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6-year-old autistic boy throws birthday party - none of his classmates show up :(

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RBH

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But thankfully, this story has a happy ending. :)


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All it took was a Facebook post, the kindness of strangers and eventually a helicopter to save the day for a 6-year-old Florida boy.

For Glenn Buratti's birthday, his mother Ashlee Buratti said she invited his entire class over for a party. When none of the 16 kids showed up, her son was devastated.

"To see the look on his face killed me inside," Buratti told CBS News Orlando affiliate WKMG. Her son, who is autistic, was so saddened by the absence of guests, she said, that he refused to smile.


"I know this might be something silly to rant about, but my heart is breaking for my son," she wrote in a post on Facebook. "He keeps asking 'when will my friends get here?'"

The post sparked an immediate response from her community. Buratti said complete strangers responded, and shortly after her posting, kids and their parents began bringing gifts.

Then the police got involved. The county sheriff's office near her house in St. Cloud, Florida, orchestrated their own gift: A flyover from the the sheriff's helicopter.

"Glenn just smiled the whole time and waved," Buratti said. "It was amazing."

Deputies bought Glenn more presents, and, the next week, sheriff's cars, police dogs and fire trucks paid him a visit at the same time.


"We got to the stop sign by our house and Glenn was like: 'The fire truck's at our house!'" Buratti recalled. "I said, 'It's okay, They're there to tell you happy birthday.'"

The fact that a simple online "rant" could save her son's birthday restored Buratti's faith in the human spirit.

"The amazingness of everybody coming together for somebody they didn't even know, a kid that didn't have anybody come to his birthday party, it warmed my heart."
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/officers-deploy-to-save-autistic-boys-birthday/



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Altazor

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fuck the other kids (and their parents) for not even bothering... but that was a beautiful gesture from the rest of the community.

Considering my little brother has autism, all these kinds of news hit really close to home. Thankfully, all his birthdays were family affairs :)
 

Floridian

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At first when I was reading I was like that's messed up, but later I got happy that the community had a heart and gave the boy support.
 

3N16MA

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Not a single kid showed up? Did all the parents coordinate some plan not to send any of their kids to the party?
 

rbanke

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Ouch, poor guy. Only 30 min or so away from here.

My 4 year old is in VPK (grade before kindergarten) and there are also 16 kids. Parents seem to not ask for RSVP on these parties usually. My son has gone to all the birthday's hes been invited too but a couple of them were nearly this sort of situation where it was my son and 1 or two other kids. Something unbelievably sad watching a little kid barely have any classmates/friends show up to their birthday party.
 

Dalek

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Devil's advocate: So people are forced to go to every birthday party they get invited to now?

As a parent-you have no idea how many parties they get invited to. Every weekend it seems. That being said-something is definitely up with this story-it's too coincidental that no one else showed up.
 

antonz

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Happy to see people step up and make the kids day a happy one. I mean I get you don't owe the kid anything but how heartless can people be to just completely shit on the kids day by having none of the classmates show up.

As a parent-you have no idea how many parties they get invited to. Every weekend it seems. That being said-something is definitely up with this story-it's too coincidental that no one else showed up.

The way autism is treated by people in this country its not shocking. Autism is treated like its some easily transferred death sentence brought on by those evil vaccines
 

Aselith

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Devil's advocate: So people are forced to go to every birthday party they get invited to now?

No certainly not. It's just a sad situation. Imagine the poor kid is expecting this cool party with the kids he sees everyday. Imagine how you'd feel in his shoes waiting for the that first kid to show up. And waiting. And waiting.

I'm not an emotional guy but I almost cried thinking about that for real. That's got to be a horrible feeling.

The autism part was pretty immaterial though that's crushing for any kid. Basically it's just some window dressing for the story.
 
Not a single kid showed up? Did all the parents coordinate some plan not to send any of their kids to the party?

Maybe the classmates just don't want the burden of befriending the kid for day in day out for the entire school year :(

Thumbs up for the community and police officers and firefighters for making the kid's birthday, though.
 

Loofy

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Ouch, poor guy. Only 30 min or so away from here.

My 4 year old is in VPK (grade before kindergarten) and there are also 16 kids. Parents seem to not ask for RSVP on these parties usually. My son has to all the birthday's hes been invited too but a couple of them were nearly this sort of situation where it was my son and 1 or two other kids. Something unbelievably sad watching a little kid barely have any classmates/friends show up to their birthday party.
Could it be for the same reason that parents dont let their kids go out trick or treating anymore?
Too much coddling and they dont trust other parents to be safe babysitters..
 

jwk94

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Devil's advocate: So people are forced to go to every birthday party they get invited to now?

Yeah, as sad as this is, it looks like the kid doesn't have friends in his class. You really can't expect them to just show up like that.
 
It seems kind of naive to assume any of the kids will show up unless the kid's parents were well acquainted with the other families and their children.

Maybe the kid just doesn't have friends and they need to teach him how to make friends.
 

Crayons

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As a parent-you have no idea how many parties they get invited to. Every weekend it seems. That being said-something is definitely up with this story-it's too coincidental that no one else showed up.

So you're saying I was a loser as a child too?
 

Einhander

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A G/A/F thread with a happy ending? Well, I'll be.

I was heartbroken when I read the beginning of the story, then gradually felt warmth in my heart by the end of the article. Humanity has its terrible moments, but they also pull through and shine like in this feel-good story.
 

rbanke

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Could it be for the same reason that parents dont let their kids go out trick or treating anymore?
Too much coddling and they dont trust other parents to be safe babysitters..

Dunno. Were lucky that our son is in a charter school so the parents mostly want to be involved and show up to field trips and things like this. But at a regular school I could see this being something that happens, a couple don't want to go because they arent friends, a couple more have parents that don't want to go, and a few more just can't make it and there they are. With 16 kids it doesn't seem too far fetched. Thats why a parent should at least try to get an idea by asking for people to RSVP. Again though, doesn't make it any less sad
 

lightus

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Maybe the classmates just don't want the burden of befriending the kid for day in day out for the entire school year :(

Thumbs up for the community and police officers and firefighters for making the kid's birthday, though.

I seriously doubt it had anything to do with the children. Six year olds don't care about that sort of stuff and they certainly wouldn't consider having another friend a "burden".
 
On one hand it sounds like a really sad situation for the kid, but if he doesn't have any friends in the class (Which sounds like the case) it seems kind of silly that the kids/parents are expected to go to some kids birthday party that their childbarely knows.

It's good to see this had a happy ending, but I can't help but think if the kid didn't have autism this wouldn't have even been a news story.
 

HowZatOZ

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This is why birthdays are a family affair with us. Because kids are just as big assholes as adults.

It should always be about spending time with those you love who cherish every day with you, no matter the special importance of a specific day.
 
I seriously doubt it had anything to do with the children. Six year olds don't care about that sort of stuff and they certainly wouldn't consider having another friend a "burden".

Well, then the parents collectively suck :(

That photo with him smiling with the police officers and firefighters is making me chop onions at work.
 
Not a single kid showed up? Did all the parents coordinate some plan not to send any of their kids to the party?

I would not be surprised if this were the case.

It seems kind of naive to assume any of the kids will show up unless the kid's parents were well acquainted with the other families and their children.

Maybe the kid just doesn't have friends and they need to teach him how to make friends.

I love how in the other thread you're the one accusing members of personally attacking The Oatmeal.
 

kaiju

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Not a single kid showed up? Did all the parents coordinate some plan not to send any of their kids to the party?

My wife is a special ed. teacher, she's had a hard time just to get a few of her autistic kids to get to go on field trips with the other classes. It's always a battle. A lot of the teachers of the "normal" kids don't want to have to deal with them. It's ridiculous and sad.

Also parents these days can be quite cliquey and just as immature as the kids themselves.
 

Zoolader

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I've never seen a whole class get invited to a party before. Touching as the story is you can't really blame the kids for not showing up if they aren't actually friends.
 

ElRenoRaven

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Awww. I feel for the little guy. Glad to see some folks showing that there are still plenty of good folks out there too.
 
This is why birthdays are a family affair with us. Because kids are just as big assholes as adults.

Ain't no six year old turning down an afternoon of free cake and games. This is the parents, and it was probably coordinated, it's hard to buy a universal no-show otherwise.
 

Alphahawk

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I still find this story sad, I mean yeah the community did get involved but none of the people he invited ever showed up which would be heartbreaking to me as a kid.
 

Vyrance

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Great job by the community, the police, and others to help out the poor guy on his birthday. Shitty job by the parents of the invited kids :(
 
Now this is awesome the community came together for him seeing stuff like that restores my faith in humanity just a little.

Also a postive thread about florida ? Holy shit I am in the twilight zone ?
 
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