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Really? I've been seeing different in the past 37 pages of this thread.

Why are you basing it on this thread though? This is a video game player-centric thread with some people dwelling into other fandom, but still a video game-centric forum.

This has nothing to do with watching a TV show. I watched the pilot out of curiosity after the explosion of popularity here, and it wasn't for me, but it was cute and had elements that could be appreciated by all ages. I wouldn't begrudge anyone for watching it or saying that they enjoyed it, just as I wouldn't for something like Batman: TAS or a shounen anime or The Lion King.

Being a brony is a lifestyle choice.

No different from saying that you have those creepy anime fans who cosplay too far though.
 
I honestly feel like this thread is going in an endless cycle and that the same things keep getting repeated and nothing is learned.
 
This has nothing to do with watching a TV show. I watched the pilot out of curiosity after the explosion of popularity here, and it wasn't for me, but it was cute and had elements that could be appreciated by all ages. I wouldn't begrudge anyone for watching it or saying that they enjoyed it, just as I wouldn't for something like Batman: TAS or a shounen anime or The Lion King.

Being a brony is a lifestyle choice.

I guess it just depends on what you consider a 'brony'.

Someone who's a fan of the show and will gladly discuss it with other people who are fans

or

Someone who slathers over the newest 2" Rarity figure and who writes Macintosh/Shining Armor FanFiction

If you're talking about the second group. I agree and I don't want them around my son.
 
I guess it just depends on what you consider a 'brony'.

Someone who's a fan of the show and will gladly discuss it with other people who are fans

or

Someone who slathers over the newest 2" Rarity figure and who writes Macintosh/Shining Armor FanFiction

If you're talking about the second group. I agree and I don't want them around my son.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA that made my day. Though I have no idea how you know those names.
 
In which case my original post in response to his post stands. Any group who has within it a minority who takes it too far and are weird and fucking strange. There is a thread on NeoGAF dedicated to all things related to Doctor Who. Many rabid fans post in it every day. There are a small minority of Doctor Who fans that I wouldn't allow to watch my dog for fear of his innocence. That does not make me think anyone who watches Doctor Who or posts in the related threads are all sexually depraved weirdos.

I don't see it as a minority of 'bronies' being weird, I see the 'bronies' as the warped minority of the expanded fanbase. My take is, if you enjoy My Little Pony to the point where you describe yourself as a 'Brony' and eagerly collect MLP merchandise, you've gone wrong somewhere.

I keep typing up a longer post and then editing it back down to nothing so I'll just say that I don't get this shit and that's that. Of all the lifestyle choices that scream 'I'll never get laid', this one is almost top of the heap.

Not really no.

Just because parts of a group goes the deeper end doesn't mean the whole group is. Or are you equating all anime fans to be loli lovers? TMNT fans are furries (scalies)? Trek fans as those weird people with huge foreheads or long ears?
Anime fan is to loli lover as TMNT fan is to furry as MLP viewer is to Brony.
 
You missed the point of my post.

It's ironic that Evilore has chosen to generalize a harmless subculture in such a negative way with the exact same language that a subculture he probably belongs to has been generalized.

There is nothing fucked up about enjoying a TV show just as there is nothing fucked up about playing video games. There IS something fucked up about owning a fuckable Rainbow Dash plushie, just as there IS something fucked up about marrying your DS with a copy of Idol Master in it.

We aren't walking into these peoples' houses to ridicule them for watching a show, they're defining themselves by it, and that makes them completely open to ridicule. I like the show House but if I called myself a Housie and made videos of myself at Toys R Us buying the latest Hugh Laurie action figure and made a point to let everyone know about it, they would rightfully ask what the fuck is wrong with me. And that isn't even getting into the "this show is for children" factor.

I had to look up NAMBLA and now I hate you for it. But other than that if they ain't hurting anyone who cares?

People have to hurt someone in order for me to form an opinion of them? Who made that rule?
 
I don't see it as a minority of 'bronies' being weird, I see the 'bronies' as the warped minority of the expanded fanbase. My take is, if you enjoy My Little Pony to the point where you describe yourself as a 'Brony' and eagerly collect MLP merchandise, you've gone wrong somewhere.

I keep typing up a longer post and then editing it back down to nothing so I'll just say that I don't get this shit and that's that. Of all the lifestyle choices that scream 'I'll never get laid', this one is almost top of the heap.

Anime fan is to loli lover as TMNT fan is to furry as MLP viewer is to Brony.

Your analogous relationship description is okay with me, though I think the language has gotten confused for some fans where they'll identify themselves as 'Bronys' without knowing exactly what connotations that brings. You don't see Sonic fans saying they're furries without knowing full well what a furry is.
 
Anime fan is to loli lover as TMNT fan is to furry as MLP viewer is to Brony.

See, the problem is that to others brony isn't automatically the derogatory term (like how Trekkie isn't necessarily a derogatory term) since some apply it as a "general" term for an x fan. That's where the trouble starts.

I got your point though.

Your analogous relationship description is okay with me, though I think the language has gotten confused for some fans where they'll identify themselves as 'Bronys' without knowing exactly what connotations that brings. You don't see Sonic fans saying they're furries without knowing full well what a furry is.

And thank goodness furries don't associate with Sonic. Thank goodness.
 
I don't see it as a minority of 'bronies' being weird, I see the 'bronies' as the warped minority of the expanded fanbase. My take is, if you enjoy My Little Pony to the point where you describe yourself as a 'Brony' and eagerly collect MLP merchandise, you've gone wrong somewhere.

I keep typing up a longer post and then editing it back down to nothing so I'll just say that I don't get this shit and that's that. Of all the lifestyle choices that scream 'I'll never get laid', this one is almost top of the heap.


Anime fan is to loli lover as TMNT fan is to furry as MLP viewer is to Brony.

The problem is that well-adjusted people might also self-identify as a Brony, and they'll be caught under your criteria. Personally I hate the term, something is just off about it, but when I see a crazy person, I call them a crazy person, regardless of self-identified titles or associations.
 
The problem is that well-adjusted people might also self-identify as a Brony, and they'll be caught under your criteria. Personally I hate the term, something is just off about it, but when I see a crazy person, I call them a crazy person, regardless of self-identified titles or associations.

By definition, "well-adjusted" people would not identify themselves as a "brony".
 
I guess it just depends on what you consider a 'brony'.

Someone who's a fan of the show and will gladly discuss it with other people who are fans

or

Someone who slathers over the newest 2" Rarity figure and who writes Macintosh/Shining Armor FanFiction

If you're talking about the second group. I agree and I don't want them around my son.

The problem with all fandoms of sufficient size have is that their label almost always becomes the picture of the most extreme, hardcore fans. Blame the media or social networking but that's pretty much always been the case. Even if the majority of people in that fandom are otherwise completely average people who are simply fans of that genre/medium, calling them by their fandom's label instantly groups them with the most extreme nut-balls.

What the Majority Inside the Fandom Think:
Trekker = "Anyone who enjoys watching Star Trek and possibly collecting paraphernalia."
Otaku = "Anyone who enjoys watching anime and possibly collecting paraphernalia."
Furry = "Anyone who enjoys anthropomorphic art and possibly collecting paraphernalia."
Bronie = "An adult male who enjoys watching MLP and possibly collecting paraphernalia."

What the Majority Outside the Fandom Think:
Trekker = "Pocket-protecting, basement dwelling virgin who wears a Star fleet uniform to work."
Otaku = "Lolicon lusting creeper who collects hentai and thinks English dubs are 'Baka'."
Furry = "Fursuit wearing deviant who yiffs at conventions and believes they have the soul of a fox."
Bronie = "An adult, single male who gets off on Pinkie Pie and sings the MLP theme in public places."

Now, this is assuming the majority of each fanbase likely falls into the first category and the minority of extremes into the second. When I look objectively at these various fandoms this is what I see typically going on. However, I have to be honest and say that the whole Bronie thing is so new I'm not really sure if the majority are casual fans or obsessives.
 
Furry = "Fursuit wearing devient who yiffs at conventions and believes they have the soul of a fox."

You got the last one wrong.

That's otherkin :P

By definition, "well-adjusted" people would not identify themselves as a "brony".

But then you are using the "brony automatically means the crazies" identification.

Or would you agree a gamer is misogynistic, rude, and dorrito-eating slob too?
 
This thread is way too long, for something that could easily be summed up.

You like the cartoon? Fine. You like collecting figures? Fine. You like jerking off to the cartoon? Fine. Just tone it the fuck down, and realize it's only a cartoon.
 
This thread is way too long, for something that could easily be summed up.

You like the cartoon? Fine. You like collecting figures? Fine. You like jerking off to the cartoon? Fine. Just tone it the fuck down, and realize it's only a cartoon.

And most importantly, keep it to yourself.
 
I honestly feel like this thread is going in an endless cycle and that the same things keep getting repeated and nothing is learned.

Nothing will ever get learned in threads like these on the Internet, because some people have decided in advance that there exist a "never get laid" box in which people can be inserted due to a label attached to them, or how they express their like for something, or the hobbies they have.

If you believe there is an objective score card for life, and that someone can literally "lose" being a human being based on criteria outside of being destructive, sociopathic, amoral, or a just plain feckless asshole... then you're always going to find it easy and convenient to go about dividing people into categories that, almost inevitably, lift you up while lowering them. Because I've rarely seen someone who thinks this way, fail to place themselves higher in life's imaginary leaderboard than the people they pass judgement on.

As has been stated in this thread your "life has gone wrong" if you are, say, a brony. This statement is completely ridiculous in its presumption to judge the complete life and existence of another human being, but that's how shallow (but convenient) attitudes can be. I believe the supposed justification for such attitudes would go like this: "But look! The brony has defined his entire life by this thing I say is silly and foolish! Therefore I may accurately observe that there is nothing to this person's existence than silly foolishness!"

Aside from the fact that this entire rig is based on the assumption that there's an objective standard for what is "silly", for what human beings should all be acting like, and behaving like (spoiler alert: there isn't), it is self deceiving to presume you understand everything about a person by a thin slice. The fact that said slice "outrageous" you means nothing.

Generally, I believe the most morally justifiable grounds on which to judge other people in life involve their attitudes, behavior, or activities inflicting harm on others or society. In point of fact, we commonly attempt to stretch definitions in order to pass judgement on others - we weasel our way to insinuating that someone is in fact causing some form of nebulous "harm" to someone, somewhere, in order to slap them with censure and feel justified. This is the kind of rationalization that, in more serious topics, forms the foundation of The Gay Scare, or racism, or transphobia as just a few examples: arguing that X person is deviating from one's claimed norm of behavior. And somewhere down the line, that's just got to be causing this critical harm to people and society, so they've got to be stopped right now. Even if the chain to this supposed harm is vague and illogical.

The brony thing really pulls that thinking into the spotlight because, yeah, it's pretty inevitable the clash of contexts is going to make a lot of people uncomfortable. There's plenty of insinuations flying around that "brony" by definition somehow vaguely and inevitably leads to "pedophile" among other things down the line.

The cold irony of this entire subject in the context of where we are, is that despite some defense oriented claims made on GAF, video games are not wholly accepted by society even now. Oh sure, they're a lot more normalized today. But sad to say, you'll still find plenty of people who laugh at people who play video games, say they're losers. And - wait for it, it's coming - snort that they will never get laid.

(Getting laid does seem to be the primary criteria by which to judge whether someone deserves to continue life in the world as we know it. People do realize that even those you think don't deserve it have probably had sex, and may be having it right now? It's not as difficult as you think.)

And fear of this condemnation is still strong in many people who play games (using games as the example for contrast, here). Plenty of people will, when pressed, go on about despising the term "gamer" because it invites associating them with a stereotypical group that they feel still receives censure from society.

Turtles made of scorn, all the way down.
 
Well this thread sure got ugly

This thread is way too long, for something that could easily be summed up.

You like the cartoon? Fine. You like collecting figures? Fine. You like jerking off to the cartoon? Fine. Just tone it the fuck down, and realize it's only a cartoon.
And just behave when you're in a public place and all is well
 
I don't see the big deal. Can't the Marlon Brando lookalikes get together without it getting creepy?

Damnit, now i can't stop thinking of the hotel gag and the french waiter

By definition, "well-adjusted" people would not identify themselves as a "gamer".

But then who was definition?!?!

Many don't. I haven't called myself a gamer in years after seeing the stigma attached to it.
 
This thread is way too long, for something that could easily be summed up.

You like the cartoon? Fine. You like collecting figures? Fine. You like jerking off to the cartoon? Fine. Just tone it the fuck down, and realize it's only a cartoon.

No deal.

Also LoL sucks and Riven is trash.
 
Damnit, now i can't stop thinking of the hotel gag and the french waiter



Many don't. I haven't called myself a gamer in years after seeing the stigma attached to it.

Well guess what, who gives a shit what you think, I am going to apply my connotations as to what being a gamer mean, and foist it upon you and you have no say in it.

You are a fucking a gamer, and that means that
you're a really cool guy and we should totally hang out, fistbump?

Also Kaijima, I greatly appreciate everything you say, but I fear your well reasoned arguments will fall on deaf ears.
 
Well guess what, who gives a shit what you think, I am going to apply my connotations as to what being a gamer mean, and foist it upon you and you have no say in it.

You are a fucking a gamer, and that means that
you're a really cool guy and we should totally hang out, fistbump?

The thing is, noone is defining people as bronies if they like mlp, some fans identify as bronies unaware of the stigma currently involved.
 
The thing is, noone is defining people as bronies if they like mlp, some fans identify as bronies unaware of the stigma currently involved.

People will apply whatever label they see fit to disparage others, and will work tirelessly to make the connotations as negative as possible. But in order to conclusively prove what you're saying we should poll every single hater as to how they see pony fans. I think you can see the problem with that.
 
People will apply whatever label they see fit to disparage others, and will work tirelessly to make the connotations as negative as possible. But in order to conclusively prove what you're saying we should poll every single hater as to how they see pony fans. I think you can see the problem with that.

Most people in this very thread said they have no problem with pony fans, but instead the extreme fanbase, and even then, i may be proven wrong, but I don't see anyone applying the term brony to anyone who didn't call themselves that.
 
but everyone seems to be fine the the current status quo - meaning that people keep on making fun of bronies and avid MLP-fans pretending like it's completely normal to be obsessed about the show
 
Most people in this very thread said they have no problem with pony fans, but instead the extreme fanbase, and even then, i may be proven wrong, but I don't see anyone applying the term brony to anyone who didn't call themselves that.

I would hope so since Gaf is generally smarter and more informed than the average person. But the greater internet? You can't possibly speak for them all, the recent elections have proven that people can be very intolerant, irrationally so, and they'll say that with full unironic pride.
 
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Turtles made of scorn, all the way down.
What do you expect? Everyone should tolerate everything about everyone else all the time?

'Getting laid' is just shorthand for 'forming a meaningful long-term sexual relationship with another adult'. It isn't literally about dipping one's wick.

I also think you're overlooking the fact that people don't actually want Bronies wiped off the face of the planet. They merely wish to express their scorn and confusion at the 'lifestyle choices' that these people are making.

Apologies for the brevity of this post in the face of your well reasoned argument. I felt I'd better reply since you paraphrased me once or twice but I'm on the way out.
 
Your analogous relationship description is okay with me, though I think the language has gotten confused for some fans where they'll identify themselves as 'Bronys' without knowing exactly what connotations that brings. You don't see Sonic fans saying they're furries without knowing full well what a furry is.

I think this is where the ambiguous core lies on this issue: the line between fan and Brony, which is interpreted differently by, well, pretty much everyone.
 
What do you expect? Everyone should tolerate everything about everyone else all the time?

'Getting laid' is just shorthand for 'forming a meaningful long-term sexual relationship with another adult'. It isn't literally about dipping one's wick.

I also think you're overlooking the fact that people don't actually want Bronies wiped off the face of the planet. They merely wish to express their scorn and confusion at the 'lifestyle choices' that these people are making.

Apologies for the brevity of this post in the face of your well reasoned argument. I felt I'd better reply since you paraphrased me once or twice but I'm on the way out.

What I don't get is why there is scorn in the first place? Unless someone has wronged me personally, I don't really care what you do (unless you're hurting someone else in a non-consenting manner, you are scum if you do this), you can be white, black, Asian, Hispanic, mixed, gay, bi, trans, kink, furry, scaly, Sonic lover, fan-fic writer, Christian, Islamic, Athiest, Sikh, Scientologist, Flying Spaghetti worshiper and any infinite number of combinations of this non-exhaustive list. But guess what? Who cares. Unless they actually did something bad to me there is absolutely no reason to hate them. Those titles don't inherently make a person bad.

That is why I am confused, and why I find all this so fascinating.

I feel like I'm gonna get banned for this.
 
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