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[Exotoro]

That post was a mouthful.

should have been first post

 

[Buckethead]

I love my Dix but I prefer to have it in the secondary.

That feels so good.

 

[Always-honest]

I wouldn't know about giving, but receiving one is tops

Yep.

But i love giving my girlfriend oral pleasure too.

 

[IHaveCandy]

It is only gay to give head if you also attain sexual pleasure from it as well. Enjoying it for a power trip is not the same thing. I know our Western culture has taught us that anything sexual with another man makes you gay, but that's not how it works. What actually makes you heterosexual or homosexual is what makes you SEXUALLY respond. Your actions aren't what identify your sexuality. It's your untrained responses that identify your sexuality.

 

[Black1ce]

You shouldn't even need to be drunk. It's amazing man.

Only when you are drunk?

That is a regular thing for me, have to perfect that skill. Besides, logic says if you give great head she will be more prone to give you good head.

Nha, sober or drunk, I enjoy going down on (clean) women.

 

[SUPREME1]

Hammer and nail come together.
"You see this guy was just lying here with his dick out and I just fell and landed on it with my mouth open..."

I fell on a naked guy and somehow the back of my throat blanketed the head of his penis while my cheeks became suction cups and my head bobbed back and forth... mad saliva everywhere too.


Too weird.

 

[Thursday War]

 

[CaptainGyro]

. What I find really interesting is the number of women I know who've had sex with women but consider themselves straight -- and no one blinks an eye at that. .

I blink an eye at that, and I bet there are many others who would too

 

[Violet_0]

Is this going to be one of those threads where OP reveals something that was initially left in the dark a few pages after and then everyone gets sucked in?

yeah, I'm eagerly awaiting more details from the op. Come on, spit it out already

 

[Stet]

I blink an eye at that, and I bet there are many others who would too

Not me. I wouldn't want to miss a microsecond of that action.

 

[Ryaaan14]

I don't have a problem with a straight guy thinking sucking cock is the greatest feeling in the world but let's be honest that's one hell of a disclaimer when you go on a date.

 

[elelunicy]

Why do so many people want to label OP bisexual? I would definitely consider OP straight. Bisexual should be reserved only for people who (largely) find both sexes equally attractive, or the majority of population would be bisexual.

 

[Solo]

Receiving is sure aces. So is going down on her.

 

[Cow Mengde]

Receiving is sure aces. So is going down on her.

69 all the way!

 

[SUPREME1]

It is only gay to give head if you also attain sexual pleasure from it as well. Enjoying it for a power trip is not the same thing. I know our Western culture has taught us that anything sexual with another man makes you gay, but that's not how it works. What actually makes you heterosexual or homosexual is what makes you SEXUALLY respond. Your actions aren't what identify your sexuality. It's your untrained responses that identify your sexuality.

"You aren't gay if you suck dick... Only if you like to suck dick."



Lol. You so crazy.

 

[Omegasquash]

yeah, I'm eagerly awaiting more details from the op. Come on, spit it out already

Ha!

 

[Seanspeed]

It is only gay to give head if you also attain sexual pleasure from it as well.

I know straight girls who dont derive sexual pleasure from giving head. I think the more important idea is the desire to sexually get off another guy.

 

[alatif113]

That's generally why I'm fine allowing folks to self-determine both gender and orientation.

I don't think the outside world gets to tell you who you are. And once you start, where do we draw the line? I was molested by a male relative. Does that make me gay, even though I've only ever dated women, and have been with the same woman for 18 years?

The idea that having a particular set of genitals in your mouth/ass/vagina once means you're permanently and forever bisexual, gay, or straight is ridiculous. What I find really interesting is the number of women I know who've had sex with women but consider themselves straight -- and no one blinks an eye at that. But if men do the same, they must be moved out of the category of straight, lest their cooties infect us.

I understand you but i think you're missing the point where the OP stated he enjoyed the act.

 

[IHaveCandy]

"You aren't gay if you suck dick... Only if you like to suck dick."



Lol. You so crazy.

I'm going to assume you are heterosexualal. If for whatever reason you gave a blowjob today and were not sexually stimulated at all during it, are you now gay?

I know straight girls who dont derive sexual pleasure from giving head. I think the more important idea is the desire to sexually get off another guy.

Sexual orientation is about what you respond to sexually. Plain and simple.

 

[potam]

Ok, here's what I don't understand: why are so many people being sensitive that people are pointing out that OP might be bisexual? It's not like anyone is saying anything disparaging to the dude.

 

[ronito]

Why do so many people want to label OP bisexual? I would definitely consider OP straight. Bisexual should be reserved only for people who (largely) find both sexes equally attractive, or the majority of population would be bisexual.

Meh, I don't think you can say he's bi anymore than you can really say he's straight. "Heteroflexible" or whatever might be better. But it's just a label for a complicated thing in the end. Doesn't really work.

But I think the "greatest feeling in the world" is a diffferentiator. As one of my female friends that's bi said when she was first giving a woman oral, "Oh I enjoy this WAY too much to be straight." This might be the case.

It'll be interesting as the whole de-shaming of male on male sexuality continues. Maybe in a few years people wont bat an eye at stuff like this. Already you see it with women. Guys are more surprised to see a woman that hasn't messed around with another woman (or at least thought of it) than seeing a woman that has.

 

[Seanspeed]

I'm going to assume you are heterosexualal. If for whatever reason you gave a blowjob today and were not sexually stimulated at all during it, are you now gay?

Completely heterosexual guys dont find themselves sucking dick 'for whatever reason'. lol

 

[IHaveCandy]

Ok, here's what I don't understand: why are so many people being sensitive that people are pointing out that OP might be bisexual? It's not like anyone is saying anything disparaging to the dude.

It's because people are using terrible points to identify sexual orientation.

Completely heterosexual guys dont find themselves sucking dick 'for whatever reason'. lol

So you think there has never been a heterosexual male that has given a blowjob?

 

[Omegasquash]

I understand you but i think you're missing the point where the OP stated he enjoyed the act.

Why does that make a difference? He enjoyed it, hell he might even do it again. Doesn't mean that he should be labeled. If his choice is to identify as straight and still go after gals but on the occasion give a little head, does that mean he's x% gay and y% straight? Or bisexual with a lean towards women?

Who the fuck CARES? The only thing we ought to care about is whether or not he's happy with himself.

 

[Henchmen21]

Is this going to be one of those threads where OP reveals something that was initially left in the dark a few pages after and then everyone gets sucked in?

yeah, I'm eagerly awaiting more details from the op. Come on, spit it out already

OP's not allowed to spit.

 

[SlickShoesRUCrazy]

What's going on ga.....

 

[AuthenticM]

Uh...I think you're overlooking the fact that he says it's the greatest thing in the world.

I understand you but i think you're missing the point where the OP stated he enjoyed the act.

Yeah, that's the part some people are missing, deliberately or not.

 

[IHaveCandy]

Yeah, that's the part some people are missing, deliberately or not.

Enjoying isnt what matters. Its about whether it is sexually stimulating.

 

[Zen_Arcade]

Why does that make a difference? He enjoyed it, hell he might even do it again. Doesn't mean that he should be labeled. If his choice is to identify as straight and still go after gals but on the occasion give a little head, does that mean he's x% gay and y% straight? Or bisexual with a lean towards women?

Who the fuck CARES? The only thing we ought to care about is whether or not he's happy with himself.

Why do you care what people label him as long it's accurate and people arent putting him down for it?

 

[brokenbeans]

Did you have a boner when you gave him oral?

 

[TCRS]

Did you have a boner when you gave him oral?

good question, that's how we'll solve this mystery.

 

[SUPREME1]

I'm going to assume you are heterosexualal. If for whatever reason you gave a blowjob today and were not sexually stimulated at all during it, are you now gay?



Sexual orientation is about what you respond to sexually. Plain and simple.

I think willingness and acting on impulse play a little tiny bit of a role here.

Like for instance, I wouldn't willingly suck a guy off... Because I'm not gay.

Unless he was forced to do it, he's gay.

Sorry breh.

 

[marrec]

I wonder what Wittgenstein would have said about OPs sexual orientation.

 

[Aizu_Itsuko]

got really drunk, and gave this dude I knew a BJ. [...] I consider myself to be straight

I have news for you.

 

[Choppasmith]

Don't think I could ever enjoy giving considering I have unwillingly as a kid. Haven't had the pleasure ofreceiving unfortunately (I'd like to though)

 

[liquidtmd]

Sucks to be you OP

 

[Blair]

 

[Zen_Arcade]

I think willingness and acting on impulse play a little tiny bit of a role here.

Like for instance, I wouldn't willingly suck a guy off... Because I'm not gay.

Unless he was forced to do it, he's gay.

Sorry breh.

What if he did it for money?

No one is forcing him to do it, but he's doing it for a reason that has nothing to do with wanting to suck a guy off.

 

[BadAss2961]

It's because people are using terrible points to identify sexual orientation.

So you think there has never been a heterosexual male that has given a blowjob?

Not one that was ready and willing to give more blowjobs.

 

[Duress]

Kumar Patel: So you get high and you put other people who smoke weed in jail?
George W. Bush: DUH!
Kumar Patel: That's so hypocritical!
George W. Bush: Oh yeah? Well let me ask you something, Kumar, do you like giving hand jobs?
Kumar Patel: No sir.
George W. Bush: Do you like gettin' hand jobs?
Kumar Patel: [smirking] Heh, yeah.
George W. Bush: Yeah well, that makes you a fuckin' hypocriticizer too, so shut the fuck up! Now smoke my weed.

 

[thenexus6]

Lul, subbed

 

[IHaveCandy]

I think willingness and acting on impulse play a little tiny bit of a role here.

Like for instance, I wouldn't willingly suck a guy off... Because I'm not gay.

Unless he was forced to do it, he's gay.

Sorry breh.

You're confusing your unwillingness to put a penis in your mouth with sexuality. There is nothing else to it. Did you receive sexual stimulation from act x? That's all there is to answer. You can want to put a penis in your mouth for any reason. It has nothing to do with your sexual orientation unless it gives you sexual stimulation.

 

[freenudemacusers]

Did you have a boner when you gave him oral?

I think the quality/size of the dick is important too. some dicks are simply awe-inspiring and cannot be refused.

 

[Winterfang]

It's because people are using terrible points to identify sexual orientation.




So you think there has never been a heterosexual male that has given a blowjob?

Like a porn actor or for drug money? Then yeah he is not Gay. Otherwise a straight person wouldn't have his face close to a cock for any reason, unless he is bicurious or something but that's another thing all together.

 

[Arkos]

Oh this has become an "Is OP gay or not" thread. Nevermind.

 

[marrec]

Not one that was ready and willing to give more blowjobs.

Psychologically someone could have a Blowjob fetish without being gay. Giving blowjobs stimulates him sexually, but it's not because he's attracted to men in anyway, but only attracted to the idea of giving a blowjob.

I think there's a difference there.

 

[Sai-kun]

I think willingness and acting on impulse play a little tiny bit of a role here.

Like for instance, I wouldn't willingly suck a guy off... Because I'm not gay.

Unless he was forced to do it, he's gay.

Sorry breh.

People get curious about it all the time, and act on that. Though you might say the actual act of being a guy and blowing another guy is gay, it's kind of irrelevant if the person on either side identifies as straight.

Going down on a guy once isn't gonna make you gay for life.

 

[alatif113]

Why does that make a difference? He enjoyed it, hell he might even do it again. Doesn't mean that he should be labeled. If his choice is to identify as straight and still go after gals but on the occasion give a little head, does that mean he's x% gay and y% straight? Or bisexual with a lean towards women?

Who the fuck CARES? The only thing we ought to care about is whether or not he's happy with himself.

Woah there, nobody is giving him greif or saying anything against being gay or bisexual. Calm down bro.

 

[Rubbish King]

You're bisexual. Embrace it.

This.

I don't think it matters if you label it or not, just embrace what you are and have some fun

 

[besada]

I think willingness and acting on impulse play a little tiny bit of a role here.

Like for instance, I wouldn't willingly suck a guy off... Because I'm not gay.

Unless he was forced to do it, he's gay.

Sorry breh.

So he's not just bi now, he's completely gay? Even if he still likes women?