i do. someone at my work who always has something to complain about every fucking morning without fail. she's feeling sick, the dog needs to go to the vet, she doesn't see her grandkids, her son is drunk/wanting money/no where to be found/sleeping on her sofa/arguing with her, has no time to herself, doesn't want to use any of her holidays up, says she's going to do something for weeks and doesn't, her car is broken, she's being overworked..... i could go on and on.
my point is that she drains all the fucking energy out of your soul if you get near her. i can't stand to listen to anything she says anymore because it's just the same old shit every fucking day. if you try give advice or help then it's in one ear and out the other. she doesn't want to listen to anyone but herself talk. it's a never fucking ending pity party.
i avoid her as much as possible now. in a way she's such a kind person and will do anything for you. gives to charity, volunteers, does favours for everyone, and can't say no to anyone but you pay for it with your sanity.