1. That's a stupid statement.
2. Why is "nerdy white boy" a racist comment?
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1. That's a stupid statement.
2. Why is "nerdy white boy" a racist comment?
Blacks and other minorities are more prone to being negatively stereotyped on a wide and grandious scale (and having it being ignored), IIRC. I remember when president Obama was elected, all these politics and journalists were talking about how spoke "proper" English etc., implying that in their minds, most black people talk like Uncle Ruckus. There was an article on this, I should try to find it.
It's er... read a few articles about racism in the US in particular, you'll likely have a better understanding.
Blacks and other minorities are more prone to being negatively stereotyped on a wide and grandiose scale (and having it being ignored), IIRC. I remember when president Obama was elected, all these politics and journalists were talking about how spoke "proper" English etc., implying that in their minds, most black people talk like Uncle Ruckus. There was an article on this, I should try to find it.
It's er... read a few articles about racism in the US in particular, you'll likely have a better understanding.
I'm aware; I wanted to clarify that he wasn't saying "people who see race are the real racists," as that's bullshit. But from what I've learned, race is social, yes.
So you're saying there's no "white hive mind" perception?
I was speaking to someone and they used "nerdy white boy" to describe a pedestrian.
I called them out for being racist and this lead to a discussion on racism and what it is. She said that white people are the only people that can be racist because they're, "the only race that thinks their better than other races." After that, she said you can't argue because she's going by the definition.
It sounds like a variation of the position of power argument to me.
Do any of you have similar opinions, or know anyone that does?
Edit: I want to clarify that I do not think that racism is exclusive to whites.
Edit: I also want to clarify that I'm black, so I really don't think that this is the first time I've met another black person.
The sociological term requiring a social power structure in addition to prejudice? No.
The word people use to define racially based prejudices? Yes.
Is her reasoning applicable to that first one? No.
If anyone can be a racist, then you inherently assume that all races are treated fairly and equally in society. Because for anyone to be racists, they themselves believe they are better than the other person based on their own race. Hence why people associate racism to a power dynamic and not just four or five words from someone's mouth.
I mean you can go a bit deeper than that without insulting me. Isn't stereotyping racist?
Yeah dude, keep coming up with backwards ass logic to defend hating or believing you're better than someone else because they share a different skin color to the one you're wrapped in. Anyone can be racist. Being on the shorter end of the stick throughout history isn't a fucking fee pass.If anyone can be a racist, then you inherently assume that all races are treated fairly and equally in society. Because for anyone to be racists, they themselves believe they are better than the other person based on their own race. Hence why people associate racism to a power dynamic and not just four or five words from someone's mouth.
Ethnicity sort of exists--from a social / cultural / very barely biological standpoint--but isn't super useful. "Han Chinese" sort of means something (likely speaks Mandarin or Cantonese, likely educated in Confucian rather than Socratic tradition, likely not religious, etc); "Asian" doesn't mean anything at all. It's fucked up to assign an ethnicity to someone else in any case.
Race ("White", "Black", "Asian", "Native American", etc) doesn't exist, it is a construct of racists. Talking about someone's race doesn't get you any closer to understanding them. It probably moves you farther from understanding.
I didn't say that. I'm actually very interested as to where you're going with this. Not another "Technically everyone experiences this and that" argument, I hope. Unless that's where it should go. I'm too stupid for all this.
White people can't jump/dance is the equivalent of black people can't swim or Asian's are good at math. That's not comparable to a black person calling someone a nerdy white boy. The equivalent is nerdy black boy.
I'm sorry, but you cannot compare blacks being racist (or any minority for that matter) to whites. It doesn't work that way. In no way have white people been oppressed, but minorities have by whites.
What you've said is more like minimizing the effects of racism and slavery on the black community by trying to make the issues equivalent.
"I have literally no idea what I am talking about, but please enjoy the contents of my anus!"
So you're saying there's no "white hive mind" perception?
If the white hivemind operated at the same level and rate as black hivemind, guns would have been banned a long time ago because all white people love shooting up schools.
Let's not act like they're at all comparable given the media and position of power relative to each group.
Back to the example of school/mass shootings. Every time they occur no one on Fox or CNN makes sweeping statements about white people or "white culture" they chalk it up to mental illness, family issues. Generally the narrative is that it's an individual issue and not a societal/cultural issue.
Now flip the news to anything pertaining blacks and the suggestions aren't nearly as individualistic. It's usually a bunch of people who have probably never met a black person making shit points about black culture, the music indoctrinating all of us, the hand outs, welfare queens, and all kinds of hilariously obvious dog whistles that the rest of America never notices.
I mean really just look at media treatment of Obama versus any other President ever. Obama fistbumped Michelle when he won? Cue Fox asking if it was some urban thing, a sign or something, then calling Michelle his "baby mama".
Please stop the "us too" shit, it's so played out.
Because there's nothing inherently derogatory, demeaning, dehumanizing or shameful in calling someone "nerdy".
You can say it in a derogatory manner but it's not a racially charged word or a powerful derogatory word to begin with.
black people can be racist.
Rwandan Genocide: Hutu hating on Tutsi so on and on
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And guess who invented these so-called races of "Tsutsi" and "Hutu"? And who made one inferior to another through not only the classification but also positions of power in Rwandan society?
Absolutely anybody can be racist. A blogger I know on tumblr vehemently insists that only white people have the power to be racist, but that's ridiculous. An Asian person using the N-word is no less harmful than a white person using that word.
If anyone can be a racist, then you inherently assume that all races are treated fairly and equally in society. Because for anyone to be racists, they themselves believe they are better than the other person based on their own race. Hence why people associate racism to a power dynamic and not just four or five words from someone's mouth.
This has nothing to do with my point.
What the hell are you talking about? Please read what you just posted.
It is possible to be racist against your own race?
It is possible to be racist against your own race?
black people can be racist.
Rwandan Genocide: Hutu hating on Tutsi so on and on
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I've never met an actual black person that believed that their black skin or ethnic background made them superior to or otherwise better than someone of fair skin.
Black people most certainly can be.
BUT.
I've never met an actual black person that believed that their black skin or ethnic background made them superior to or otherwise better than someone of fair skin. That's what racism is, after all: A belief that there is a difference between races and that your race is superior, supported by actions designed to oppress, suppress, or otherwise limit those of the "inferior" races. That is racism. And no, "Black supremacy" isn't a common modus operandi in our communities.
It's very possible for black folk to be bigoted or prejudiced, but racist...that's very rare. The only groups I think I've ever heard of that are black supremacists (per se) are some really weird religious groups. Maybe some in the Nation of Islam (are they still around?), maybe some in the 5 percent nation and similar extremely radical, extremely small groups.
So yes, it's possible but highly unusual. I hope people have a functioning, working, PROPER definition of what (a) racism, (b) bigotry, and (c) prejudiced are. There is some overlap, but there are some things that make each very unique and identifiable. As a socially-conscious black man, I'm perhaps more versed on these matters than some, but I expect all who would seek to participate in such a discussion at least absorb and internalize the definitions and go from there.
There's a stereotype that white people are lame, geeky, nerdy, etc. So I guess that can be used as a slur.
Where did you get the idea that I believe that using "white boy" or "nerdy" to describe someone was inherently derogatory?
Unless you're saying that some descriptors can never be used as slurs, regardless of intent, what reason do you have to say that I'm, "South of Smart?"
Your point is white people are subjected to the "hivemind" mindset too; you're not at anywhere near the same rate as black people because white people are the majority so other white people are never going to assume what one white person does represents all of them. They're not going to suggest that a white person's problem is because there is something wrong in the white culture. Of course they're not because they would also be saying that the culture they're part of is fucked up and that they are the same as this random white person elsewhere.
Again, the "us too" shit is a stupid argument.
Someone says "Nerdy X boy".
You decided to take that as a racist slur and call them out on it.
Leads me to believe that you assume some part of that comment is racist ...
After looking at this I come to the conclusion that you don't fully understand the meaning of the word and reading your friends logic leads me to that same stance with their understanding of the word.
Using an adjective isn't racist by it's self.
Racism in modern American vocabulary has a far more encompassing definition, which renders the "proper" definition limiting the term to merely "belief that X > Y".
You expect people to internalize and absorb the differences in the three words. Why? It's your opinion that it's important, which is fine, but it's not some universal truth that it matters. I expect no such thing, and quite frankly, find the semantics involved in trying to say "well they can be prejudice or bigoted but not racist" to be tedious, distracting bullshit.
"I can't disprove what they said so here's my feeble attempt to dismiss it."
Aren't you derailing the thread a little? OP's issue was with his friend saying that it's not possible for black people to be racist. Which is a flat out wrong and an idiotic thing to say.
I'm gonna say you're both to the South of "Smart".
That's not a racist thing to call someone ... and white people aren't the only racist people.
Black people most certainly can be.
BUT.
I've never met an actual black person that believed that their black skin or ethnic background made them superior to or otherwise better than someone of fair skin. That's what racism is, after all: A belief that there is a difference between races and that your race is superior, supported by actions designed to oppress, suppress, or otherwise limit those of the "inferior" races. That is racism. And no, "Black supremacy" isn't a common modus operandi in our communities. We generally don't walk around under a belief that we're *better than* anyone else. We've been looking for equality for 400+ fucking years; give us at least another 100 before we start feeling better than.
It's very possible for black folk to be bigoted or prejudiced, but racist...that's very rare. The only groups I think I've ever heard of that are black supremacists (per se) are some really weird religious groups. Maybe some in the Nation of Islam (are they still around?), maybe some in the 5 percent nation and similar extremely radical, extremely small groups.
So yes, it's possible but highly unusual. I hope people have a functioning, working, PROPER definition of what (a) racism, (b) bigotry, and (c) prejudiced are. There is some overlap, but there are some things that make each very unique and identifiable. As a socially-conscious black man, I'm perhaps more versed on these matters than some, but I expect all who would seek to participate in such a discussion at least absorb and internalize the definitions and go from there.
I would love if someone could answer this.
Black people are somehow always assumed to be some hivemind.
They can be. But since they've been targeted the most with racial slurs, cut them some slack.
OP keeps asking me to clarify wut I meant by this ...
Someone says "Nerdy X boy".
You decided to take that as a racist slur and call them out on it.
Leads me to believe that you assume some part of that comment is racist ...
After looking at this I come to the conclusion that you don't fully understand the meaning of the word and reading your friends logic leads me to that same stance with their understanding of the word.
Using an adjective isn't racist by it's self.