I dunno. I think some people genuinely feel persecuted for being assholes. A friend (or ex-friend now) of mine has shown herself to be really conservative recently and I tried to have a frank discussion with her about it. Basically told her "look, I'm LGBT and the stuff you're posting is pretty upsetting. I don't think I can be friends with you if you think I'm disgusting". In response she started vague-booking shit like "You cut me and pretended you were bleeding", "The truth is there are people who don't care about how you feel and care about being right instead. While we shouldn't be victims we shouldn't be around those who are toxic in the way they treat us", and "I'm tired of people judging me for being a christian". No fucking clue. Being called out for bullying people isn't the same as bullying people.
ugh. That's fucked up. Sorry. I have a friend who was a close friend now at arms length because of their well-intentioned anti gay marriage stance myself. (Although being tired of being judged because you're a christian is fucking hilarious as a way to justify an anti-gay marriage stance. Lol).
What I mean though is that it's no longer kosher to just up and up say "gay people shouldn't have rights", but rather they have to hide it behind "oh it's my OPINION and we all RESPECT EACH OTHER'S OPINIONS and if you don't YOU'RE OPPRESSING ME not I YOU", which to me, indicates that you can't be a complete bastard anymore. Not that I mean that every single person is actively doing the doublethink necessary to compute this, but even unconsciously they recognise the inherent terribleness of their own opinions.