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do girls think they're cool as they ignore you?

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so, last night, i get home around 430am(pretty blasted), and i IM one of my ex-gf's telling her that a friend she brought over a long time ago, and who i just happened to see this same night, was absolutely beautiful and that she should spread the word...

she ignored me.

she still is.

i wouldn't cock block her ass.. for the people who'll say,"why didnt you talk to the girl when you saw her."

we did. for a few moments, but i suspect her BF was there, and if it's the guy i think it is, then she's dating a complete tool.
 

Claus

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So you tell an ex that her friend is hot and want her to tell the friend and you don't see why she is ignoring you?
 
Claus said:
So you tell an ex that her friend is hot and want her to tell the friend and you don't see why she is ignoring you?

i dont see the problem. if she asked the same of me, i'd help her out.
 

Seth C

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I'm sure if she could see you in a pink sequined shirt she wouldn't be putting up the cock block. It's all in the shirt, baby.
 

Jim Bowie

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Seth C said:
I'm sure if she could see you in a pink sequined shirt she wouldn't be putting up the cock block. It's all in the shirt, baby.

Dick move, dude. That thread's been locked.

I think she realizes that instead of checking her out when you were together, you were checking out her friend. Or at least that's how she perceives it.
 
i dont see in what world that possibly fits considering the context of the thread.

jim- true, i noticed her friend when she brought her over. what was she expecting? she left the living room multiple times to get on the PC resulting in me and her friend being all alone..
 

Jim Bowie

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karasu said:
Everybody in the friggin universe ignores me.



HalfPastNoon: She probably takes it that she wasn't absolutely beautiful and her friend was beautiful. That, or I have other solutions:

1.) Maybe she wasn't there...? She just left up her screenname or something?
2.) Was the break-up messy?
3.) Is she a jealous person?
 

SlickWilly223

Time ta STEP IT UP
You know what really pisses me off?

There's been more than one occasion when I have a friend who happens to be a really hot girl who we will call "Not-a-fuck-buddy-just-yet." Not-a-fuck-buddy-just-yet and I have never actually gone out, but the sexual relationship was always a possibility, and sexual innuendos were dropped here and there between the both of us, but nothing ever comes of them because we usually have a relationship going on with someone else at the time. Fast forward to when I break up with my girlfriend, and I start taking notice of Not-a-fuck-buddy-just-yet's other friends who are also really hot. (And I mean... really hot)

Of course, Not-a-fuck-buddy-just-yet gets mad at me for flirting with her other friends as if I broke some kind of friendship rule. "Why are you looking at her like that?" "You don't talk to everyone like that, James..."

She usually says stuff along those lines, things start to get out of hand and after a while we get sick of eachother, and we don't talk for months. All the while I'm usually doing her best friend, which sometimes makes matters even more complicated.

I guess what I'm trying to get at is: If a friend of mine takes interest in me, and wants to do me, she has two options: Either make things serious by sitting down and having a talk with me, or we can just become fuck buddies. If neither of those things happen, ANYONE is fair game for me to start going out with, even her friends. You can't have me while not actually having me.

God I love Highschool.
 
Jim Bowie said:
HalfPastNoon: She probably takes it that she wasn't absolutely beautiful and her friend was beautiful. That, or I have other solutions:

1.) Maybe she wasn't there...? She just left up her screenname or something?
2.) Was the break-up messy?
3.) Is she a jealous person?

1 - dunno, not sure. she still hasn't responded thus far..

2 - not really, how messy can it be after she finds out from her brother that i cheated on her while she was with friends for spring break vacation. still, the events i've described happened late august, after she seemingly got over my mistake

3 - very jealous person. she also had a bad habit of bringing up my past quite a bit to her advantage...
 

Jim Bowie

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HalfPastNoon said:
2 - not really, how messy can it be after she finds out from her brother that i cheated on her while she was with friends for spring break vacation. still, the events i've described happened late august, after she seemingly got over my mistake

3 - very jealous person. she also had a bad habit of bringing up my past quite a bit to her advantage...

Okay, so the break-up was DEFINITELY FUCKING MESSY and she's very jealous. And you expect her, the girl that you snuck around on, the girl that was very jealous of you, to tell her friend that her ex thinks she's dy-no-mite? No offense, dude, but for this one, you're going to have to work at her yourself. Extra hard, too, because there's no doubt in my mind that she's told her that you cheated on her. Best of luck, friend.
 
Jim Bowie said:
Okay, so the break-up was DEFINITELY FUCKING MESSY and she's very jealous. And you expect her, the girl that you snuck around on, the girl that was very jealous of you, to tell her friend that her ex thinks she's dy-no-mite? No offense, dude, but for this one, you're going to have to work at her yourself. Extra hard, too, because there's no doubt in my mind that she's told her that you cheated on her. Best of luck, friend.

yeah, she alluded to me cheating on her that same night, and her friend laughed going, "oh yeah, i remember you..."

i'm up for the challenge, though!
 
I came into this thread with at least a little sympathy for you. Being ignored by girls fucking sucks. I don't think I could muster a shred of sympathy for you if I tried, now.
 

AssMan

Banned
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"Dude, the whole freakin world is against us, I swear to god."
 
Look, here's what my friends have figured out when it comes to women.

If we're out at the local watering hole, and the ladies don't come up to chat, it's not that they're ignoring us, oh no. We know that they're scared of us. We know because WE CAN SMELL THEIR FEAR.

We have a lot of fun drankin' it up, let me tell you. If only the fear didn't have such a strong smell...
 
HalfPastNoon said:
rofl.

i FINALLY get a response. she IM's me when i'm away...



this is bullshit. she signed off, too.


Hahaha, someone got OWNED.

Seriously though, I doubt you have a shot with this chick now. But, it's generally a bad idea to do that "tell her I said she was HAWT" type of shit. In fact, I can only see wrong things about it. You should have known better ;)
 

Ristamar

Member
HalfPastNoon said:
yeah, she alluded to me cheating on her that same night, and her friend laughed going, "oh yeah, i remember you..."

i'm up for the challenge, though!


HalfPastNoon said:
rofl.

i FINALLY get a response. she IM's me when i'm away...

snobbylittlebitch (10:34:43 PM): no you cannot date my friend leigh


this is bullshit. she signed off, too.


:lol :lol :lol
 
heeehaaaa. what a difference a day makes...

so, in class, i decide to text message my ex, casey, with the following:

harsh, casey. harsh.

in response to her telling me i cant date her friend...so, casey responds with,

haha... wow that was late...but sorry, what do u expect shes my best friend

so i respond in kind with,

well, we'll talk about this later!

then she texts me back,

me and u will talk or u and leigh will talk? better be me and u....

so i said, "we'll talk later."

:lol :lol :lol
 
ok, weirdness... i ask her last night, "don't you have a bf?"

she responds saying, "yea, i do, but that doesn't mean anything.."

then a few minutes ago, she text's me "Wake up sunshine!!!"

wtf..
 
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