch after she "scolded" him about the car thing is ridiculous. I'm not a relationship expert, but I don't think it takes one to call this.
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If he's pouting then yeah that's dumb, but I just took it as him not giving a fuck/waiting to leave/dumb girlfriend killing the mood and him not feeling like dancing.
 
She's probably pissed at some other completely unrelated incident that you are completely unaware of. This was just the trigger.

EDIT: Looks like I'm not the only one who thought that :lol
 
Ginko said:
Oh...



Seriously man, you need to grow some balls. A woman wants a man, not a controllable kid.
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I know man, I know. I didn't think about calling a cab, but yeah, I sat there. That is the last time I ever let shit like that happen to me.

But the reason I sat down was because I did not want to dance anymore and I didn't know what to do. I fucking wanted to leave. I didn't think of a cab. I had the money too.

EDIT: No I was not pouting. But at that point I felt like a little bitch goddamn.
 
ultim8p00 said:
I am actually very tempted to break-up with this girl. I just called her and she did not pick-up, and she still has not returned my text.

Let it be known that I tried. I am giving her until tomorrow. If she does not get back to me then I'm going to end it tomorrow. I'm not going to take petty bullshit.
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Her pussy better be tight as hell, be a free ATM, cure cancer, make Christ rise from the dead and able to cook good food for you, if you take that much shit from her bitch ass. God damn man. Why?

She's a cunt, plain and simple. Tell her the shut the fuck u and dump her. End of story. No sane or reasonable person starts that much bullshit over such trivial matters.
 
You really need to speak to her about this situation as soon as possible. This kind of insecurity/immaturity is what made me choose to end my last relationship. And really, if she doesnÂ’t correct this, it will poison her existence all her life.
 
ultim8p00 said:
I am actually very tempted to break-up with this girl. I just called her and she did not pick-up, and she still has not returned my text.

Let it be known that I tried. I am giving her until tomorrow. If she does not get back to me then I'm going to end it tomorrow. I'm not going to take petty bullshit.
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She sounds kinda lame, to be honest. I don't think you would regret it if you had to cut things off with her.
 
xxjuicesxx said:
Sounds like you're dating my ex ha.
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Ditto. But mine is kinda an amplified version of this, put on top of that that I'm not the kind of guy who takes shit, so it was an insane relationship (the sex was good though).


Again, don't break up with her. Just stop caring (go to the gym, blow off some steam..etc), I promise you in a few days she will contact you with some bullshit like "sorry I was busy" or something like that. Then you can just show her that you stopped caring, or you can hear her pleading. Either way, you're the winner.
 
She has to prove you were looking at em. Get her to bring in some girls and do a line-up, see if you can pick them out from a crowd.
 
giga said:
Put a ring on it.
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This. You found a keeper, my man. :lol

@TC: If my girl caught me doing that, she'd probably be uncomfortable with it, but in the end she understands guys are guys.

Sounds like your chick has some deeper issues.
 
Being punished when you did nothing wrong is the worst situation to be in. I'd get the hell out of there. In my experience when a relationship has reached the point where you are arguing over petty shit like this that can't be resolved, the relationship has run it's course and you're only delaying the inevitable by sticking around and tolerating it.
 
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