also i think if you max out the bonfires to +20 they stay that way in ng+...this may have been before the patch so try to confirm post patch before using tooo much humanity.
re:weapons...what are going for? In order to recommend a weapon for you we need to know if you are trying for strength vs. dex and/or faith vs. magic....I recall earlier you said mellee only, but you still can choose between strength and dex.....hybrids don't do too well no matter what weapon you are using as these alsways tend to be elemental. These will get you through allthe pve ok ...like your lightning claymore, but more fun are a tonne of other choices....I keep beating a dead horse with you I think but if you want to go elemental having one lightning and one chaos is important. I recommend the great scythe as an alternate ot teh claymore....very dynamic...perhasp no stun lock but the R2 double combo hits at almost 700 (1200 if you connect on both) with 10 humantity in the ticker. The best weapon, for pvp or otherwise, though, is +15 buffed with resin, magic, or miracles, and uses a high modifier in either the strength or dex if you are going for melee. There are lots of heavy weapons to choose from if you are going strength....dex is a little different, I prefer katanas vs, rapiers for dex as the stab is something I like to have, but hate only doing stabs...tooo boring. Its mostly about the move set. I can see why many like the claymore...but I just tried a lot of weapons again becuase I missed the backflip counter move on many (knew it existed but just forgot to try it I guess.) My favourite weapon is now the washing pole +15 with darkmoon blade. The reach is incredible...fought an experienced pvp'er in the burg and although I couln't outreach him and his authentic ornstein build with spear and all, I assume he was glitched as I hit him hard a couple times and his health bar didn't move......otherwise I have killed way bettter players than me with that set up adn people don't know what hit them when I do the backflip plus r1 attack.....they think they are out of range but they are not.