Hey Firefly, you say that the matter in the universe must have been created by god because it couldn’t have appeared from nowhere. You have to realize you’re just pushing back the goalposts, because where did god originate? If god transcends the laws of the universe and has always existed, that’s an awfully convenient explanation to get around the universal rule that something cannot come from nothing. The universe needed to be created, but god is simply eternal? Why couldn’t the universe just be eternal on its own and we cut out this unnecessary god from the explanation? Christians seem to think this is such a gotcha argument when it falls victim to its very own logic unless you choose to ignore it only in god’s case.
I'm not pushing back the goalpost, and I'm not making "gotcha" arguments. All of the space and time that we see and know was created by God. The creator (God) exists outside of His creation. God has always existed, and where He exists is outside of time itself. God isn't sitting on a physical planet in space inside of the universe that He created. He's on another plane of existence entirely. To me, it makes sense to see the universe as being created by God. What doesn't make sense is saying that a non-living universe somehow always existed, and eventually this non-living universe with no living organisms created living organisms. If God made this universe, then He also created the physics and science that we use in this universe. God can create the universe, but His creations inside of this universe still have to adhere to the physics and sciences that He created this universe with.
TL;DR: Everything inside of our universe was created. God can present Himself inside of His creation (our universe), but He doesn't reside inside of this creation. He resides in Heaven, which is a realm we cannot see or touch. It's impossible to explain how God has always existed in a realm that we do not have access to. We do, however, have access to the realm that we are in, and science says that matter cannot be created or destroyed.
The scripture stays the same no matter how much you work around it, it's cool with selling the daughter. If you want to say it's cool with selling the daughter (in specific circumstances) then that doesn't change my point or argument at all.
You can't pick verses out and ignore other verses that reference it as proof of something. The Bible verses need to be taken in context with other Bible verses in the same vein. The Bible is full of examples where it says X in one section, and then in another section it clarifies and provides additional information regarding X. The scripture also says this:
"If among you, one of your brothers should become poor, in any of your towns within your land that the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart or shut your hand against your poor brother, but you shall open your hand to him and lend him sufficient for his need, whatever it may be. Take care lest there be an unworthy thought in your heart and you say, ‘The seventh year, the year of release is near,’ and your eye look grudgingly[a] on your poor brother, and you give him nothing, and he cry to the Lord against you, and you be guilty of sin. You shall give to him freely, and your heart shall not be grudging when you give to him, because for this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in all that you undertake. For there will never cease to be poor in the land. Therefore I command you, ‘You shall open wide your hand to your brother, to the needy and to the poor, in your land."
-Deuteronomy 15:7-11
That is also referring to this indentured servitude (called slavery).
Why isn't that good enough? It might be genuine.
My last sentence confirmed my meaning. If you're having difficulty with understanding the intent behind what I a said, then it is no small surprise to find out that you're misunderstanding the Bible versus that you cherry pick. Especially since, as I previously stated, the Bible gives you nuggets here and there that have to be combined in order to have an understanding of the big picture.