2. CREATE A STUDY RITUAL
For an ambitious college student, Sunday is the most important day of the week. Even though it’s tempting on a Sunday morning to just curl up on your couch and become intimately reacquainted with your old friend the TV, you really must resist. Why? Because Sunday sets the tone for the week that follows.
This is absolutely true. If you attack the day on Sunday, you will start your week with momentum behind you. If you let the day attack you, your week will quickly devolve into one protracted game of catch-up. So how do you overcome the allure of lounging and make your Sundays count? The secret is to engage in the same focusing ritual every Sunday morningsomething that wakes up your mind and gets your day moving. Read the paper with a strong cup of coffee, take a walk with a friend, go for a jog followed by a hot shower, or spend some time browsing in a nearby bookstore. Then, with your intellectual energy piqued, and your focus strong, settle into a quiet spot at the library and start working. While other students slumber, you will have a full, undisturbed day to get ahead of your work obligations.
This weekend ritual will also help you make that vital mental switch from weekend debauchery to workweek focus. When you party straight through the weekend until Sunday night, Monday morning is all the more depressing. The satisfaction you’ll get from starting the week in full command of your responsibilities will provide the good mood and momentum needed to get through the days that follow. If you take control of your Sunday, you take control of your week.
Well it depends. I NEVER studied for my core classes. Sure, I made sure I learned what I needed like basic history (of course, I literally would have been better off not learning any history in school since all of it was false), math, etc...
So, I completely understand on that point of view. However, now that I am finally finished my core, I am focused on my Major. True, I rarely read out of the books but I still learn the same information as I have spent hours and hours looking up how to edit, use a switcher board, mixing audio, etc...
To be honest, I can't help you. My Major is editing, filming, doing studio productions, etc. I obviously need to learn several terms and know how to do many things, but most of the time I learn hands on by filming or editing a project. I am not that smart intellectually (that is 100% truth), I am not going to Grad school, and besides the fact that there are SEVERAL things to memorize and that there are so many people that do what I do, it isn't a hard Major at all.
You actually sound a lot like me (albeit a lot smarter). My advise is to not push yourself too hard. I know that your major actually takes real hard effort, but pushing yourself too hard could make you do worse. You may actually end up hating your major! If you can't study 3 hours a day, fine! Just make sure you are studying what is necessary and when you have the chance on the weekend, to read what you missed.
Graduated college but I never really studied. Now how did I stay motivated to do my coursework? Realized I had already paid thousands a semester, and to not do it would be a waste of that investment. And I hate wasting investments, so I just did what was asked and did it well.
Go somewhere with the express aim of working. I could never concentrate at home so always went to the library.
I also tried shadowing my very studious housemate for a while. That worked quite well.
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Take snacks with you. Fruit or something that's cheap.
The fear of fucking up my future was pretty effective for me.
Growing up in India, under a brutal, cutthroat education system with the mentality that grades are everything, even if you have to mindlessly mug up shit, getting a near 4.0 GPA in the U.S. was not a problem for me throughout university, it happened out of extinct with the pressure and extreme fear over getting lower grades.
Its after I graduated and entered the real world that I see the flaws of education system that gives so much credence to grades and tests. Grades don't mean shit, and they didn't help me get a better job.
For four weeks this spring, a young woman from India on a temporary visa sat elbow to elbow with an American accountant in a snug cubicle at the headquarters of Toys "R" Us here. The woman, an employee of a giant outsourcing company in India hired by Toys "R" Us, studied and recorded the accountant's every keystroke, taking screen shots of her computer and detailed noted on how she issued payments for toys sold in the company's megastores.
"She just pulled up a chair in front of my computer," said the accountant, 49, who had worked for the company for more than 15 years. "She shadowed me everywhere, even to the ladies' room."
I went to an Indian school for my last two years of high school, and I really do agree. Going there, you'd see people basically trying to game the system for exams. There was a question bank available full of all the IB questions, and our teachers would make up the exams using stuff from the bank and modifying things slightly. Studying for these things was an exercise in memorizing mark schemes and looking for the most exam-like questions in the bank. One girl in my physics class who knew jack shit about physics managed to get a 7 in the class by gaming the system and kissing up to the teacher. I hated learning like that because you learn exactly what to do without knowing why you do it. There was an article in the NYT about Indian workers replacing American workers in a Toys R Us division that I felt really summed up the mentality of Indian students
It's an education designed around memorization and recitation with no effort to understand why things happen or see how things interact. It punishes those who wish to be creative, and rewards those who can game the system. It's the reason why India pushes out millions of engineers and doctors a year, with close to no artistic or creative people. Sorry about the rant, but it sort of just came out.