I guess my time played and relative low lvl. Come down to
#1 Blindy exploring
#2 Mostly under influence
#3 Thua having a forgetful and disjointed experience
Sure, I met some walls but nothing to severe.
My initial character was a prisoner because spell sword sounded dope. I've always played melee builds so I wanted something else... I quickly found the Meteorite Staff (one of the few times I googled for a decent staff because my magic damage output was abysmal) and choose to go 80% Mage 20% Melee.
I heard magic got better later on so I stuck with it but my playstyle is more aggressive and like to hack and slash with magic for support (flying assholes, etc)
I've been eyeing ultra swords, hammers and bleed weapons
These are some pics I took (I also have pics of map progression if needed) (and all my weapons, mats, etc lol I went all out)
Btw I've never grinded
I'm not the best at balancing Elden Scroll characters, but you'll need more Mind to have a viable chance casting magic spells more often. Hopefully someone else can help figure it out for you.
Moonveil was OP but it got slightly nerfed in a patch.
If you're close to leveling up, it helps to grind a little to get that extra nudge to a level.