Giving a BJ...anyone else feel like it's the greatest feeling in the world?
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Hahaha amazing
What if it's some aids dick?
For how open minded GAF is, I find it strange that so many people are trying to put OP in a tiny box of their labels. So what, the dude sucked a dick and liked the feeling of control it gave him. Societies have existed where sexual lines were not so black and white. I'm sure the OP can blow dudes and be committed to women if thats what he feels he likes to do.
Coloress_Kafka
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Don't stop at one OP, the best thing about dick is that it comes in so many different sizes and shapes. You should keep sampling, you might find one that feels even better!
Yup. A bit weird that people are assuming they have a better idea of OP's sexuality than OP does too.
This reminds me of a sleep over I almost went to at a friend's house in high school, but didn't, but my best friend did. Apparently some dude ended up sucking off another dude. And then my friend was trying to say only the dude who did the sucking was gay and that getting your dick sucked by another man wasn't gay and I had to spend a week convincing him that it's still a homosexual act.
Still not sure if he was involved. He claims he wasn't...
Still not sure if he was involved. He claims he wasn't...
I was thinking the same thing. Attraction isn't the same as liking something sexually.
I was at a Hustler store and an employee told me and a friend a lot of straight guys actually buy dildos and what not to use on themselves with their girls. It sounds more like OP has an oral fixation and a turn on to power.
To be fair, getting your dick sucked by a guy isn't really gay. I mean, if you dont look, its exactly the same as being sucked off by a girl. If you're turned on by the fact that its a guy in particular thats sucking you off, then its a bit gay.
oh jesus fucking christ.
That aint blood Dracula's sucking.
RoombaDance
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If OP wants to call himself straight fine by me. Plenty of girls do a bit of experimenting without having to call themselves bi for the rest of their lives.
Wouldn't be surprised if he winds up going bi or gay, but if he likes girls much better, so be it.
At the end of the day its just a label. It's not like there's some magic guy/girl ratio you have to sleep with to earn the terms straight bi or gay.
I'd bet in 40 years the entire concept of straight and gay won't even exist, just "(strongly) prefers male" or "(strongly) prefers female".
Wouldn't be surprised if he winds up going bi or gay, but if he likes girls much better, so be it.
At the end of the day its just a label. It's not like there's some magic guy/girl ratio you have to sleep with to earn the terms straight bi or gay.
I'd bet in 40 years the entire concept of straight and gay won't even exist, just "(strongly) prefers male" or "(strongly) prefers female".
Eh, I'm gay and I think it's just okay. I guess it's a fast way to stop a guy from losing an erection. It feels better getting them than giving them (No Shit Sherlock!)
I got turned on more from kissing a guy and making out with him naked than with the oral and anal part of it. Those are just necessary steps to prevent the guy from losing boners (which depending on the guy sometimes happen).
Damn it, Devo! I'm already scared of vajayjay. There's no need to make it graphic.
I got turned on more from kissing a guy and making out with him naked than with the oral and anal part of it. Those are just necessary steps to prevent the guy from losing boners (which depending on the guy sometimes happen).
Damn it, Devo! I'm already scared of vajayjay. There's no need to make it graphic.
It is if the giver has a beard.
Holy Order Sol
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honestly, whatever any of us are, just do whatever's fun. i dont think the label matters. glad you enjoy giving them op. it's a win win for everybody.
bingo, said it better than i could.
Yeah... I mean, people judging others on the internet? WHO WOULD'VE THOUGHT!?
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The Everyman
false equivalence.
it's more like disliking pizza but enjoying pepperoni. and once again, the labels really shouldn't even matter.
You mean a trans woman's or a crossdresser's dick? Trap is a shitty, shitty term.
TUROK
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There's still a lot of women out there that don't like giving head, so you're not too far off from some people's perspective.
He labeled himself and people are saying that he doesn't quite fit his self-appointed label. What's wrong with that? If someone came in here and called themselves a musician because they occasionally slap their dick rhythmically against their thighs, would it still be closed minded to say that that person is not actually a musician?
Marky Mark
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lol this is great
Darnit, I hate when the good threads pop up while I'm at work and I can't participate until near the end.
Anyway, BJs are pretty fun, I like giving them. You don't get any pleasure out of it, but if you're into the whole "giving" aspect of sex, it can be mentally enjoyable. Especially when you're with a very "responsive" guy.
Also, you can totally be straight and get head from a guy. There are just some guys out there who are confident in their sexuality to the point that they can allow themselves to be pleasured sexually by anyone if the vibe is right. Also, you'd be surprised by how flirty some straight men can get in the presence of other gay men. From my experience, at least. I think most straight guys have thought about the idea of fooling around with another guy, at least a little bit.
Anyway, BJs are pretty fun, I like giving them. You don't get any pleasure out of it, but if you're into the whole "giving" aspect of sex, it can be mentally enjoyable. Especially when you're with a very "responsive" guy.
Also, you can totally be straight and get head from a guy. There are just some guys out there who are confident in their sexuality to the point that they can allow themselves to be pleasured sexually by anyone if the vibe is right. Also, you'd be surprised by how flirty some straight men can get in the presence of other gay men. From my experience, at least. I think most straight guys have thought about the idea of fooling around with another guy, at least a little bit.
At the end of the day, OP should just do whatever he wants to do, providing that his sexual partner is a consenting adult. I think society places too much emphasis on putting people in boxes whereas in reality, people do get attracted to different people at different levels. How much they are willing to push is still somewhat constrained by what the society thinks men and women can or can't do. But society is full of shit and often hypocritical/oblivious to their own desire. I think more people should explore their sexuality if they feel like it.
Represent.
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You're not straight. Straight men don't give other men blowjobs, how is this even a discussion? :|
Vigilant Walrus
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Who doesn't like a big, uncut meat log from time to time?
as long as it's not made out of poo. poo blowing is the worst.
TUROK
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Because apparently it's rude to claim that people who like doing things with people from their same gender aren't straight.
I'm going to claim I'm a firefighter, and if people have an issue with that, then well, that's offensive.
Most straight men fall into the bisexual aspect of the kinsey scale.
If you're straight, you've probably had gay sex dreams and thoughts in your life. Being a human being with different personalities and experiences, maybe this dude acted on them in a more significant way than most.
As a bisexual, I'm honestly not that fond of giving or receiving oral sex from either gender. That there exists an entire subset of (mostly) gay men who only have oral sex is bizarre to me. It's like going to a theatre and leaving after the previews.
I wouldn't say it's rude. More like dreadfully simple-minded and overly fixated on labels that don't even begin to scratch the surface of how complex people can be.
let's say you are heterosexual
your eyes are closed
you are on the receiving end of a blowjob from another man
you feel a bit of hair but you don't mind because you're thoroughly enjoying it
you suspect it might not be a woman who is servicing you but you don't give it much thought
you are too busy enjoying the blowjob
does that make it you a homosexual
your eyes are closed
you are on the receiving end of a blowjob from another man
you feel a bit of hair but you don't mind because you're thoroughly enjoying it
you suspect it might not be a woman who is servicing you but you don't give it much thought
you are too busy enjoying the blowjob
does that make it you a homosexual
TheVampire
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fuck fuck fuck I wish my ex had of given me a BJ (would be my first)
Brought the topic up a few times but It never happened yet and then we broke up.
fuck.
Brought the topic up a few times but It never happened yet and then we broke up.
fuck.
nailbombxx
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When I read the thread title I thought it was made by a female GAFer.
I was disappointed.
I was disappointed.
Gonzo The Great
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Atraveller
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"trap" what is this 2004?
Straight is a label too though. Let's be honest, it doesn't matter when it doesn't apply to you. The second you need to describe your sexual orientation to someone you're glad labels exist.
This entire thread reminds me of this (NSFW, Posted?):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G9ta7AHsIU&html5=1
Even the discussion about receiving and giving.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G9ta7AHsIU&html5=1
Even the discussion about receiving and giving.
SquiddyCracker
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I'll chime in here and say it really doesn't matter what your preference is, as long as you're happy. But from what I'm reading, it sounds like you're trying so hard to convince yourself that you're not gay/bi. I wouldn't be quick to say that you were either as you were drunk and it was a one time thing.
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