This reading of history is so weird, because if you ask every third-party publisher "Hey what about your platform choices in the last 7-8 years", they'll say "We think we've basically did a pretty good job. I mean, nobody is perfect, but we're happy with the decisions we made. We're doing a lot of great stuff in mobile, in social, and we're really excited for next generation consoles."... and if you ask Nintendo, they'll say "We made mistakes by not securing third-party games, and we work constantly to try to enhance those relationships, we won't make the same mistake again".
So obviously the people you're ascribing feelings to don't have those feelings