Do Asian Americans eat with chopsticks?

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You have to ask for a fork.

Around here (SC) the servers always ask "Fork or chopsticks" or just have both available on the table from the start. I'm sure it's probably different in more urban areas. Some people use the sticks, some don't. I've eaten with a couple dudes who were kinda asses about it. "I'll use the chopsticks" they'll smugly declare to the server as if everyone else at the table was a philistine. Douches.
 
Okay real question. At what age do children usually become proficient with chop sticks? Are training chopsticks an actual thing?

Growing up I started using forks only, and didn't start trying to use chopsticks until I was 10 or 11. When I did switch over, I pretty much switched completely and never looked back. Chopsticks are just that much more versatile that forks feel awkward and clumsy to me.
 
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I love this picture. I don't know if I want Chinese food or pizza.
 
Okay real question. At what age do children usually become proficient with chop sticks? Are training chopsticks an actual thing?

I am Asian American and I couldn't use chopsticks (without the rubberband thing) until I was 22 and had to spend 3 weeks in China. My mom is a dope cook, but was born and raised in Chicago; we never really ate Chinese food. I find it funny my aunt (100% ethnically Chinese) has a wall scroll of Chinese characters hung upside down in her house and doesn't know the wiser.
 
I am Asian American and I couldn't use chopsticks (without the rubberband thing) until I was 22 and had to spend 3 weeks in China. My mom is a dope cook, but was born and raised in Chicago; we never really ate Chinese food. I find it funny my aunt (100% ethnically Chinese) has a wall scroll of Chinese characters hung upside down in her house and doesn't know the wiser.

There are some characters that are supposed to be hung upside down though.
 
I grew up using primarily silverware.

Nowadays it depends on what I'm eating.

Also, I cook a lot with chop sticks. Beating eggs with chopsticks always seems weird, but I do it anyway.
 
Okay real question. At what age do children usually become proficient with chop sticks? Are training chopsticks an actual thing?

I started using them at 4 years old, but I wasn't proficient with them until I was like 6. The reason why I remember this is because I spent first grade in Japan, and we had to bring our own chopsticks for lunch. I could eat everything fine, so I assume that's around the time they become second nature for most kids in countries that use them.

Training chopsticks are a thing, but I never used them. I just had a pair of small blue ones.
 
I'm neither Asian nor American but I use chopsticks when I eat sushi or noodles. I sometimes try to use it with rice but I just give up after a while.

Metal chopsticks. What's the deal with those though? They suck!
 
Metal chopsticks. What's the deal with those though? They suck!

They don't warp, nor discolor.

Half my family's chopsticks are metal now. Really great, except for soft, smooth noodles.
 
I'm Asian and never really learned how to use chopsticks. Needless to say my family has made fun of me for that for ages.

I'm white as Casper and my Asian in-laws gasp at my chopstick skills like I am Miyagi catching flies. I can do everything from individual grains of rice to atoms.


Ragging on Asians is kinda of GAF's outlet for their inate racism. Its the only group the mods tend to let it fly so here we are.


Get a grip. If anything, there isn't enough weeaboo banning.
 
I suspect there are more east Asian and southeast Asian countries that DO NOT use chopsticks than ones that do.

USE CHOPSTICKS:
- China (Hong Kong and Taiwan)
- Japan
- South Korea
- North Korea
- Vietnam

DOES NOT USE CHOPSTICKS:
- Philippines
- Malaysia
- Laos
- Myanmar
- Thailand
- Burma
- Indonesia
- etc.


Mostly Chinese people. Then Korean, Vietnamese, Japanese. The ex-Vietnam Southeast Asian population in America is pretty small. I don't know if Filipinos really consider themselves Southeast Asian. They're kind of their own category and the only major ethnic group in America that identifies as Asian who don't primarily use chopsticks.

What do you consider small???

Southern California has the largest population of Vietnamese people outside of Vietnam!
 
Okay real question. At what age do children usually become proficient with chop sticks? Are training chopsticks an actual thing?

I'm 32 and I still can't hold chopsticks properly despite using them on a daily basis. I can pick up things just fine but my HK extended family looks at me funny whenever I go visit :(
 
Did you not see the "ex-Vietnam" part of my post?

That's exactly why I replied.

You said that the population of people of Vietnamese descent in the U.S. is small, but So-Cal alone has more Vietnamese people/people of Vietnamese descent outside of Vietnam!

What do you consider to be small?
 
I am amazed at the number of people that do not use chopsticks.
Yup. I'm white and from the boonies of Canada and I was using chopsticks on the regular as a small child 30 years ago, so I'm kind of confused by it...
 
Korean-Canadian here. Never ever use chopsticks unless at a sushi place.

Even visiting my parents it's always forks/spoons all day every day (though they use chopsticks themselves). And not those asian soup spoon things that are impossible to wrap your mouth around, just plain old spoons.

There was never any pressure to use chopsticks growing up either, even going out to eat at asian restaurants they'd always snag my sister and I a fork. Definitely not about that chopstick life.
 
Use the best tool for the right job. Chopsticks are very nice for when you want to pick stuff up, not stab them like you would with a fork. Very useful in cooking as well.
 
I don't know, do Mexican-Americans eat tortillas or have they assimilated and eat WonderBreadTM?
the answer is both. Lol.

Maybe they don't eat cereal? Or, here's another idea, maybe they don't even eat cereal with chopsticks in their own countries. Did you know that Asian people eat lots of soup? I wonder if they use chopsticks to guzzle that soup down in their home countries, or if spoons are sold in stores over there.
hmm.
 
I'm 32 and I still can't hold chopsticks properly despite using them on a daily basis. I can pick up things just fine but my HK extended family looks at me funny whenever I go visit :(

I enjoy secretly observing other people's chopstick technique.
 
...Did you just tried to counter causal racism towards Asians with "too many weeaboos"?

It sure as fuck looks like it.

Which just further goes to show you that a racism towards Asians isn't viewed as seriously, or even fucking recognized, as racism towards blacks, or anti-semitism, or homophobia, or transphobia, etc.
 
It sure as fuck looks like it.

Which just further goes to show you that a racism towards Asians isn't viewed as seriously, or even fucking recognized, as racism towards blacks, or anti-semitism, or homophobia, or transphobia, etc.
Which I find to be ignorant and sad, racism is racism. This thread is a bit of casual racism. Shit ain't right yo.
 
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