Giving a BJ...anyone else feel like it's the greatest feeling in the world?

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PhoenixDark said:
Pretty sure once you've given another guy a bj you have crossed streams, and are now on the other team. Unless it was done in a professional setting, like on a porn set.
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Interesting caveat, anything you want to share?
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marrec said:
No, I'm saying that a man can separate the idea of the dick he's blowing from the idea that he's blowing a man. Unless we're saying that men are essentially dicks with legs.
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Look some people are scared of where dick's been previous like a vagina let alone a one in their mouth.
 
samus i am said:
I love to receiving blowjobs to completion. The only problem is, it has probably only happened to me two or three times. After a couple minutes I start to feel guilty because the girl is doing all of the work and I am just sitting there. My guilt gets the best of me and I usually stop the girl and try to payback the favor.
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I got a slap on the wrist for thinking that once. Got flat out told that I shouldn't feel bad for something that SHE wants to do, and that I should sit my ass back down and let her finish the job.

So yeah, if she wants to do it, then don't feel bad. Carry your weight later on, y'know?
 
Cow Mengde said:
It's probably him claiming it's the "greatest feeling in the world" that has people start classifying his sexuality. If he likes it, more power to him.
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What kind of feeling? Sexual feeling? To me it sounded more like he was saying it is a power trip. Winning the lottery may be the greatest feeling in the world to me, but that doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to money or gambling.
 
I sucked a very phallic-shaped dildo during foreplay with an ex once, it was a spur of the moment thing.

I thought it would be hot. At least she thought it was.

I felt really weird and self-conscious.
 
PhoenixDark said:
Pretty sure once you've given another guy a bj you have crossed streams, and are now on the other team. Unless it was done in a professional setting, like on a porn set.
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yea I'm pretty open to stuff but once you give a dude a bj you might be gay. This reminds me of the Joe rogan Weightlifters skit.
 
Devolution said:
Look some people are scared of where dick's been previous like a vagina let alone a one in their mouth.
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I mean, if you look at it like the whole "having sex with everyone they've had sex with" then a guy could stand to gain lots of bedpost notches by blowing a straight dude.
 
marrec said:
No, I'm saying that a man can separate the idea of the dick he's blowing from the idea that he's blowing a man. Unless we're saying that men are essentially dicks with legs.
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If you have a blowjob fetish then you have no desire to separate anything. Your fetish is to give oral sex to a man. That's what a blowjob is. What you're talking about isn't a blowjob fetish.

I don't know what you could classify that fetish as, but it's not a blowjob fetish.
 
marrec said:
And if it's just a forbidden fruit thing, does that further seperate himself from being sexually identified as Bisexual or Gay?
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Well I'd say he has to be bi curious he was chatting to a gay man on fb who happened to visit him on the same night.

I'm guessing he flirted with the guy and one thing lead to another, if he liked it and saw the guy again and still felt attracted to women I'd say bi.

It's hard to identify anyone if you don't have the full story.
 
Omegasquash said:
I got a slap on the wrist for thinking that once. Got flat out told that I shouldn't feel bad for something that SHE wants to do, and that I should sit my ass back down and let her finish the job.

So yeah, if she wants to do it, then don't feel bad. Carry your weight later on, y'know?
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Good advice.
 
Threads like this brighten my day so much.

besada said:
He's welcome to self-identify in any way he sees fit. The idea that a trinary set of sexual orientations is capable of successfully describing the complexity of human sexuality is ridiculous.

In the same way that gay men who've had sex with women, or lesbians who've had sex with men still identify as gay, he's welcome to self-determine how he defines himself sexually.
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Yes, thank you. It's sadly common for people to impose labels on other people's sexuality based on their misunderstanding of sexual identity. Your orientation is a matter of what you're attracted to and how you see yourself rather than who you have sex with and how. I've seen men accused of being gay for preferring anal sex with women and women only, and others for saying they enjoy giving themselves a prostate massage. It's disheartening to see so much confusion about such an integral part of the human personality.

There seems to be this weird idea that for straight men one same sex encounter makes them gay, yet for gay men, even after several opposite sex encounters they're still gay. Apparently it's not like being a vegetarian or a Christian, where you can eat a piece of bacon or covet your neighbor's ass and still be considered part of the club.
 
OP, are you attracted to the male body? Not just the penis, but also the look, feel, smell, and sound of a guy.
And how do you compare this to a woman? Which gender do you find more attractive based on these physical and sexual aspects?

Technically you can still be "straight" while enjoying giving someone a BJ since there are lots of straight men that have the turn ons for transsexual porn (I think the majority of consumers for transsexual porn is straight men).

Check out this thing to see if you are "straight" or actually bi or perhaps gay.
Study on sexuality
 
Zen_Arcade said:
If you have a blowjob fetish then you have no desire to separate anything. Your fetish is to give oral sex to a man. That's what a blowjob is. What you're talking about isn't a blowjob fetish.

I don't know what you could classify that fetish as, but it's not a blowjob fetish.
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Oh sorry, a sucking dick fetish if you want to be a stickler.

brokenbeans said:
Well I'd say he has to be bi curious he was chatting to a gay man on fb who happened to visit him on the same night.

I'm guessing he flirted with the guy and one thing lead to another, if he liked it and saw the guy again and still felt attracted to women I'd say bi.

It's hard to identify anyone if you don't have the full story.
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OP's story is impossible to determine, I'm just trying to suss out the hypothetical possibility of a psychological fetish for sucking dick being separate from one's sexual preference. Seems perfectly possible to me. Sexual preference is usually not tied directly with every fetish one has.
 
Receiving one is nice. I do like giving oral to ladies. Fucking great, and makes me understand what OP means about being in control.

This comment is now linked to my face. I don't know how that makes me feel.
 
elelunicy said:
Why do so many people want to label OP bisexual? I would definitely consider OP straight. Bisexual should be reserved only for people who (largely) find both sexes equally attractive, or the majority of population would be bisexual.
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Hm maybe because the OP loves sucking dick?
 
marrec said:
Oh sorry, a sucking dick fetish if you want to be a stickler.



OP's story is impossible to determine, I'm just trying to suss out the hypothetical possibility of a psychological fetish of sucking dick being separate from one's sexual preference. Seems perfectly possible to me. Sexual preference is usually not tied with directly with every fetish one has.
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Sucking dick fetish is the same thing. That's just another way to say blowjob.

Only on GAF will I have to explain why something called a "Sucking dick fetish" is a gay fetish for a man to have.
 
flippedb said:
Receiving one is nice. I do like giving oral to ladies. Fucking great, and makes me understand what OP means about being in control.

This comment is now linked to my face. I don't know how that makes me feel.
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Well I'm just imagining you making your avatar face when you orgasm. And it's hilarious.
 
Giving a BJ can be one of the best things in the world. It's humbling and allows the person to be simultaneously in control and be submissive. Often a deep feeling of work and accomplishment will prevail through the experience - almost meditative - and theres nothing quite like making someone else cum and getting that satisfaction of accomplishment. The act fills many basic needs that men are missing from their lives. It's too bad there's this stigma against it.

Straight guys constantly play grabass all the time what a little BJ between friends?
 
Zen_Arcade said:
Sucking dick fetish is the same thing. That's just another way to say blowjob.

Only on GAF will I have to explain why something called a "Sucking dick fetish" is a gay fetish for a man to have.
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:lol

You seem to be getting frustrated here. Oh, and fetishes can't be 'gay' or 'straight' they're just fetishes, which is largely what separates them from sexual preference which is where we talk about 'gay' or 'straight'.

Though usually someone who identifies as straight will not have a gender agnostic fetish.

Unless that fetish is exclusive to one sex or the other... though maybe the OP would love sucking off a strap on, who knows.
 
I'd have to ask my girlfriend about how it feels giving them but I can't imagine it feeling better than receiving a good one.
 
MilesWebber said:
Giving a BJ can be one of the best things in the world. It's humbling and allows the person to be simultaneously in control and be submissive. Often a deep feeling of work and accomplishment will prevail through the experience - almost meditative - and theres nothing quite like making someone else cum and getting that satisfaction of accomplishment. The act fills many basic needs that men are missing from their lives. It's too bad there's this stigma against it.

Straight guys constantly play grabass all the time what a little BJ between friends?
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Exactly.

I have a circle of close friends but my tru-bros have all been allowed to blow me.
 
IHaveCandy said:
In porn, I always see the girls continuing to suck after the guy blows his load. You know, sucking out the last drop and all. The guy seems to be fine about it too. But every time I get a blowjob, I am like 100x more sensitive after finishing and need her to get off me ASAP. Very often, they won't stop because at that point she will know she literally has me by the balls and I'm experiencing the worst tickle ever. Does anybody else get this?
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^this
 
potam said:
Ok, here's what I don't understand: why are so many people being sensitive that people are pointing out that OP might be bisexual? It's not like anyone is saying anything disparaging to the dude.
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QFT. Somehow "bi" and "gay" are "labels," but "straight" is "default normal."
 
MilesWebber said:
Giving a BJ can be one of the best things in the world. It's humbling and allows the person to be simultaneously in control and be submissive. Often a deep feeling of work and accomplishment will prevail through the experience - almost meditative - and theres nothing quite like making someone else cum and getting that satisfaction of accomplishment. The act fills many basic needs that men are missing from their lives. It's too bad there's this stigma against it.

Straight guys constantly play grabass all the time what a little BJ between friends?
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I'm not saying that you shouldn't be allowed to blow your friend if you (and he) want, but I don't think what you're describing is exclusive to BJ's at all.
 
marrec said:
:lol

You seem to be getting frustrated here. Oh, and fetishes can't be 'gay' or 'straight' they're just fetishes, which is largely what separates them from sexual preference which is where we talk about 'gay' or 'straight'.

Though usually someone who identifies as straight will not have a gender agnostic fetish.

Unless that fetish is exclusive to one sex or the other... though maybe the OP would love sucking off a strap on, who knows.
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The reason we don't have sexual preference labeled fetishes is because in most places when they hear "My fetish is to suck other mens dicks" its already implied that that person is gay, and it's an unnecessary additional label.

The only reason I'm using it here is because for some reason you have trouble understanding that getting sexual arousal from giving oral pleasure to another man is practically the definition of gay.
 
IsntChrisL said:
I'm not saying that you shouldn't be allowed to blow your friend if you (and he) want, but I don't think what you're describing is exclusive to BJ's at all.
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As a man there's NOTHING more humble than having another man's cock in your mouth. except getting poked in the butt.

Why don't you try it and find out?
 
flippedb said:
Receiving one is nice. I do like giving oral to ladies. Fucking great, and makes me understand what OP means about being in control.

This comment is now linked to my face. I don't know how that makes me feel.
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Yep I've avoided this thread because of that lol

But no, I don't like getting BJ's not giving. I'm a werido, i know.
 
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