SquiddyCracker
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How about Jupiter?
We got any Jovian ladies in here?
We got any Jovian ladies in here?
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SquiddyCracker
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Seriously though, I know that Sailor Moon is popular with guys but would a Sailor Moon Blu-Ray set be welcomed by a woman?
CountAntonius
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I always thought girls went to Jupiter to get more stupider and boys went to mars to get more candy bars?
It's a cartoon meant for girls. Many of us grew up with it and probably still adore it (regardless of its actual quality which... isn't so great. But nostalgia.)
The Anti-Monitor
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I actually liked Dragon Ball a lot more, but I couldn't really watch Sailor Moon until I was a teen.
BladeWorker
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Will it carry special meaning for her?
Did she absolutely love it as a kid?
Has she expressed a desire to own it, but has never been able to find it before? (Or, is her old copy all scratched and worn and she needs a new one?)
Does she really really want it, but her miserly ways have kept her from spending the money?
If the answer to any of those questions is "yes", then sure. Otherwise, move on down the aisle.
Protip: these guidelines could be adapted for any sort of "should I get her this"? Line of inquiry.
SquiddyCracker
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I've heard it's "boots".
Universal great gift? I can't imagine there would be such a thing. People are so different.
Most people I know love to receive candy, but it's not my thing at all.
I know you crossed it out, but this definitely wouldn't be me either.
I hate wearing jewelry and would much rather have a book.
Money? *terrible*
Most people I know love to receive candy, but it's not my thing at all.
I know you crossed it out, but this definitely wouldn't be me either.
I hate wearing jewelry and would much rather have a book.Money? *terrible*
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BladeWorker
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I don't think there's anything "universal". Male, female, or in between I'm sure we've all had that experience where someone has bought something thinking that it was "universal" and not "for so-and-so".
SquiddyCracker
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I'm pretty sure edible stuff is universal.
H.Protagonist
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Aww... It's been on my mind lately as something I'd like to learn at least the basics of. I took a metal working class in high school, but it was all small stuff like rings and such. I think it's awesome that you made a crowbar, though!
It was about a week in I realized I get freaked out by machines and tools that could potentially maim you for life.
So much for my grand dreams of sword making.
Devolution
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Stuff that revolves around her interests. Also shows that you're paying attention.
BladeWorker
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I know a lot of people don't like to get food / candy products, but most of my 'gift' list is getting baking for Christmas this year. I don't have the budget to buy everyone a present.
In my favour is that I do make a mean almond bark, among other things.
Everyone I know loves food gifts. I seem to be the only one. I'm never rude enough to say that I don't appreciate it, but food gifts usually equal chocolate and chocolate makes me sick.
H.Protagonist
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Well, I'm not too freaked out by that (I have some impressive scarring/burns from Tech-Ed and my stint as a pastry chef already), but since I seem to get injured a lot maybe my aptitude is a bit poor for the more deadly trades?
Sword making does seem like a dream, but I'd go for something more like horse shoes or practical ironwork.
As for food gifts, they're a bit touch and go too. There's always something that the recipient might not like, is allergic to, etc. Stick with a nice meal out or as Dev said, something actually related to her interests.
BladeWorker
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Well, if I don't know them well enough to know what they're allergic to or what makes them gag, then they're probably not on my "To-Gift" list anyway.
H.Protagonist
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I would accept your almond bark with great joy.
shanshan310
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You've got it backwards bro. Girls go to mars to get more Bras, and boys go to jupiter to get more stupider.
aww
User 100115
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This.
I am one of those girls that wants nothing to do with jewelry or clothing or what have you. I can't wear jewelry anyhow, and clothes are only exciting if they are a Doctor Who t-shirt I don't already have.
That said, I do tend to really like food, as long as it isn't sweet.
This is hilarious because in General American "Mars" and "Bras" do not rhyme at ALL.
FallingEdge
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Someone on here already mentioned it, a gift card for a day spa. Put in a certain amount of money and they can choose whatever treatment they want, be it a manicure, haircut or massage. No one can say no to a free massage.
Edit: And Sailor Mars, all the way.
User 100115
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Actually, you know, I am about as far from 'girly' as you can get, and I would still be down for a day spa. +1
Devolution
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Oh dear lord. Going through this thread is hilarious.
Well ladygaf, my problem is that I like women, but they do not seem to like me.
I must admit I'm a superficial pig, in that I'm usually only attracted to women most would consider pretty or at least cute, but the problem for me is that I myself am ugly. I mean I have a pretty good body, I go to the gym on a daily basis, but my face is just...well it's bleh to say the least.
I'm not sure what to do. I never have had trouble talking to women, or people in general. In high school and everything before it, I was extremely social and had a ton of female friends. I'm in college now and I really don't talk to that many people, but I wouldn't say I'm shy. I have no problem making chit-chat if I have to, but I usually just go to class, go to the gym and then come home. I still talk to both guy and girl friends from the past but that's it.
So I really don't know what to do anymore. Should I just wait and see if I can meet an attractive girl that wants to slum it and hopefully in the end she favors my personality over looks, or what? I kind of have no idea what to do, as I'm kind of tired of it being this way.
I must admit I'm a superficial pig, in that I'm usually only attracted to women most would consider pretty or at least cute, but the problem for me is that I myself am ugly. I mean I have a pretty good body, I go to the gym on a daily basis, but my face is just...well it's bleh to say the least.
I'm not sure what to do. I never have had trouble talking to women, or people in general. In high school and everything before it, I was extremely social and had a ton of female friends. I'm in college now and I really don't talk to that many people, but I wouldn't say I'm shy. I have no problem making chit-chat if I have to, but I usually just go to class, go to the gym and then come home. I still talk to both guy and girl friends from the past but that's it.
So I really don't know what to do anymore. Should I just wait and see if I can meet an attractive girl that wants to slum it and hopefully in the end she favors my personality over looks, or what? I kind of have no idea what to do, as I'm kind of tired of it being this way.
I'll Third the Day Spa suggestion. Do some research into it as well, you don't want to send your significant other to the spa only to find that she'll have to go to the hospital later.
Also, when it comes to Sailor Soliders, for the Anime and Toku I'll take Jupiter, although the core 3 had a charming moment in the Toku involving a basketball court.
thebaroness
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I dunno, I tend to get offended if I'm given something that "all women are supposed to like." I feel like the guy in question should know me better if we're supposed to be more than friends. In a "you really think I'd just want more SHOES? I thought you knew me!" kind of way :eyeroll:.
If someone wants to get my attention, get me a book. I like books. Someone gets me a good book I don't have, there's a good chance of something sparking
But that's just me.
I'd say normally you can't go wrong with one of those gift packs from Victoria Secrets. The ones that come with scented lotion, body spray, lip gloss, a case, etc. Those are nice if only because they smell pretty.
shanshan310
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I think making a meal as a gift/date idea is always a winner. Most people enjoy food, and their SO making an effort to do something nice for them.
I'm trying to picture them not rhyming but I just can't do it. Its like that guy who said "Craig" rhymed with "stag". Its breaking my brain.
I'm trying to picture them not rhyming but I just can't do it. Its like that guy who said "Craig" rhymed with "stag". Its breaking my brain.
thebaroness
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What makes you feel you are unattractive to girls? Especially if you are not overweight. DO you have frog jowls? Horrible skin? Bad haircut? How about you fix those things if you feel attractiveness is important. Get a new style, wear some thick rimmed glasses. Wash your face. Make this your routine every morning:
http://youtu.be/FkaoPO1G10Y?t=30s
Also, if you're so sure you're ugly post a pic for us to be the judge. It might just be your own self esteem and that could be your problem with the ladies. Confidence is more important than looks.
Devolution
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Seen pics of izick, he's definitely exaggerating about the ugliness.
This x1000. I've dated a few guys who were not exactly great looking, but they were confident as fuck and that's sexy.
I have a good sense of style, I'm hygienic and I think my hair is pretty good. It's shorter and I keep good care of it and style it. As for skin I wouldn't say it's bad, but I am pale, and no matter how much I try I can't seem to ever get a good amount of color to it. I don't have frog jowls but I do have a big nose, and although I am fit I have a fat face which is bad.
I think it mostly has to do with us having a hard 'r' on Mars, which also colors the 'a' sound.
I know books works for me. Though the problem most people have is knowing which books I don't have already so they don't accidentally get me those.
On looks: Looks can only really be an initial barrier, as long as you can prove that you have a lot of other things to offer in a relationship, there are many girls to whom any perceived deficiencies would not be a hindrance.
Bam Bam Baklava
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Maybe you just need to accept you're never gonna look like Patrick Bateman and move on.
...move on to what?
shanshan310
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Yup yup. This seems to be the bit a lot of guys (at least in dating-age) don't seem to get. I don't think that our gender as a whole places as much weight on physical appearance as men do. Personality - and confidence - is what makes or breaks a man. No matter how many times I've said this in dating age though some guys just don't seem to understand
Perhaps that's why you get that fat husband hot wife stereotype in television so much. Hmm...
thebaroness
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I think he's joking because I posted the American Psycho clip...
Seriously dude, have you had your heart broken? Have you been dumped by someone you really cared for? DO you have a reason to be so down on yourself?
I've been dumped by guys I cared for very deeply, and it had nothing to do with my looks. Just talk to a girl like you want to be a friend. Any girl worth being with will appreciate a real conversation that isn't just about getting into her pants.
thebaroness
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is there a instructional manual on how to get a GF again ?
like from steps 1-500 ?
my confidence is probably a 5/10 atm thanks to several bad past relationships and just life in general
dating and relationships at 26 in NYC how does it work ?
tried online but the girls never message back....
tried talking to a bunch of friends and family members
everyone seem to already be in a steady long term relationship (friends of friends)
tried bars and clubs, never got any luck that way
I don't even know where to begin or end anymore
point me in a direction anyone....
like from steps 1-500 ?
my confidence is probably a 5/10 atm thanks to several bad past relationships and just life in general
dating and relationships at 26 in NYC how does it work ?
tried online but the girls never message back....
tried talking to a bunch of friends and family members
everyone seem to already be in a steady long term relationship (friends of friends)
tried bars and clubs, never got any luck that way
I don't even know where to begin or end anymore
point me in a direction anyone....
Yup yup. This seems to be the bit a lot of guys (at least in dating-age) don't seem to get. I don't think that our gender as a whole places as much weight on physical appearance as men do. Personality - and confidence - is what makes or breaks a man. No matter how many times I've said this in dating age though some guys just don't seem to understand
Perhaps that's why you get that fat husband hot wife stereotype in television so much. Hmm...
I don't know. I hear this all the time on the internet, but I usually don't see it in action in reality.
Not really...maybe once but I'm not even sure if I would say it was to that level.
I've talked to girls in the past, I mean I just talk to them as I have talked to dudes, and nothing usually comes from it, at least not romantically.
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