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DY_nasty said:I tried to keep watching Basketball Wives this season, but I can't... these skanks are just too much.
Barnes' fiancee is more than doable.
DY_nasty said:I tried to keep watching Basketball Wives this season, but I can't... these skanks are just too much.
Lebron is like the chick in Easy A, He's never done anything but people act like he has.peterb0y said:I want to make an Easy A joke...but I got nothing
ItWasMeantToBe19 said:Fuck Dominique, bigger bitch than LeBron.
dIEHARD said:Lebron is like the chick in Easy A, He's never done anything but people act like he has.
Kenny Andersen's baby momma is cocaine personified.ryutaro's mama said:Barnes' fiancee is more than doable.
Anyone want to tell this guy what Lebron's record was against Charlotte last year? Everyone knew that the Bobcats should've tanked for the 8 seed, but noooooooo gotta play the right way.peterb0y said:60.6% Miami Heat
48.7% Charlotte Bobcats
47.2% No teams should be contracted
DY:lol
ryutaro's mama said:Barnes' fiancee is more than doable.
peterb0y said:60.6% Miami Heat
48.7% Charlotte Bobcats
47.2% No teams should be contracted
DY:lol
you could pick as many teams as you wantedryutaro's mama said:Those percentages make no sense.
Byron Russell is madpeterb0y said:you could pick as many teams as you wanted
peterb0y said:you could pick as many teams as you wanted
Former NBA star Junior Bridgeman didnt expect his children to follow him onto the basketball court or into the family business. All he expected was whatever they chose to do they gave it their all - starting at the bottom and working their way up.
After a celebrated career with the Milwaukee Bucks and Los Angeles Clippers, Junior Bridgeman was working the line at a Wendys fast-food restaurant in Milwaukee. My job was to make sure what you ordered was on your tray and to thank you for coming, he told an assembled group of active and retired professional athletes hosted by the Allied Athletes Group earlier this year in Atlanta. A woman came in and looked at me like she recognized me. He didnt think anything about it until the next day, when he heard a woman call into a local talk show and say, I think its a shame. I was at the Wendys and I saw Junior Bridgeman working behind the counter if thats the best these ex-athletes can do
Eden and Justin Bridgeman are following in the famous footsteps of their father, Junior. They know that while his name can get them in the door, it doesnt mean it will keep them there.
A few of the athletes shifted uncomfortably in their seats, and its pretty easy to visualize the reaction of todays pampered NBA stars like Kobe Bryant or LeBron James if that sentiment was broadcast on their turf.
But Bridgeman just laughed. Perhaps, its because the last laugh really is his. He owned that particular Wendys plus several others. Today his company runs 162 Wendys and 121 Chilis and is No. 3 on the Restaurant Finance Monitors Top 200 franchisee-owned companies, with $507 million in revenue. In addition, he has other restaurant deals in the works.
And while nothing beats the high of winning a game at the very top competitive level, he says giving jobs to people and watching them develop is heart-warming, if not exactly heart-thumping.
Hed always say each day, each opportunity was like a brand-new game, his wife of 34 years, Doris Bridgeman, says about the restaurant business. I knew his heart wasnt in staying in athletics. I knew he wanted to be his own boss.
Always practical, Bridgeman took the entry exams for law school his senior year, in case he wasnt drafted into the NBA. He became interested in business when he served as the players associations treasurer. He bought into three Wendys when he was still playing and at the end of the year, his manager came to him and told him, theyd made $1 million. I said, Great, and he said, We broke even. Oh, was his only response.
Bridgeman is not flashy. The 65 former small forward/shooting guard is more comfortable out of the limelight than in it. Perhaps because there wasnt 24/7 media attention when he played from 1975 to 1987, Bridgeman was a hard-won cover story for Franchise Times (Notice whos on the cover - its not him).
Hes one of those E.F. Hutton types, his wife says. Hes relatively quiet so when words of wisdom come out of his mouth, people listen.
Modesty, hard work and paying your dues are traits the Bridgemans passed on to their children - both through their DNA and parenting.
Theyve all worked hard, Paul Thompson, president of Bridgeman Foods, says about the second generation. They know if you dont have the passion for the restaurant business, you cant wake up one morning and decide to get involved.
While they had more opportunities than most kids - We are blessed, all three admit - they also had to work for it. They may have received a car when they turned 16, but they were used cars, with lots of miles, Doris stresses.
And just because two of them work for the family business doesnt mean, they were allowed to just show up for the party. They all worked shifts at the restaurants, and the younger two even cleaned the restrooms at Bridgeman Foods office as teens.
Starting out
Justin Bridgeman remembers watching his dad on the basketball court, and playing with the other team members kids in the neighborhood. He laughs as he describes the Billy Madison-style birthday parties with giraffes and break dancers he attended in L.A. But this is not a name-dropping family, so dont expect him to name names. We realized that was their success, he says about his parents. We had nothing to do with it - and therefore, nothing to gain by bragging about it.
Their parents werent impressed by L.A.s siren call, either.
We looked at our stay in L.A. as a long vacation, Doris Bridgeman says.
Both Justin, 31, and his younger sister Eden, 24, describe their upbringing as normal.
The chauffeur was my mom the cook was my mom, Eden says. And we were the maids and butler, Justin adds, laughing. None of the siblings were expected to play basketball - The shorts were too long and the jerseys too baggy. I was a girly-girl, Eden says, although she has the height which leads strangers to speculate about her innate ability to dunk. As the oldest, Justin says, he felt pressure about following in his dads footsteps in sports, but it came from himself or well-meaning acquaintances, never from his dad.
The middle child, Ryan, 28, did play basketball, but when we talked on the phone - hes currently in Los Angeles with a yearlong internship with Taco Bells finance department - Ryan didnt notice any of the boys or fathers on his team being particularly impressed that a professional athlete was helping coach.
While most kids are enamored with pro athletes, for Justin and Ryan, Junior Bridgeman was ... well, Dad. When I was young, I didnt think about Dad (what he did for a living), Justin says, nonplussed. Its not like he was an astronaut or a fighter pilot. (Somewhere an astronauts kid is telling a reporter, Its not like Dad was a professional basketball player or anything.)
When the two brothers collected trading cards, Ryan always looked for their fathers cards in the packs of basketball cards, while Justin went after the more lucrative baseball stars with a high face value. He collected for love, I collected for profits, Justin says, grinning. Ironically, its Ryan who went into the finance side of the business. Ryan defends himself, saying its pretty unique to have your fathers trading card.
The second generation of a business is often criticized for expecting to waltz into the corner office before the ink is dry on their college diploma. Not so here.
Justin is a general manager for a Chilis in Chicago and Eden is a marketing manager for 49 Chilis. Ryan has an internship in order to learn the business, before moving back to Louisville and getting involved in the family business. Both Ryan and Justin have MBAs, and Eden is looking into getting hers.
I wouldnt want to start at the top without experience, because this is an experience-driven business, Justin says.
The boys wanted to prove themselves elsewhere first, Doris says. It was only because of the economy and the timing of the job opening in marketing that led Eden to take the job straight out of college, she adds.
Your name may get you in the door, Eden says, but it wont keep you there.
Which is why Justin and Eden headed to Chicago and Ryan is learning the ropes at Taco Bell.
Its Chilis in Chicago
One nugget of advice Bridgeman gave his fellow athletes was that being a franchisee isnt like sitting on the bench and collecting a paycheck. He admitted that when he first got into Wendys, he didnt realize how much your success depended on being hands on. Just because your franchisor trains you on how to run the restaurant, doesnt mean it will also teach you how to run a business, he cautions.
In order to be successful, youve got to know what youre doing and I didnt know what I was doing, he says. I went back for training. He also started putting in 12- to 14-hour days.
Fast food can be a challenge. In Louisville, we had eight cameras in our restaurant to see what people are doing, Bridgeman says. One on the register, one of the drive-thru, one on the entry, one on the back door. We tell them, Look, we have cameras, we dont want to catch you doing anything wrong so were telling you were watching you. The first week, we fired eight people.
But while people can be the greatest challenge, they also can be the greatest reward. Its the people - employees and customers - who make the entire family want to be in the business.
Its about the people, not money, Eden says. He (her father) could take the money and invest it in something a lot less stressful.
So why would the siblings want to follow their father into such a stressful business?
Justin and Ryan started working at Wendys in high school. Justin was the only one of the three who both opened and closed the restaurant, he says. Because he had friends who also worked at the same Wendys, it was fun, but the only perk he received was that his schedule was designed around all his other activities. By the time Eden was old enough to work, Chilis had been added to the portfolio and she filled in as hostess and ran food orders.
All three were exposed to sports and music lessons and in Edens case, dance. Justin excelled at music and art. Hes our Renaissance man, Eden says, teasing, but also proud. Ryan was the athlete, who, apparently, didnt appreciate the musical training.
If Ryan ever touches a piano... Eden begins, it would be to move it, Justin finishes. They both laugh. (Note to future interviewees: Try not to be in California when your siblings are being interviewed in Chicago.)
Justin originally wanted to work in the music business, but halfway into his schooling he discovered the music industry isnt for people who love music, he says.
Y kids join the organization
The second generation brings a fresh perspective to successful family-owned businesses. In most cases the kids didnt grow up worrying about money, enough food to eat or whether theyd be able to go to college.
But their challenge is to be seen as a contributor, not a legacy. And as Eden points out, they put more pressure on themselves to earn their spot in the business than their parents or coworkers do. Its all about family pride, she says.
Although operations may not seem as creative as marketing, Justin says he enjoys the problem-solving aspect of it - such as, Whats going to drive our age group into a Chilis? As someone who thrives on the nightlife, Chicago was a good landing spot for Justin, who appreciates trendy restaurants that stay open after his job ends for the day.
I like the experience of people coming together around food (and drink). Thats what makes life, he says.
And while the two of them have no control over the menu at Chilis, they can alter the atmosphere. Justin is concerned with repeat visits and creating a spot where people like to hang out more than just occasionally.
That means friendly, efficient staff who make people feel welcome.
I would rather have a busy day, stress with things constantly moving around, than when we can count the number of people (sitting at tables), Justin says.Every days a new day at the restaurant, Eden echoes. Its fast-paced and youre constantly having to come up with new things.
The three siblings are interested in someday taking over the company, although their father plays the details of his business close to his vest, Ryan says.
What dad has created - his time and effort - I dont want that to go away, Ryan says. And for Eden, the decision is easy: Were the owners children. Were a team ... and we have the ear of the top man, she says.
And like an orchestra, they all play a different instrument. And they play nicely. Justin and Eden both majored in marketing, but he chose operations, and never blinked when the position in marketing opened up.
Shes better at it, he says about his sister.
The winning secret at Bridgeman Foods and ERJ Dining, the Chilis side of the business, is that Juniors allowed people to work with him, not for him, Thompson says. Thompson has been with Bridgeman since the first day the company started in May of 1988. He was working for Wendys International, when Bridgeman needed an operator after buying his first Wendys. Neither of them thought the business would ever grow to its current size, he says.
The reason Bridgeman has been so successful at business, Thompson says, is the same reason he was successful on the court - teamwork. He tries to instill that were all in this together, he says. You hire good people and give them a vision.
Its not about the money or the glory, its about giving people jobs and opportunities so their kids can go to college and they can afford a decent home and lifestyle.
Every Christmas, every manager with a kid 12 and under, we buy the kids a present, Bridgeman says. The tradition is because as a child he remembers getting a present from the steel mill that employed his father. Its all about: Who have you helped? Bridgeman says.
Having a deep bench
No formal succession plan has been put in place - mostly because their father is having too much fun right now running the plays.
If Junior Bridgeman ever does decide to retire, perhaps a good third career would be running a day care. He and his wife - the backbone of the family, as his daughter puts it - seem to have a pretty good track record raising the next generation of hard-working siblings who get along famously.
I am the most blessed person in the room, Bridgeman said at the AAG Summit. And for those who are given the most, the most is expected.
Lets hope his fellow athletes, like his children, follow in his footsteps.
The Crimson Blur said:Contract the league to two teams. 82 games between the same 30 guys.
They say the league needs a genuine rivalry right?
The Crimson Blur said:Contract the league to two teams. 82 games between the same 30 guys.
They say the league needs a genuine rivalry right?
You get a chance to check out Silas' debut?Blackace said:This is the best post you have ever made..
Take that as you will
Adam Blade said:ESPN poll on which team to contract.
You all get one guess as to which team is number one on the voters' list to contract...
MIAMI -- LeBron James welcomes the New Jersey Nets and the Minnesota Timberwolves as part of the NBA, and said that he never intended to advocate contraction in recent comments he made about the league's "watered down" talent level compared to the 1980s.
"That's crazy, because I had no idea what the word 'contraction' meant before I saw it on the Internet," James said after the Miami Heat's practice Monday. "I never even mentioned that. That word never even came out of my mouth. I was just saying how the league was back in the '80s and how it could be good again. I never said, 'Let's take some of the teams out.' "
[...]
James, who was named Eastern Conference Player of the Week on Monday, said he was speaking only in hypothetical terms when he suggested what it might be like to remove Love, the league's leading rebounder, from the struggling Timberwolves, or to see some of the Nets' better players on teams that could contend for a championship.
"Imagine if you could take Kevin Love off Minnesota and add him to another team and you shrink the [league]," James said Thursday. "Looking at some of the teams that aren't that great, you take Brook Lopez or you take Devin Harris off these teams that aren't that good right now and you add him to a team that could be really good. Not saying let's take New Jersey and let's take Minnesota out of the league. But hey, you guys are not stupid, I'm not stupid, it would be great for the league."
[...]
"I'm with the players, and the players know that," James said Monday. "I've been with the players. It's not about getting guys out of the league or knocking teams out. I didn't mean to upset nobody. I didn't tell Avery Johnson to leave either. I didn't say let's abandon the Nets, and not let them move to Brooklyn or let's tear down the Target Center in Minnesota. I never said that."
Blackace said:This is the best post you have ever made..
Take that as you will
DY_nasty said:1) In what way does Miami play better with Bosh? He doesn't rebound or defend nearly as well as Haslem, no one will debate that, and his offense, although much better, has been reduced to barely more than that of Big Z in Cleveland. He is easily a better scorer, but is he going to be asked to do that with Wade and Lebron? No. And even when both Wade and Lebron are off the court, Bosh isn't able to maintain the pace alone. Even against shitty teams.
2) :lol
Oh shit, that fall looked nasty. Any word on his elbow?Branduil said:
He didn't play in the last couple of minutes, but I don't think it was that serious. I haven't heard anything about it.reilo said:Oh shit, that fall looked nasty. Any word on his elbow?
Doomsayer said:To even further this, Gilbert got LeBron everything he wanted. He made trades and signed players to LeBrons liking. LeBron is a glorified role player, plain and simple.
Sharp said:Signing in from sunny Belize to say fuck the Rockets. I hope you burn in hell.
charsace said:lol what. The team Lebron had the last 2 years was built to win a title. They had shooting, team defense and rebounding. If you put a decent volume scorer on the cavs right now they would be in the playoff hunt.
Blackace said:Shit LBJ isn't nearly as good as any of those players. He isn't even as good of a scorer as Wilkins or King...
Blackace said:You and me both... Wilkins would have taken Cle to the promise land
mckmas8808 said:In his dreams. :lol Wilkins was a better Blake Griffin and I doubt the Cavs with Griffin would even make the playoffs.
:lolSharp said:Signing in from sunny Belize to say fuck the Rockets. I hope you burn in hell.
Number of times Wilkins scored 29-30PPG+:mckmas8808 said:Crazy talk. They basically have the same team now without Lebron and are on track to win less than 25 games. :lol
I disagree. Lebron is way better than you are giving him credit for. Scoring around 30 points a game doesn't come easy.
In his dreams. :lol Wilkins was a better Blake Griffin and I doubt the Cavs with Griffin would even make the playoffs.
Reading this, reminded me of a certain quote again...mckmas8808 said:Scoring around 30 points a game doesn't come easy.
He can do it whenever he wants! Except when he doesn't!Lebron said:"If I really wanted to," James said, "if I really wanted to be the scoring [champion] every single year -- every single year -- I could really do it. But it doesn't matter."
reilo said:RT @samickAOL: Kings G Tyreke Evans is considering a left foot procedure involving lasers to heal his plantar fasciitis. It would put him out 3-4 months.
reilo said:Reading this, reminded me of a certain quote again...
He can do it whenever he wants! Except when he doesn't!
DY_nasty said:I tried to keep watching Basketball Wives this season, but I can't... these skanks are just too much.
reilo said:Reading this, reminded me of a certain quote again...
He can do it whenever he wants! Except when he doesn't!
I still catch up with some of those guys after every game. Especially [Wizards guard] Nick Young. Because I loved his talents from when he was little. I talk to him after games. He makes jokes about stuff. He was telling me about Rashard Lewis (traded to Washington in deal for Arenas). Nick was like, 'I don't know if he's going to make it two weeks here. He feels like the world just ended.' And I'm like, 'Man, I feel like the world just started for me over here. I can see why he's mad.'
ryutaro's mama said:STOP.SHITTING.UP.THE.THREAD
Your "jokes" get a score that exactly equal to amount of Finals games won by your boy LeBron.
Gigglepoo said:I understand Kemp/Griffin comparisons, but Wilkins? They're totally different players. And the Cavs would be damn good with 'Nique on their team now. Not sure why anyone would think it would be a precipitous drop off from LeBron's team.
reilo said:Number of times Wilkins scored 29-30PPG+:
1986: 30.3PPG
1987: 29.0PPG
1988: 30.7PPG
1993: 29.9PPG
Number of times Lebron scored 29-30PPG+:
2006: 31.4PPG
2008: 30.0PPG
2010: 29.7PPG
It's not that far fetched. It surely isn't a laughing matter.
mckmas8808 said:Your post are the worse.