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ConradCervantes said:
This is when I tend to stop for a while, let her muscles acclimate to my girth, and tend to her needs, kissing her breasts or masturbating her once more, whatever she needs to let herself accept my johnson in her bum. In our experience, it takes a few minutes of this until she's ready for me to take her to pound-town, but she's become pretty damn good at it. I've been able to hit it as hard as I hit her pussy, which says a lot about her resilience.
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Thats hot.
 
ConradCervantes said:
On nights when my girlfriend and I want to explore alternative methods of intercourse, I make sure to keep her as pleased and loosened up as possible. I perform oral on her and masturbate her while she lies in my arms, and since she's into BDSM I whisper into her ear all of the filthy things I would do the next time I tie her up. It doesn't take long for her to cum once or twice if my promises are explicit enough.

From there we usually are able to proceed to vaginal sex, and since she likes it from behind, I take the opportunity to begin prepping her ass for invasion by licking my thumb and slowly massaging the area around the hole, and occasionally the hole itself. This helps her relax a bit, knowing that I'm back there and not just dive-bombing into her butt.

We use Astroglide for lube, and it's while I'm railing her puss from behind that I take a little dollop of lube and begin to penetrate her backdoor with my fingers slooooooowly. The anal experience is all about making the receiving partner as comfortable with it as possible. I'm usually able to go up to three lubed fingers until she considers herself "ready, baby."

She prefers anal via missionary because she only has to concentrate on my wang slipping up her butt instead of that AND riding me/balancing on her knees and hands/piledriver. I drop another dollop of lube onto my pee-pee and work it over until it has a nice shine to it, like a high schooler buffing out a finished piece in jewelry class. I then rub the head of my wiener against her brown-eye, gradually applying more and more pressure--with her consent, of course--until I'm pretty much balls-deep.

This is when I tend to stop for a while, let her muscles acclimate to my girth, and tend to her needs, kissing her breasts or masturbating her once more, whatever she needs to let herself accept my johnson in her bum. In our experience, it takes a few minutes of this until she's ready for me to take her to pound-town, but she's become pretty damn good at it. I've been able to hit it as hard as I hit her pussy, which says a lot about her resilience.

Well, that's my advice. Mileage may vary, but the basics should remain the same. Take it slow, make it about the receiver and not your own need to drop a load in that tight ass, and if he/she looks like they just stubbed all their toes and got their genitals waxed simultaneously, then slow the fuck down. Good luck, and god speed.
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I came.
 
Good stuff, Conrad. My girl actually prefers anal to vaginal now. We don't use lube anymore, either. She does ass to mouth without even asking for permission, but then again she gets off when I choke and hit her. Daddy issues are a guy's best friend, GAF.
 
ConradCervantes said:
On nights when my girlfriend and I want to explore alternative methods of intercourse, I make sure to keep her as pleased and loosened up as possible. I perform oral on her and masturbate her while she lies in my arms, and since she's into BDSM I whisper into her ear all of the filthy things I would do the next time I tie her up. It doesn't take long for her to cum once or twice if my promises are explicit enough.

From there we usually are able to proceed to vaginal sex, and since she likes it from behind, I take the opportunity to begin prepping her ass for invasion by licking my thumb and slowly massaging the area around the hole, and occasionally the hole itself. This helps her relax a bit, knowing that I'm back there and not just dive-bombing into her butt.

We use Astroglide for lube, and it's while I'm railing her puss from behind that I take a little dollop of lube and begin to penetrate her backdoor with my fingers slooooooowly. The anal experience is all about making the receiving partner as comfortable with it as possible. I'm usually able to go up to three lubed fingers until she considers herself "ready, baby."

She prefers anal via missionary because she only has to concentrate on my wang slipping up her butt instead of that AND riding me/balancing on her knees and hands/piledriver. I drop another dollop of lube onto my pee-pee and work it over until it has a nice shine to it, like a high schooler buffing out a finished piece in jewelry class. I then rub the head of my wiener against her brown-eye, gradually applying more and more pressure--with her consent, of course--until I'm pretty much balls-deep.

This is when I tend to stop for a while, let her muscles acclimate to my girth, and tend to her needs, kissing her breasts or masturbating her once more, whatever she needs to let herself accept my johnson in her bum. In our experience, it takes a few minutes of this until she's ready for me to take her to pound-town, but she's become pretty damn good at it. I've been able to hit it as hard as I hit her pussy, which says a lot about her resilience.

Well, that's my advice. Mileage may vary, but the basics should remain the same. Take it slow, make it about the receiver and not your own need to drop a load in that tight ass, and if he/she looks like they just stubbed all their toes and got their genitals waxed simultaneously, then slow the fuck down. Good luck, and god speed.
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Joseca said:
Guys, what's BDSM?
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When you choke out your whore, and tell her that she's a worthless piece of shit that was born to be fucked in the ass by you.

Then when you're done you spoon, tell her she's the most amazing girl in the word while you feed her strawberries and backrubs.

Man.
 
Truant said:
When you choke out your whore, and tell her that she's a worthless piece of shit that was born to be fucked in the ass by you.

Then when you're done you spoon, tell her she's the most amazing girl in the word while you feed her strawberries and backrubs.

Man.
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Jesus christ
 
I had the most amazing anal sex on Sunday with the gf. 4th attempt since we tried a few weeks ago, which wasn't particularly good. However this time we used a different lube over than the flavored one we usually use, which gets really sticky. So much better.

After a few minutes I was able to actually pound her ass. Best orgasm she's ever had apparently. I'm working on ATM now.
 
Truant said:
She does ass to mouth without even asking for permission, but then again she gets off when I choke and hit her.
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My man!

My GF loves it when I choke her and talk shit

Perhaps you can advise me though? She always says to me 'I want you be as dirty as you want with me' but I run out of ideas outside of the above.

Recommendations?
 
Opus Angelorum said:
My man!

My GF loves it when I choke her and talk shit

Perhaps you can advise me though? She always says to me 'I want you be as dirty as you want with me' but I run out of ideas outside of the above.

Recommendations?
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Do you live with her? I won't live with mine for another year yet, so whenever we're getting into it heavily, I always tell how when I get home after a hard day of work, I'll come into the bedroom and untie her from the bedposts and lead her out by her leash so I can have a foot stool upon which I can rest my weary feet. If she performs her task admirably enough, I just may let her play with a certain bone. She likes that one, to say the least.

If that's a little too intense, I also like looking my girl dead in the eyes and asking her exactly who her pussy belongs to. If I don't hear the words "It's yours, sir," I get the clothespins out and begin searching for sensitive areas to apply them to.
 
ConradCervantes said:
Do you live with her? I won't live with mine for another year yet, so whenever we're getting into it heavily, I always tell how when I get home after a hard day of work, I'll come into the bedroom and untie her from the bedposts and lead her out by her leash so I can have a foot stool upon which I can rest my weary feet. If she performs her task admirably enough, I just may let her play with a certain bone. She likes that one, to say the least.

If that's a little too intense, I also like looking my girl dead in the eyes and asking her exactly who her pussy belongs to. If I don't hear the words "It's yours, sir," I get the clothespins out and begin searching for sensitive areas to apply them to.
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Yes we live together. She has suggested on several occasions being tied up and left 'to my devices'. I don't think the more humiliating slave aspect would appeal.

We do have that sort of 'who is your daddy' talk, a bit of slapping and pinching.

MarkMclovin said:
I'm working on ATM now.
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I'm curious as to how you go about this.
 
Depends on her personality type, but I know a lot of girls who love it when you make them call you daddy or sir.

Also, ass spanking is always popular. Maybe talk down on her, while roughing her up a bit. It's always hard to really know how rough a girl likes it, so be moderate at first. You'll know if you've stepped over the line.

My girl wants me to piss on her and yell on here while she's crying in the shower. Pretty fucked up, but whatever works for her. FYI: She's a super snart and socially intelligent girl, so it suprised me to find out how kinky she was in the sack.

TL;DR: Stay in charge. Do what you want. Be a rough asshole, but never make her forget you love her.

Edit: Regarding ATM, just do it. Pull out and shove it in her mouth. She'll respond better to that than if you ask her. Just make sure you're not covered in poo. Anal is only hot if it's clean.
 
Truant said:
Depends on her personality type, but I know a lot of girls who love it when you make them call you daddy or sir.

Also, ass spanking is always popular. Maybe talk down on her, while roughing her up a bit. It's always hard to really know how rough a girl likes it, so be moderate at first. You'll know if you've stepped over the line.

My girl wants me to piss on her and yell on here while she's crying in the shower. Pretty fucked up, but whatever works for her. FYI: She's a super snart and socially intelligent girl, so it suprised me to find out how kinky she was in the sack.

TL;DR: Stay in charge. Do what you want. Be a rough asshole, but never make her forget you love her.
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Seconded. My girl and I were watching New Girl on Netflix, and right as she cooed "Ooh, I love her!" it struck me how alike she and Zooey are, and even more so how a goody-goody like my girl could be such a kinkster. Like you said, though, daddy issues reign supreme. I've used adjectives like "fuck slave" and "cum dumpster" and she eats it up and eggs me on for more. She's even asked me to tie her up and go to a baseball game with my friends when we eventually live together, to which I responded that my team had better not lose for her sake. Of course she sing-songed "Go, Other Team!"
 
Conrad and Truant must be the best fucking lovers ever.

Dominant/submissive sex relatioships are the best.

If that's a little too intense, I also like looking my girl dead in the eyes and asking her exactly who her pussy belongs to. If I don't hear the words "It's yours, sir," I get the clothespins out and begin searching for sensitive areas to apply them to.
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I've experienced it word by word, literally, only in a gay relationship.

I'd fuck a guy doggy style and command him to turn his head and look back at me, and look me in the eye while I fuck him. I'd ocassionally ask that question, who his ass belongs too. If he looks at me with an expression of "man, you are so mean, you are pounding me so hard, please have some mercy!" then it just fuels my lust.
 
i'm into choking/hitting/putting it in dat ass, but i've never really understood the sexual appeal of watersports. pissing on someone in the shower is some next level gross/degrading shit (i guess the urine itself as opposed to the act bothers me more hahaha).
 
captainraincoat said:
tips for success when going prison style.

Clear the pipes...unless u are doing it in a shower

Lots of lube...spit or water is not lube

Dont pound it like a vagina

If your married..ditch the condom..be a man and get a tan

Number one tip
Dont jump in and out of holes...wipe your junk before you get off the Hershey highway and drive into vaginaville.....I know you see it on pornos all the time but the amount of bacteria up an ass will cause a nasty infection if it catches.

Enjoy
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Pipes should be a no fucking brainer, unless you wanna drag mud outta the trench...

I can work her ass just fine with some prison lube and her magical vaginal juices

I can rail that shit harder than her vagina, but YMMV.

Condoms and anal, eh, just skip it if ya gotta wrap it.

We pop in and out back and forth and have never had an issue, it's about keeping it clean....

That all being said, I have a woman that constantly wants me in her backdoor, and I couldn't be happier to oblige.
 
sphinx said:
Conrad and Truant must be the best fucking lovers ever.

Dominant/submissive sex relatioships are the best.



I've experienced it word by word, literally, only in a gay relationship.

I'd fuck a guy doggy style and command him to turn his head and look back at me, and look me in the eye while I fuck him. I'd ocassionally ask that question, who his ass belongs too. If he looks at me with an expression of "man, you are so mean, you are pounding me so hard, please have some mercy!" then it just fuels my lust.
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Good stuff!
Keep punding, man!
 
Truant said:
Good stuff!
Keep punding, man!
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the thing is, it is an art to play the dominant role, you have to think carefully about what you are going to say, make sure the nasty things you'll say to your partner are strictly sex oriented.

you can't say " hey, dumbass, you are a moron" in the middle of sex, they'll look back and say " wha? did I do something wrong?" and the magic will be lost..hahaha.
 
sphinx said:
the thing is, it is an art to play the dominant role, you have to think carefully about what you are going to say, make sure the nasty things you'll say to your partner are strictly sex oriented.
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I find it quite difficult at times, sometimes I think I'm going to say or do something but then hold back because it sounds weird in my head.

And I've been eating pineapple like a bastard and she still won't, if you know what I mean.
 
Opus Angelorum said:
I find it quite difficult at times, sometimes I think I'm going to say or do something but then hold back because it sounds weird in my head.

And I've been eating pineapple like a bastard and she still won't, if you know what I mean.
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if you want to have some cum fun and she isn't into it, I don't know if there is anything you can try to do to convince her to try it. Girls/gaybottoms either are huge cum whores or not at all into it, there appears to be no inbetween,

regarding the things you say, you gotta think about lines that would make her feel like the biggest slut in the world, not something that could be offensive, awkward or off putting. Not easy, I definitely understand what you mean.

And like the other guys said, you have to balance the thing, immediatley after that, treat her like the most loved woman on earth, soft hugs, ask how she's doing, smile to her, kiss her shoulder, make her feel protected in your presence, not abused, etc.
 
Man, this is a pretty fucked up thread.

I've gotten the tip of muh dick in a girl's ass once but we did not have lube and she couldn't take it. Not into the whole slap/choke/urinate thing though. I find it rather...unsettling
 
I'm glad that some of you straight guys get to experience the ass, even if it's not your own.

The ass is truly a perfect creation by God/evolution.

I mean, is it just a coincidence that fecal matter comes out shaped like a penis? I think not. There's no other reason for it. It was designed to be pounded by a firm throbbing dick, and pounded hard.
 
Kid_Ska said:
This is the greatest thread ever.
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Outside of the smut, it is actually educational.

sphinx said:
if you want to have some cum fun and she isn't into it, I don't know if there is anything you can try to do to convince her to try it.
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She takes the odd facial, so hopefully I can convince her.

sphinx said:
regarding the things you say, you gotta think about lines that would make her feel like the biggest slut in the world, not something that could be offensive, awkward or off putting. Not easy, I definitely understand what you mean.

And like the other guys said, you have to balance the thing, immediatley after that, treat her like the most loved woman on earth, soft hugs, ask how she's doing, smile to her, kiss her shoulder, make her feel protected in your presence, not abused, etc.
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Definitely a fine balance.
 
Opus Angelorum said:
She takes the odd facial, so hopefully I can convince her.
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there's some hope.. maybe she just dislikes the brutality othat comes with an orgasm, not the cum itself.

One thing you could do, if your penis is uncut:
is cumming and keeping the load within the foreskin and then slowly pour it in her mouth in small dosis
just an idea.
 
sphinx said:
there's some hope.. maybe she just dislikes the brutality othat comes with an orgasm, not the cum itself.

One thing you could do, if your penis is uncut:
is cumming and keeping the load within the foreskin and then slowly pour it in her mouth in small dosis
just an idea.
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Well she loves watching me cum, so it's not that.

She does mention the texture as being the problem. And a previous partner may have put her off.
 
For the OP, work her up to it. Get better lube. And go slow as heck until she's enjoying it. Then go all out. And don't try to do it every day. She won't want that, most likely. A once a week or maybe twice a week thing will probably be your limit.
 
BowieZ said:
I'm glad that some of you straight guys get to experience the ass, even if it's not your own.

The ass is truly a perfect creation by God/evolution.

I mean, is it just a coincidence that fecal matter comes out shaped like a penis? I think not. There's no other reason for it. It was designed to be pounded by a firm throbbing dick, and pounded hard.
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i cried.
 
Dicer said:
We pop in and out back and forth and have never had an issue, it's about keeping it clean....

That all being said, I have a woman that constantly wants me in her backdoor, and I couldn't be happier to oblige.
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Not gonna sugarcoat it but an ex of mine got a nasty infection in her vag after a session of repeated in and out of her holes and for girls who are vulnerable to thrush it make for an annoying break from horizontal activities while your mrs vagina heals up..i always have some antiseptic wipes handy if her sphincter tags out for the beef curtains.

Depends on the girl i suppose too....had another girlfriend that used to love it in the ass and nothing but the ass...she simply used her vagina as a storage locker for various vibrating objects that mildly resembled a penis and she also went ass to mouth....i don't think the thought of "im sucking on your pork sword that has been buried in my ass" came into it.

Oh i forgot a good tip to tell if she is ready for anal
If she is giving you head either in front or 69 stick two fingers in her ass and one in her vag and move your fingers back and forth (like you are holding a bowling ball) ...this relaxes the asshole ready for roger ramjet
 
ConradCervantes said:
On nights when my girlfriend and I want to explore alternative methods of intercourse, I make sure to keep her as pleased and loosened up as possible. I perform oral on her and masturbate her while she lies in my arms, and since she's into BDSM I whisper into her ear all of the filthy things I would do the next time I tie her up. It doesn't take long for her to cum once or twice if my promises are explicit enough.

From there we usually are able to proceed to vaginal sex, and since she likes it from behind, I take the opportunity to begin prepping her ass for invasion by licking my thumb and slowly massaging the area around the hole, and occasionally the hole itself. This helps her relax a bit, knowing that I'm back there and not just dive-bombing into her butt.

We use Astroglide for lube, and it's while I'm railing her puss from behind that I take a little dollop of lube and begin to penetrate her backdoor with my fingers slooooooowly. The anal experience is all about making the receiving partner as comfortable with it as possible. I'm usually able to go up to three lubed fingers until she considers herself "ready, baby."

She prefers anal via missionary because she only has to concentrate on my wang slipping up her butt instead of that AND riding me/balancing on her knees and hands/piledriver. I drop another dollop of lube onto my pee-pee and work it over until it has a nice shine to it, like a high schooler buffing out a finished piece in jewelry class. I then rub the head of my wiener against her brown-eye, gradually applying more and more pressure--with her consent, of course--until I'm pretty much balls-deep.

This is when I tend to stop for a while, let her muscles acclimate to my girth, and tend to her needs, kissing her breasts or masturbating her once more, whatever she needs to let herself accept my johnson in her bum. In our experience, it takes a few minutes of this until she's ready for me to take her to pound-town, but she's become pretty damn good at it. I've been able to hit it as hard as I hit her pussy, which says a lot about her resilience.

Well, that's my advice. Mileage may vary, but the basics should remain the same. Take it slow, make it about the receiver and not your own need to drop a load in that tight ass, and if he/she looks like they just stubbed all their toes and got their genitals waxed simultaneously, then slow the fuck down. Good luck, and god speed.
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