LadyGAF Advises ManGAF

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Izick said:
I didn't screw anything up. I tried to put off the inevitable and I did. She deserved better anyway.
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Dude, you got a girl to tell you you're cute and she wanted to hang out with you, if that ever happened to me I sure as hell wouldn't throw the opportunity away. I can't get a girl to tell me I'm cute, I don't have any "cute" qualities, but if a girl did tell me that I was cute and that she wanted to hang out with me I would be confident enough that I'm the best she could do. You have to confident about your abilities dude, and if you believe you don't have any abilities, then work on being a more interesting person.
 
NotTheGuyYouKill said:
LadyGAF, a question: Do you think wearing ties casually is trying too hard? I have lots of ties that I rarely wear. But winter's here, almost time to break out my new wool coat, I'm thinking about throwing a tie on with a nice dress shirt and jeans and the coat.

I always feel like a try-hard.
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I would say yes, ties are for business meetings. For a date, ties seem too uptight unless you're wearing a makeshift Doctor Who costume.

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HollovVpo1nt said:
:lol

If there's one thing I learned over the past few years is that most girls/women go for the looks only, regardless if a person is a serial killer.

I thought dudes were shallow. 6/10 girls these days want a 9/10 boyfriend.
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Then those are just some terrible people you've met. I would not say the majority of women are terrible people.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
:lol

If there's one thing I learned over the past few years is that most girls/women go for the looks only, regardless if a person is a serial killer.

I thought dudes were shallow. 6/10 girls these days want a 9/10 boyfriend.
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You hang around some shallow ass women, don't group all women into that category. I've dated some guys that were not attractive in the slightest because they were sweet and funny.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
:lol

If there's one thing I learned over the past few years is that most girls/women go for the looks only, regardless if a person is a serial killer.

I thought dudes were shallow. 6/10 girls these days want a 9/10 boyfriend.
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1. You don't know most girls/women.
2. Everyone wants someone they find attractive, physically is usually the first thought but personality always shines in the end.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
:lol

If there's one thing I learned over the past few years is that most girls/women go for the looks only, regardless if a person is a serial killer.

I thought dudes were shallow. 6/10 girls these days want a 9/10 boyfriend.
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How is it lol? If someone is hot but a fucking debbie downer moody asshole why would someone want to deal with their shit?
 
Random question...

I haven't actually attempted to sing (decently) in a long time, however I think with some practice I think I could pull it off quite well. How is t usually seen when the groom sings to the bride even if it's not the best? Do I still get an 'A' for effort/being romantic, or unless it's flawless should I not even attempt it?
 
Singing for the bride? That sounds incredibly sweet, regardless of how off key you are. I think it would be appreciated, myself.
 
Devolution said:
How is it lol? If someone is hot but a fucking debbie downer moody asshole why would someone want to deal with their shit?
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Because that someone wants to put his dingdong in her vajayjay and visa versa.

At least that's my experience with women.

The reason I said lol is because when 'confidence>looks' is the same motivational line as many other that aren't true.
 
TommyT said:
Random question...

I haven't actually attempted to sing (decently) in a long time, however I think with some practice I think I could pull it off quite well. How is t usually seen when the groom sings to the bride even if it's not the best? Do I still get an 'A' for effort/being romantic, or unless it's flawless should I not even attempt it?
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Probably not, unless the song is really important to the girl.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
Because that someone wants to put his dingdong in her vajayjay and visa versa.

At least that's my experience with women.

The reason I said lol is because when 'confidence>looks' is the same motivational line as many other that aren't true.
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I know plenty of people like that. Hot is hot.

EDIT: Goes for both genders.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
Because that someone wants to put his dingdong in her vajayjay and visa versa.

At least that's my experience with women.

The reason I said lol is because when 'confidence>looks' is the same motivational line as many other that aren't true.
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At this point one will just stop arguing with you. You are just wrong and obviously have a narrow view point on the opposite sex.

And what are you, in middle school? Who calls it a vajayjay?
 
NotTheGuyYouKill said:
LadyGAF, a question: Do you think wearing ties casually is trying too hard? I have lots of ties that I rarely wear. But winter's here, almost time to break out my new wool coat, I'm thinking about throwing a tie on with a nice dress shirt and jeans and the coat.

I always feel like a try-hard.
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Not LadyGAF, but style is style, my friend.

On that note, I usually get more compliments on how I dress from men over women... like when I first went to the bar. Exclusively complimented by guys.
 
Guy-gaffers, give this podcast a listen if you have trouble understanding how your disposition comes into play when trying to attract women.
http://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-009-women-are-not-just-a-pain-in-the-ass/

short summary said:
This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women work.
We learn how women perceive men and how we can “show up” more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women.
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I wear ties around campus on occasion. Some days I'll wear a dress shirt with a tie and a v-neck sweater. I've gotten a few comments (mostly along the lines of "lol why are you dressed up") and have never gotten a negative reaction, though I doubt someone would straight up tell me that I look uptight.

So I don't know. I'm sure there are some people who like it and some that don't.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
Because that someone wants to put his dingdong in her vajayjay and visa versa.

At least that's my experience with women.

The reason I said lol is because when 'confidence>looks' is the same motivational line as many other that aren't true.
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It doesn't surprise me that your crowd is full of shallow idiots.
 
thebaroness said:
At this point one will just stop arguing with you. You are just wrong and obviously have a narrow view point on the opposite sex.

And what are you, in middle school? Who calls it a vajayjay?
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I don't have a narrow view on anything. It's my observation. And from my observation, you can be as confident as Jackie Chan, but if you aren't attractive you might as well stay home.

And I can say that because I've appeared with average looks before women and with 'try-hard' looks before women. Regardles of the clothes, I'm not that attractive. But, women will at least talk to me when I look like a MTV/Jersey Shore douche.

And I didn't know you had to be in middleschool to call a vagina a vajayjay
But hey, I guess you're professor doctor masters of nanoscience here so I have to call genitaia by their scientific names.

Devolution said:
It doesn't surprise me that your crowd is full of shallow idiots.
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Is that supposed to sting/ is it a punchline cause 8'm genuinly not getting it.
 
Atramental said:
That just the fucking ad at the beginning you dunce.

Fast forward a minute or two ahead.
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I continued to listen (11 minutes in) to these people and they're absolute charlatans. It's like THE SECRET for male/female romance. It's all bull.

Also, I'd prefer it if you didn't call me a dunce. That's not very nice.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
I don't have a narrow view on anything. It's my observation. And from my observation, you can be as confident as Jackie Chan, but if you aren't attractive you might as well stay home.

And I can say that because I've appeared with average looks before women and with 'try-hard' looks before women. Regardles of the clothes, I'm not that attractive. But, women will at least talk to me when I look like a MTV/Jersey Shore douche.

And I didn't know you had to be in middleschool to call a vagina a vajayjay
But hey, I guess you're professor doctor masters of nanoscience here so I have to call genitaia by their scientific names.
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Oh man, you're right. So dreamy, I guess I've been wrong all these years. I guess I should leave every man I've ever loved behind and run away with The Situation.

And for the record Jackie Chan is pretty hot.
 
Regardless of what you look like, there are people who won't find you attractive. That is just the way it is. Roll with what you have and be proud of it.
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
I don't have a narrow view on anything. It's my observation. And from my observation, you can be as confident as Jackie Chan, but if you aren't attractive you might as well stay home.

And I can say that because I've appeared with average looks before women and with 'try-hard' looks before women. Regardles of the clothes, I'm not that attractive. But, women will at least talk to me when I look like a MTV/Jersey Shore douche.

And I didn't know you had to be in middleschool to call a vagina a vajayjay
But hey, I guess you're professor doctor masters of nanoscience here so I have to call genitaia by their scientific names.
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I don't think I could date a woman who would date a jersey shore guy or even find them attractive overall. Say that have nice bodies OK but attraction beyond that and I'm out.
 
CountAntonius said:
I don't think I could date a woman who would date a jersey shore guy or even find them attractive overall. Say that have nice bodies OK but attraction beyond that and I'm out.
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That's kind of narrow minded though. Would you really want someone to hold your attractions against you?
 
HollovVpo1nt said:
I don't have a narrow view on anything. It's my observation. And from my observation, you can be as confident as Jackie Chan, but if you aren't attractive you might as well stay home.

And I can say that because I've appeared with average looks before women and with 'try-hard' looks before women. Regardles of the clothes, I'm not that attractive. But, women will at least talk to me when I look like a MTV/Jersey Shore douche.
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You rate women and men on 10-point scales and call us shallow? You must have a very well-developed sense of irony.
 
thebaroness said:
I take offense to someone saying my entire gender wants orange muscle heads.
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It's just a stereotype.

All women want orange meatheads and all men want are double-D, hourglass shaped bimbos.

CountAntonius said:
I really don't give a shit if its narrow minded. That's the beauty of choice. Odds are a girl into those guys wouldn't be into me anyway.
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No reason to get hostile, pal. Just giving an observation.
 
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