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[Richiban]

A while back, I made a thread about whether or not you would let someones past determine if you would date them or not. I got some good advice, and some not so great. (FHUTA, anyone?)

Anyways, I decided to take a shot on this girl and went out with her a few times. Things are comfortable, and her and I have a lot in common; she's easy to talk to, we like the same music, movies, have some of the same sort of background. You know, all that jazz.

We basically established something; that we were dating, and that we weren't going to rush into things, but that I was with her and she was with me.

I went out with her a few times, and it was nice, but last week she invited me to go to a movie with her, which I readily accepted. I mean, FHUTA, right?

When I got to her place, another dude was sitting there, who she said was coming to the movie with us. I'm a pretty friendly guy, so I said whatever, introduced myself and we all went to the flick.

The next day I left town for work, and when I came back, she was telling me that her and this dude went to a movie together and how they went out for supper together and what a big sweety he is, so I called her on it.

Am I getting played off another guy, and is this chick seeing what her options are before she commits?

Eff that, I don't need this kind of drama. While I'm probably answering my own question, should I bolt before I get a major headache from this?

 

[impirius]

"Lightning bolt"

 

[beto]

I didn't read your post but, YES

 

[DaCocoBrova]

Since sh!t wasn't offically established up front, then she didn't do any wrong, but if it were me in your position...I'd go on her (scream on the b!tch for toying w/ your emotions).

Women know what's up. I don't know how old you are, but they want sex as bad or worse than we want it. She's using dude to make you jealous since she's not considering/acknowledging your feelings.

The next time you see her, *blow her back out. Enough is enough.



* Have intercourse w/ her, from the back.

 

[sefskillz]

(FHUTA, anyone?)

http://www.fhuta.info

 

[btrboyev]

yechnically she didn't do anything wrong, but its still a shitty thing to do and it says a lot about what kind of person she is. If she has been deciding between you two, it probably wasn't the best thing to ring you both out at the same time..thats just fucked up.

Let the bitch have the other guy.

 

[Escape Goat]

We basically established something; that we were dating, and that we weren't going to rush into things, but that I was with her and she was with me.

Basically? As in you didnt establish something?

 

[DaCocoBrova]

But get some pussy first. Time is precious, and to not get some means you wasted a lot of it.

 

[Richiban]

I will completely agree with the fact that she didn't do anything wrong. Her and I were just seeing where things could go, and it looked like things were going to go somewhere based on our conversations with each other and the way we were very affectionate.

Damn, you'd think that as you get older, these sorts of things get easier, but they sure fuckin' don't.

 

[ElyrionX]

She's using the other dude to test you in the worst way possible. Don't fall for it. Don't let bitches get away with such shit. Ditch her and make it clear why......

 

[Forgotten Ancient]

I'd get the hell out of that one.

A few years ago I was dating a girl that kind of put me in a similar situation. We were dating basically exclusively for a few months, but she said she didn't want to have labels such as "bf and gf". She had great tits, so I went along with it thinking she wouldn't do some BS. Well...one day she invited me to go bowling with her and some friends. When I got there, she was with this one guy the whole time and wouldn't get off. Just a few days before she was saying she was falling in love w/me.

While she's not doing anything "wrong", she definitely knows what the hell she's doing. Abort mission.

 

[way more]

She clearly thinks you aren't doing enough for her, and you're not. She's trying to shake things up and possibly ruin what ever it is you two have done. She wants to see you pissed and she wants to you to hurry things along. You get this for wanting to take things too slowly.

So either get pissed and yell or blow it off.

 

[demon]

FHITE


(fuck her in the ear)

 

[Cubsfan23]

"Wow, you 2 looked so cute together, you should go out with him again"

Never fails.

 

[Incognito]

"Wow, you 2 looked so cute together, you should go out with him again"

Never fails.

haaaaaaaa, that is true. damn bitches.

 

[Richiban]

I just spoke with her not too long ago.

She had called to make plans tonight, but I turned her down on account of work and basketball league.

She went on to say that she's gonna call the other dude instead and see what he's up to.

I told her to go for it, later, hang up.

Felt pretty good if you ask me.

 

[Escape Goat]

You shot her down. She tried you make you jealous by tossing out ultimatum. You called her on it.

Good job

 

[Cubsfan23]

:lol :lol i love these happy endings

 

[human5892]

"Wow, you 2 looked so cute together, you should go out with him again"

Never fails.

YES!

God damn, Cubsfan, it's a good thing you're back.

 

[Cubsfan23]

I like me too

 

[Incognito]

my current away message reads:

"THE SUN IS UP, THE SKY IS BLUE, ITS BEAUTIFUL, AND SO ARE U"

well, my crazed-ex that i've talked about before not too recently sent me two IM's while i've been gone...

"I've heard that before...."

then, later in the day

"no, for some reason I listened to you..."


help me cubsfan, ur my only hope.

 

[ohamsie]

She probably just wanted a little double penetration.

 

[lachesis]

Perhaps someone just should write "She's just not that into you" for men...

lachesis