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Americans - do you really go to restaurants at 8pm or later?

Raven117

Member
In major urban areas, of course.

I prefer later reservations 8-9 is fine, but can even go later.

Gives you an opportunity for drinks before hand and some light snacks.

Slide right on into a boozy dinner... with great food and company. Have dinner till like 11pm. Maybe a night cap...Home by 12:30.

Thats the good stuff right there.
 

DeceptiveAlarm

Gold Member
Not usually no.. in fact if it's a weekend I push my wife to get there earlier than usual (4:30-5) so we can beat the crowds, especially if it's a very popular place
in fact if I'm going to my favorite place on earth (Texas De Brazil) I'll have dinner at 2:30 PM so I can get the full dinner meal for a lower price.. and I'll feel better about pigging out
the way I want to there if I'm not going to eat again for the rest of the night.
Texas De Brazil is awesome.
 

Amiga

Member
In Saudi 8pm is the time for snacks, brunch and coffee. dinner after midnight.

In the USA it felt eerie and unsettling to see most places closed and darkness in most towns after 8pm.
 

GHG

Member
Here in the middle east its pretty normal to go out late to eat. Last Friday we didn't kick off until 9PM. Places are open late.

In Saudi 8pm is the time for snacks, brunch and coffee. dinner after midnight.

In the USA it felt eerie and unsettling to see most places closed and darkness in most towns after 8pm.

Yep. Went to Toronto a few years ago with the wife and we tried walking into a restaurant at 9pm, they told us they were closing. Bit of a shock having become used to the times places are open until here.
 
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StreetsofBeige

Gold Member
Here in the middle east its pretty normal to go out late to eat. Last Friday we didn't kick off until 9PM. Places are open late.



Yep. Went to Toronto a few years ago with the wife and we tried walking into a restaurant at 9pm, they told us they were closing. Bit of a shock having become used to the times places are open until here.
Thats surely a covid thing closing at 9 pm. But it may happen if it's a small mom an pop shops in the burbs. Most places will typically close 10 pm minimum. And if it's a pub or downtown place, it'll go to 2 am. I dont think many eateries stay open past 2 am though unless it's a greasy spoon open all night for drunks and clubbers. But the kitchen might close at 11 pm unless it has a late night bar menu.

Covid fucked everything up. We are currently in No Dine In mode again. But opens up for half capacity soon. Then full capacity in March. When there's any kind of lockdown, some smaller eateries dont even bother opening for take out service only. They wait till the city opens things up.

In Saudi 8pm is the time for snacks, brunch and coffee. dinner after midnight.

In the USA it felt eerie and unsettling to see most places closed and darkness in most towns after 8pm.
Is this a weekend thing? Or a work night? So if dinner is after midnight, what time do you go to bed and what time to get up and go to work?
 
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Darchaos

Member
Meh, life is to short to live by a frickin scheme. If i want to i go out a sunday or a tuesday or whatever, and take a late snack, lunch or drink, or all. It makes me feel free. Ofcourse i dont do it everyday, it depends how i work the day after. But one of the best feelings is to, on a sunday(if you have monday off) drink some beers or some Whisky and eat something nice late at night. That feeling of freedom, for me that is "enjoying life"
 
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Fuz

Banned
In media (TV, Film), whenever a guy asks a girl out for dinner, they always organise the time for what seems pretty late to me, ie 8pm or later. Is this what happens in reality? Anything after 7pm would be considered pretty late here.
lol
Try coming in Italy. 8PM is the earliest imaginable, if you're not elderly or hospitalized.

I often hear from other Italians that they have problems finding open restaurants for dinner when they travel.
 
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Fuz

Banned
Korea is crazy. Go for a night out in Seoul, hit the bars until 4am then sit down at a restaurant for some BBQ or whatever you want and pass out on the 6am subway home. Nothing ever closes. Koreans always eat food with alcohol so it's a constant stream of business for restaurant owners.

sadly COVID has us at 9pm closing times everywhere, it's the worst and seemingly neverending
Koreans NEVER stop eating. Been there in 2018 and going out with Koreans friend, they wanted to go from a restaurant to a bar to an ice cream parlor to some street food...
 

BadBurger

Many “Whelps”! Handle It!
Every single culture on the planet that I am aware of are fond of eating out during those hours, yes. Whether I've been in South America, the Caribbean, Southeast Asia, etc. It is far, far from unique to the US.

This thread is like an alien who landed in the US and is trying to understand human behavior.
 

Amiga

Member
Is this a weekend thing? Or a work night? So if dinner is after midnight, what time do you go to bed and what time to get up and go to work?

Work nights for many. bed after 2am, Up at 8am . we kind of split the sleep into two sessions. 2nd is after work and lunch. On weekends it's on until daybreak. I can't remember the last time I had a full 8 hours of sleep.
 

StreetsofBeige

Gold Member
Work nights for many. bed after 2am, Up at 8am . we kind of split the sleep into two sessions. 2nd is after work and lunch. On weekends it's on until daybreak. I can't remember the last time I had a full 8 hours of sleep.
Canada is very similar to the US, although I'd say Toronto (not covid years) is a lot more open than many US downtowns.

The reason for that is because a lot of US downtowns are skewed to work and offices. So when it's 5pm and time to go home, that downtown business sector is a ghost town so things all close early. Toronto has lots of condos downtown (tons) and students milling around as there's a slew of universities and colleges. So there's always people around so things are more open.

For us, restaurants will often close later on Fridays and Saturdays. Not sure about Sundays.

Assuming someone works during the day (not covid years), it'll be something like get up at 7 am, be at work by 8:30 and get home by 5:30. When home start making dinner soon. Maybe eat by 6:30. Go to bed by around midnight and wake up at 7 am next day. Repeat. WFH covid has been great though. No commute. I wake up around 8:15 and log into work around 8:45. For blue collar jobs, their hours skew a bit earlier where manufacturing and warehousing jobs might be more like start at 7 am and leave by 3 pm.
 

TheInfamousKira

Reseterror Resettler
Why is there a thread every two months that goes "Americans, do you [do thing] during meals?"

Yes. We go to the restaurants at 9:30 PM, then we unbutton our pants, clap wildly, DON'T tip, and then shit in the discarded plate before getting into a fight in the parking lot. With guns. Then we ride home on our racist eagle, drink beer and watch reruns of The Apprentice before littering. We also don't get free health care. It really sucks, and we're all appalling animals fit only to be jeered at and prodded from inside our red, white and blue cages. TIM MCGRAW AND NASCAR ARE MY BABIES' FATHERS. I DRIVE TO WORK ON MY 4 WHEELER. YEE FUCKING HAW.

But seriously, yes. We do.

Shit on the plates.
 

MaestroMike

Gold Member
In Saudi 8pm is the time for snacks, brunch and coffee. dinner after midnight.

In the USA it felt eerie and unsettling to see most places closed and darkness in most towns after 8pm.

no one wants to go out to eat during the day when its 100 degrees outside ??
 
lol
Try coming in Italy. 8PM is the earliest imaginable, if you're not elderly or hospitalized.

I often hear from other Italians that they have problems finding open restaurants for dinner when they travel.
I do remember when I was in Italy eating super late. Mind you, we were drunk the whole time
 
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I mean we don't get off work until at least 5 usually, so when else would we go? Shit I don't get off until 6 on Fridays. Lame ass states.

Most of my team gets in at 7 and leaves at 3:30. Some get in as early as 5

I'm a 9-5 personally but fucking hungry by then
 
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jason10mm

Gold Member
Why is there a thread every two months that goes "Americans, do you [do thing] during meals?"

Yes. We go to the restaurants at 9:30 PM, then we unbutton our pants, clap wildly, DON'T tip, and then shit in the discarded plate before getting into a fight in the parking lot. With guns. Then we ride home on our racist eagle, drink beer and watch reruns of The Apprentice before littering. We also don't get free health care. It really sucks, and we're all appalling animals fit only to be jeered at and prodded from inside our red, white and blue cages. TIM MCGRAW AND NASCAR ARE MY BABIES' FATHERS. I DRIVE TO WORK ON MY 4 WHEELER. YEE FUCKING HAW.

But seriously, yes. We do.

Shit on the plates.
I get it. Folks love American culture, want to be in America, but only know stuff from films. So they are naturally curious if it is even awesomer for reals than it seems.

I mean, I've seen like 2 Irish films so I already know they eat porridge served by leprechauns, no questions there. And the one Indian film I sorta kinda watched made it clear they eat every meal with an elaborate song and dance involving the whole neighborhood (when it's not monkey brains and pulling peoples hearts out of course but that was in the 30's).

/s
 

Susurrus

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We go out to eat whenever we damn well feel like it.

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lillars

Member
When I was younger I definitely used to. Now that I have kids we usually eat around 5-6. I honestly can't remember the last time I ate a meal at a restaurant after 8pm. That probably makes me sound really old 👴:goog_lol:
 
I like to hit restaurants late enough (after 8) to avoid eating around 100 people during meal time rush, but early enough the staff isn't wishing I would die in a fire (we close in 15 minutes and you just ordered the most complicated dish we serve).
 

Sakura

Member
Thats surely a covid thing closing at 9 pm. But it may happen if it's a small mom an pop shops in the burbs. Most places will typically close 10 pm minimum. And if it's a pub or downtown place, it'll go to 2 am. I dont think many eateries stay open past 2 am though unless it's a greasy spoon open all night for drunks and clubbers. But the kitchen might close at 11 pm unless it has a late night bar menu.

Covid fucked everything up. We are currently in No Dine In mode again. But opens up for half capacity soon. Then full capacity in March. When there's any kind of lockdown, some smaller eateries dont even bother opening for take out service only. They wait till the city opens things up.
I dunno about that. Most proper restaurants where I am from in BC are only open till 9 or 10pm at the latest. Some are only open till 8pm.
Pubs and fast food places are open a bit later, sure.
 
Most Americans in their everyday lives eat dinner around 5:30-7:00. But dates are special, so they might be later, like a night out on the town. Media further exaggerates this because the mediocre screenwriters need to communicate that These Characters Are Cool Hip Attractive People Who Stay Out Late And Party As All People Who Aren't Losers Do.
 
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IntentionalPun

Ask me about my wife's perfect butthole
Honestly in a busy city a lot of this is just down to when you can get a reservation for a popular place.

Aside from that you also have people getting together to eat before going out for drinks at more "bar/club" atmospheres and you want that to be a bit later.

Either way the answer to literally every "in America you dot this?" question is that... America is full of people who do different things, just like whatever country you come from too.
 

godhandiscen

There are millions of whiny 5-year olds on Earth, and I AM THEIR KING.
During college, I used to hit diners with friends at midnight.
 
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NeoIkaruGAF

Gold Member
HOW DO PEOPLE DINE BEFORE 6 PM?

How?
Why?
Do you wake up at 3AM?
Do you never have lunch?
How are you even hungry at 5PM?
5 is barely tea time for me, I may have a snack at that hour, but fuckin’ DINNER? Aren’t you hungry again around midnight?
 

TheInfamousKira

Reseterror Resettler
HOW DO PEOPLE DINE BEFORE 6 PM?

How?
Why?
Do you wake up at 3AM?
Do you never have lunch?
How are you even hungry at 5PM?
5 is barely tea time for me, I may have a snack at that hour, but fuckin’ DINNER? Aren’t you hungry again around midnight?

I routinely have dinner at midnight, lunch around 4 PM, and no breakfast. I also struggle with mild insomnia and have a schedule that enables me to have an ass backwards circadian rhythm. Dinner at 6 is heresy.
 

IntentionalPun

Ask me about my wife's perfect butthole
HOW DO PEOPLE DINE BEFORE 6 PM?

How?
Why?
Do you wake up at 3AM?
Do you never have lunch?
How are you even hungry at 5PM?
5 is barely tea time for me, I may have a snack at that hour, but fuckin’ DINNER? Aren’t you hungry again around midnight?
A lot of people don't really eat lunch as a meal.

I'm so busy with work I barely have time for a snack.

So dinner is at 5PM usually.
 
Depends. Mostly on special occasions -- dates, people's birthdays, etc. But most dinner dates can still be anywhere between 6-7:30 PM (followed be drinks and/or other activities afterwards).

I rarely go out to eat out on my own. I like to cook and, on top of that, restaurant food has gotten really expensive in my city, and a lot of it is over-seasoned/salty/etc.
 

Tams

Member
Eh, lots of Europeans eat late.

The UK has a mix for dinner/tea at home of around 5-6pm or 7pm. People who say earlier tend to call it tea. This isn't too be confused with afternoon tea/high tea (which are usually going out to eat these days). And if you have an early tea, your more likely to have supper.

As for eating out... early bird menus don't finish until about 6pm. Normally people don't have dinner out until 7pm. 8pm is the hardest to get reservations/seats for.

A lot of restaurants close at 10pm.

Mainland Europeans tend to eat later.

As for being hungry... I just have a snack if I am, but I just eat a decent lunch anyway.
 
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