This thread has always been fairly apart and different from the Who fan places, but all we're seeing right now is a very similar reaction to when Rose left. There was an outcry of how it was a disservice to her and questions and explanations of this way and that way he could go back and get her.
We all know where that led. Good luck! Moffat has proved that he does listen when people winge, too, several times - most notably the shitty Dalek design backpedal.
The showrunner can never win. Moffat kept his "good rep" on Outpost Gallifrey for about 2 weeks after his run started, but since that Dalek episode he has been progressively treated as more like the antichrist and this week it has reached a head, as bad as anything I've during the RTD era, and even people in here, a generally overwhelmingly positive thread, are moaning. It's sad. It wasn't perfect, but I felt this was a solid episode.
River is hit-and-miss and sometimes a pain in the arse, but she's his legacy, in a sense, so I get it.