I know this forum is filled with dinosaurs so I included college.
yep, last time i did this, was with a girl who i liked, she was married with 3 kids, and her, another few friends and myself, all met up for drinks
she looked ropey as fuck now, but always led me on in school, but i was perfectly pleasant, and a gentleman, never brought it up or anything, and her being married, that is highly inappropriate
anyway fast forward a few weeks later, and i get invited out to meet her again, with my mum, and her kids, to meet at a xmas market, and have a few drinks, really nice evening, meeting her kids etc etc, in my eye all perfectly innocent, even met her husband, and made him feel like the alpha, since it was his domain (wife kids )
that same night see starts messaging me, asking weird questions, and being very inappropiate, and told her to stop and never replying to her flirting. it was even more unreal since id just been cheated on by my wife, so all this was close to home, i screeshotted the messages, in case she tried to say it was me
and she messages the next day, apologising and asking me to lie about it all in case her husband ask, at that point i blocked instantly and never looked back
long story short, i wont be meeting up with old school friends in the near future
For me it's the opposite. Interesting how everyone has close friends from different eras.Most of my best friends today are from my childhood. We've known each other since we were 4-5. It's the people I've met in high school and beyond that I don't really talk to much anymore. My closest friend in high school is someone who clearly after high school didn't really want to keep any relationships with people from high school. I tried to get in touch with him off and on over the course of a few years off and on after graduation and he clearly was ducking me, so eventually I got the message and just stopped trying. Some people I've chatted here and there and hung out with a couple times but never stayed routinely in touch or anything.
Last time I spoke to anyone who isn't already a close friend of mine has been years.
Speaking of, I would really need some money for some bills this month if you could be a sport and lend me some dineros.WTF. It's like people think I'm a bank or something.
Speaking of, I would really need some money for some bills this month if you could be a sport and lend me some dineros.
It gets harder when we all get older as everyone's lives go on, people move, some people even die.Yeah, I'm really close with a lot of friends from Uni. We keep in touch, meet up etc. Even if we haven't spoken in a while, when we finally do, it's like nothing has changed. Then I have friends that I wasn't as close to from that period of my life, and occasionally stay in touch with them. I even got invited to a wedding this coming November, and I haven't seen this girl in like almost 10 years.
If the relationships you've made with people are honest and true, then it shouldn't be an issue reaching out and saying hi once in a blue moon, even if it has been a very long time since you last did.
I'm 40 this year. I was surprised to learn that an unusually large number of my school friends either passed away, comitted suicide, or have extreme health issues. There was a reunion a few years back and I was quite shocked at the health of most people I grew up with.
Once you get to 40 you can really spot the people who took care of their bodies in their 20s and 30s because by the time they hit 40 they look fucking 60