NeoGAF Ban Review/Justice Project

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I have had "girl fiends" wile in a relationship before and know two very good friends that do, they keep it respectful and they don't have crazy girlfriends. I agree it is more rare and spending a lot of time with a female while married is a bad idea anyways. Keep it at an acquaintance level as I have said, it is a better word. I haven't had a true BFFs with a girl which is what it seems you are referring too.

Does your GF know your phone passcode?
 
Don't have a phone passcode. Never had anything to hide while dating.

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My crazy ex did go through my phone once and looked at a year old texts and freaked out on me though. The funny thing was the girl I was texting (also an ex) I had 0 interest in dating anymore. Tried to be friends with her but she was also a toxic bitch. Told me I would fail in college so I finally cut her off from my life.
 
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My crazy ex did go through my phone once and looked at a year old texts and freaked out on me though. The funny things was the girl I was texting (also an ex) I had 0 interest in dating anymore. Tried to be friends with her but she was also a toxic bitch. Told me I would fail in college so I finally cut her off of my life.
I had an ex that found an old photo of a previous girlfriend of mine from ten years ago in the bottom of a drawer and freaked out. "You are keeping and hiding this because you want to get back with her and still love her" type freakout. That former girlfriend was really fit though.
 
My crazy ex did go through my phone once and looked at a year old texts and freaked out on me though. The funny things was the girl I was texting (also an ex) I had 0 interest in dating anymore. Tried to be friends with her but she was also a toxic bitch. Told me I would fail in college so I finally cut her off of my life.

It don't matter. Here's a thing about women or at-least the women I've dated. Everything is a competition.
 
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Nothing good EVER comes from letting your gf handle your unlocked phone. Learned this myself a couple times.

This exactly on the flipside my wife doesn't know my pass-code but I let her know that she has nothing to be insecure about by devoting my time to her and my kids. Treat your phone as a luxary not a necessity.
 
Fiance has phone password, email password, and computer profile password. I have nothing to hide, so I'm not afraid to let her see any of it. She knows this, so she doesn't feel the need to look. Trust and all that.

Edit: I talk to other friends that are girls. Occasionally look at porn. She doesn't care, because she trusts me. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you don't have anything.
 
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Fiance has phone password, email password, and computer profile password. I have nothing to hide, so I'm not afraid to let her see any of it. She knows this, so she doesn't feel the need to look. Trust and all that.

Now, for a social experiment change all those passwords and wait to see what happens. :lollipop_horns:
 
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Fiance has phone password, email password, and computer profile password. I have nothing to hide, so I'm not afraid to let her see any of it. She knows this, so she doesn't feel the need to look. Trust and all that.

Edit: I talk to other friends that are girls. Occasionally look at porn. She doesn't care, because she trusts me. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you don't have anything.
If she trusts you then why does she have all your passwords for?
 
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Can someone give me a summary of what happened in gaf? Some people banned. Why close era-thread? Any rule changes happened?

presumably the capital riot was a catalyst: conspiracy theories and misinformation are getting cracked down in here now.
There's been a gradual shift in neogaf culture over the past 4 years or so and you could see it at a micro level in various users' post history; once normal rhetoric becomes conspiratorial hyperbole. It's not good for you nor I and certainty not neogaf. As far as the reset thread goes, I don't think it will get shut down. But the general premise of that thread can facilitate unwarranted hatred and vitriol towards individuals or groups of people. I think the re thread is important as a "bridge" between re and gaf, in that their moderation is comically atrocious and should be pointed out, while returners (who should not be vilified) have a smoother experience transitioning back to gaf with the help of that thread
 
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The ban list is looking more and more like a list of wrongthink.


That's doesn't appear to be even remotely worthy of a ban.
You got baited my man. Check the dude post history. There is a lot of that going on. Outwit them and let cooler heads prevail.
What cooler heads? Topics and ideas being being declared anathema means there's no room for argument. Congrats to the trolls, I guess.
 
The ban list is looking more and more like a list of wrongthink.

You really gonna call shit like "Ethnically cleansing western nations of white people is now the central purpose of western nations" wrongthink?
 
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The ban list is looking more and more like a list of wrongthink.



That's doesn't appear to be even remotely worthy of a ban.

What cooler heads? Topics and ideas being being declared anathema means there's no room for argument. Congrats to the trolls, I guess.

There is no argument for things like white nationalism. The folks I think you are referring to weren't banned because of frivolous reasons. You can be against racism/hatred against white folk, but when you start saying that there should be only white people or deny others for being nonwhite like those two did? You cross a line.
 
Not taking these careful precautions is why relationships can end.

It's happened to me, on a date and I got a video call, can't take it because it's an ex. So you reject it, and then the date asks who that was. Of course you can style it out but it's better not to be randomly put in that position. I muted my phone for all dates after that, it's the only way to be sure.
 
You really gonna call shit like "Ethnically cleansing western nations of white people is now the central purpose of western nations" wrongthink?

I didn't write that; please don't insert your own ideas in my posts.
There is no argument for things like white nationalism. The folks I think you are referring to weren't banned because of frivolous reasons. You can be against racism/hatred against white folk, but when you start saying that there should be only white people or deny others for being nonwhite like those two did? You cross a line.

I didn't refer to anyone, and I would hope that we all would be against racism against anyone, regardless of what group they belong to.
 
I didn't write that; please don't insert your own ideas in my posts.


I didn't refer to anyone, and I would hope that we all would be against racism against anyone, regardless of what group they belong to.

You wrote "The ban list is looking more and more like a list of wrongthink" 26 minutes ago and the most recent three bans aside from spam are for white nationalist stuff. You might want to make your position more clear rather than timing it that badly and assuming people will know exactly what you're thinking.
 
I didn't write that; please don't insert your own ideas in my posts.


I didn't refer to anyone, and I would hope that we all would be against racism against anyone, regardless of what group they belong to.

Then speak plainly and clearly. Don't say vague shit expecting people to read your mind.
 
The ban list is looking more and more like a list of wrongthink.



That's doesn't appear to be even remotely worthy of a ban.

What cooler heads? Topics and ideas being being declared anathema means there's no room for argument. Congrats to the trolls, I guess.

how can you argue with fantasies that are not fact based?

last one was saying the cop dead at the capitol was leftist propaganda
 
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Apologies if I'm missing something; I don't see where the dead officer relates to anything I quoted?
how can you argue with fantasies that are not fact based?

last one was saying the cop dead at the capitol was leftist propaganda

Cop ban was AFTER Ornlu's comment. Sorry, edit, that probably didn't help.
 
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