Remembering Ryan Davis, 1979 - 2013

The people constantly whining about the people wondering how he died need to chill the hell out. Its completely natural to want know how someone you held dear died. If your friend died tommorow you're telling me you wouldn't want to know how? At the same time it's also completely understandable if the Davis family don't want to talk about it. But the simple act of asking is harmless and means no disrespect.
Yeah but in the 'real' world if someone you held dear died you would know how it happened. Would you keep knocking on the door of loved ones of the person past away if they didn't inform you how they had died?
 
...what? Jeff was replying to someones suggestion to do one more podcast and call it quits. He said nothing of when the podcast would return.

He was proud of never missing a Tuesday.

That's what I'm referring to... Of course, I would understand if they chose not to.

Yeah but in the 'real' world if someone you held dear died you would know how it happened. Would you keep knocking on the door of loved ones of the person past away if they didn't inform you how they had died?

Only we're not badgering the family or his friends... Just speculative discussion.
 
Found it!
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Only we're not badgering the family or his friends... Just speculative discussion.

that's wrong in my eyes and disrespectful. If you care for someone but aren't a close friend or family then you should be patient and respectful of the situation, and the fact that your loss isn't comparable in any way to his families. Your need to know is nothing in comparison.
 
Yeah but in the 'real' world if someone you held dear died you would know how it happened. Would you keep knocking on the door of loved ones of the person past away if they didn't inform you how they had died?

Let's put it this way - Let's say you're buying groceries and you run into Steve who tells you Trevor - who you were good friends with in high school but haven't seen in a few years - passed away. Your first action would be, without question, to ask how he died, as in, "Oh, god! What happened?"

I guarantee you.

Ryan Davis was the good old high school friend we never had.

Being insanely curious about death is part of what makes us human.
 
A good compromise might be to do a short 30 minute cast, just informing people who only listen to the podcast what has happened, how everyone is holding up, and to assure us the podcast and Giant Bomb will continue into the foreseeable future, and this would hold us over until a more complete farewell could be arranged.

Oh man, I hadn't even thought about that. I'd wager the vast majority of the people who listen to it don't frequent GAF, GB or follow them on Twitter.
 
Now I'm remembering the Nintendownload X-press feud and how Ryan just kept getting madder and madder as Jeff pushed it more and more, and then tried to play it off like he was just joking. :(
 
that's wrong in my eyes and disrespectful. If you care for someone but aren't a close friend or family then you should be patient and respectful of the situation, and the fact that your loss isn't comparable in any way to his families. Your need to know is nothing in comparison.

Fuck off with this.

For certain people, losing an icon or an idol can easily carry the weight of losing a friend or a brother. No one should be made to feel bad about the fact that they feel bad.
 
I agree about finding out how he died. No reason to hide it. It happens to everyone. Sure give it some time before coming out about it, but don't keep it hidden with a blanket "natural causes" statement. That will only fuel rumors in due time anyways.

It's always tragic when someone passes away and when I told my girlfriend about it yesterday who doesn't know of him or care that much about videogames the first question she asked was "what happened?" So yea people want to know how/why someone dies especially when there this young. It's the same question I would ask if she told me about someone who died. I mean ultimately 10,20,30,50,100 years from now it won't matter how he died but now it's something I would like to know since it's relevant to my interests in giantbomb, the website, the bombcast and gaming in general.
 
that's wrong in my eyes and disrespectful. If you care for someone but aren't a close friend or family then you should be patient and respectful of the situation, and the fact that your loss isn't comparable in any way to his families. Your need to know is nothing in comparison.

I hear that and will continue to respect that but there's no denying that question is the elephant in the room. People will speculate. Its bound to happen when no reason is given for someone so young, for someone so loved by the community. We all want to know why this is happening. How could this happen? He was the life of the GB party. Why? Just... why?
 
I thought it was all actually just a joke

I'm pretty sure it started out as Ryan and Jeff just joking around, and then in their usual manner it got pushed until Ryan actually started to get annoyed with it, which then wrapped around to being a joke again.

Specifically the part where Ryan put up a petition to stop the X-press in exchange for an early Bombcast if they reached a certain number of signatures, and Jeff put up a "NDX RULEZ, RYAN DROOLZ" petition that got like triple the signatures in an hour and Ryan went on a big Twitter huff about how it was all a joke so he didn't lose anything, wrestling's fake nerds
 
I'm not a massive Giant Bomb fan, probably visit 2-3 times a week to watch their Quick Looks & read reviews, but this news has saddened me. Every time I've seen Ryan in the live streams, he's usually the stand out personality There's not many people in the game industry that are truly likeable, but Ryan was. He will be missed, RIP Mr Davis.
 
Regarding the possibility of podcast tonight, I did find it curious that the title of the latest 8-4 Play podcast is This is your next podcast in capital letters. I won't blame them one bit if they don't do one tonight.
 
Regarding the possibility of podcast tonight, I did find it curious that the title of the latest 8-4 Play podcast is This is your next podcast in capital letters. I won't blame them one bit if they don't do one tonight.
That cast is like a week old and I thought it was a reference to the edge "this is your next console" cover story.
 
Regarding the possibility of podcast tonight, I did find it curious that the title of the latest 8-4 Play podcast is This is your next podcast in capital letters. I won't blame them one bit if they don't do one tonight.

There's definitely no connection there. The title is just refering to Edge's "This is your next consle" cover.
 
Regarding the possibility of podcast tonight, I did find it curious that the title of the latest 8-4 Play podcast is This is your next podcast in capital letters. I won't blame them one bit if they don't do one tonight.

That's a reference to the EDGE cover about the PS4, which said 'THIS IS YOUR NEXT CONSOLE'. Nothing else.
 
Ok now this is weird. This is when I normally listen to the bombcast.

Might listen to an old one. But that might be even weirder.

Miss ya Ryan :(
 
that's wrong in my eyes and disrespectful. If you care for someone but aren't a close friend or family then you should be patient and respectful of the situation, and the fact that your loss isn't comparable in any way to his families. Your need to know is nothing in comparison.

Well that's in your eyes. Don't concern yourself with what others think and don't talk down to them for asking about his death. You can fuck right off telling other people how to behave after someone's death.
 
What good could come of revealing it? What if it was some health problem, do we need threads filled with people saying he should've lived healthier? The cause is nothing but a distraction and just because people want one doesn't mean they should have one.
I don't see anything wrong with that necessarily. If Ryan passed away due to some horrible complication involving lack of sleep, prescription drugs, and weight related issues, it could help others in danger of mixing/messing with any of that. Not saying any family or friends should feel obligated to make this tragedy serve as a cautionary tale, but you asked, so there's the good that could come of it.
 
I'm thinking of making a tread along the lines of "I'm getting a Giant Bomb subscription, who else?", would it be in poor taste? I'm very ambivalent about it so if you guys think it would be in poor taste, I'll just skip it. It wouldn't be some kind of huge charity drive like 8bit tried to do, just a small thread encouraging people to support the GB guys in the best way we can right now. So, unnecessary and in poor taste or ok?
 
I'm thinking of making a tread along the lines of "I'm getting a Giant Bomb subscription, who else?", would it be in poor taste? I'm very ambivalent about it so if you guys think it would be in poor taste, I'll just skip it. It wouldn't be some kind of huge charity drive like 8bit tried to do, just a small thread encouraging people to support the GB guys in the best way we can right now. So, unnecessary and in poor taste or ok?

Poor taste imo. Giving money is not helping them with their loss.
 
I'm thinking of making a tread along the lines of "I'm getting a Giant Bomb subscription, who else?", would it be in poor taste? I'm very ambivalent about it so if you guys think it would be in poor taste, I'll just skip it. It wouldn't be some kind of huge charity drive like 8bit tried to do, just a small thread encouraging people to support the GB guys in the best way we can right now. So, unnecessary and in poor taste or ok?

Maybe in a few weeks? It feels too soon for anything like that, but what do I know, everything about this sucks.
 
The NDX rogue podcast storyline was the best storyline Giant Bomb has ever done.

It felt like a real wrestling bit which made it even better.

edit: I think I'm over the mourning phase now. I mean I never knew the guy personally so my connection to him isn't as strong as his friends or family but after watching content he is in I can't help but smile and feel better. I'm sure thats what he would've wanted, all of us smiling and having a good time. All we have left is memories, but damn they are all great memories that we can rewatch as much as we want.
 
In a way, it's reminded me how lucky we are that this is such a young industry. We so rarely have to deal with the passings of those we admire and respect unless it's someone gone way to young, like Ryan, or someone from the very early days of gaming.

We should cherish these days, they won't last forever.
 
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