Notice that out of all the logical outcomes, there is only 1 out of 4 where he stays happy with her
I think my girlfriend is cheating on me , should i just break up with her ?
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GymWolf
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If the girl is the flirty type and he can learn to trust her, there are 2 options.Notice that out of all the logical outcomes, there is only 1 out of 4 where he stays happy with her
Not saying that it is the right thing to do, but it is an option if being playful is coded in her dna and she is not a bitch, these people exist, not every playful woman is a bitch.
You believe in unicorns, don't you?
GymWolf
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My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with themYou believe in unicorns, don't you?
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
Old and ugly clients are the ones you CAN be playful with. It's the strapping younger guys that are the problem.My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
Bojji
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My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
Most of times they are bitches, but sometimes it's just personality.
And she is doing damage to some men that are stupid/desperate/lonely enough to to think that this is real.
Most men are not accustomed to smiles and compliments, lol.
GymWolf
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Nah, those old men know that she is just playful, they are smart enough to understand that.
Also, women are generally more handsy\playful here in sicily so men are used to it.
Sure it can happen that some rare dude can think otherwise but she is not gonna change her persona because some men haven't sniffed a pussy in years and are thirsty as fuck.
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Awwww shit, you shoulda said she was ITALIAN!!!!
Things different over here in the states. Can't let your women rub up on men, women have even been fired for calling people "hey honey" or "hello sugar", much less the cheek kissing nonsense you euros still do, ewww
I get flirty waitresses a lot, and even when you KNOW its just for the tips, there is a deep hardwired part of the male reptilian brain that says "go for it old man, you got a shot at her!!!"
Hell, the entire OF model is based on this male weakness.
GymWolf
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Sicilian, it's even worse, north italy are way more cold than us and not only for the weather...Awwww shit, you shoulda said she was ITALIAN!!!!
Things different over here in the states. Can't let your women rub up on men, women have even been fired for calling people "hey honey" or "hello sugar", much less the cheek kissing nonsense you euros still do, ewww
I get flirty waitresses a lot, and even when you KNOW its just for the tips, there is a deep hardwired part of the male reptilian brain that says "go for it old man, you got a shot at her!!!"
Hell, the entire OF model is based on this male weakness.
We are very playful and handsy people over here.
Greeting people with a semi hug with a fake kiss on both cheeks is basically a sicilian meme
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DeVeAn
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You got this man. It will sting, that's because you genuinely cared about her. You know yourself and trusted your gut. Not many can say the same. Things will get better.
Also, don't keep tabs, don't seek her out. You don't need to know what shes doing. Just my 2 cents.
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Signalis
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samoilaaa
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i already left her
man as a engaged woman if some dude bumps into you you dont say " are you trying to dominate me ? " and smile , you dont playfight with him , you dont let him grab you from behind your neck , you dont let him grab your ankle , women at my workplace are so respectful they never touched another man and never let another man touched them , i wouldnt dare because they have this aura that imposes respect
when we first started dating there were friends that told me she likes the attention , she is the party type girl , has a diamond gem in one on her front tooth , likes to wear leggings alot ( i went to her office to pick her up and she was coming from the gym in leggings , she dropped something and bend over to pick it up and 2 of her coworkers were staring like crazy , i would have starred too if i was them because she has an amazing round ass but the point is you dont dress to attract male gaze ) , always has to buy the newest iphone just because , always on snapchat , i didnt listen to them
she has this magnetic , outgoing personality that make you forget about everything
samoilaaa
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GymWolf
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I can definitely see the magnetic and outgoing personality in her.i would rather not but its something like this
demigod
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In USA, you get FIRED just for words. Touching is already a nono.
Donald mac Ronald
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Inspired by the heat 2 thread.
samoilaaa
Was actually gonna give you some level headed advice on it but you've already broken up.
But basically the age difference while isn't huge, but the years differe in maturity is. If she's in her 30s and you 40s you'd have no issue. But she's mid 20s still probably in that dip shit University age where she knows she's attractive and likes the attention. She doesn't realise even if it's harmless, an engaged soon to be married woman can't behave like that. An older woman probably would.
It would have been tricky because she'd insist it's harmless and not an issue and she loves you etc and why can't you accept it blah blah blah. You'd either have had to bite your lip or gloss over it. If you stuck to your guns, she'd end up pushing you away because in her brain she can't comprehend her behaviour is just completely unnecessarily.
When she hits her 30s she realise this shit. Many women do this.
Giallo Corsa
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Sicilian, it's even worse, north italy are way more cold than us and not only for the weather...
We are very playful and handsy people over here.
Greeting people with a semi hug with a fake kiss on both cheeks is basically a sicilian meme
Chittagong
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I'd say there is no shame in keeping ramming that until further noticei would rather not but its something like this
Donald mac Ronald
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True. He could have just mentally checked out, continued to drill and find other sources.
Harry stamper always hits his depth.
Tiago Rodrigues
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Just reading the OP...i don't think she's cheating on you yet OP.
But flirting the way she's flirting is disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Feels like she's at that stage right before something physical happens. Sexual tension building up, the teasing, etc...feels like it's a matter of time.
I know people too much to believe this will only stay this way. I'd casually bring up cheating as a topic of conversation, or mention her co-workers, how the job has been going and you check her body language, how she speaks about it all and see for yourself.
I'm just giving the benefit of the doubt here because this story came from someone else otherwise i'd just tell you to leave.
But flirting the way she's flirting is disrespectful to you and your relationship.
Feels like she's at that stage right before something physical happens. Sexual tension building up, the teasing, etc...feels like it's a matter of time.
I know people too much to believe this will only stay this way. I'd casually bring up cheating as a topic of conversation, or mention her co-workers, how the job has been going and you check her body language, how she speaks about it all and see for yourself.
I'm just giving the benefit of the doubt here because this story came from someone else otherwise i'd just tell you to leave.
Trilobit
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Is she single?My sister is that type, she is playful even with old, ugly clients just because it is in her nature and only a retard would think that she want to sleep with them
