I wasn't trying to argue semantics
I was trying to illustrate why the concept of color blindness is an unrealistic ideal model that really no one in our society truly exhibits.
I know, i was just explaining that what you said regarding colorblindness isnt what i ment. For example when you said that you cant really reflect on racism when you dont acknowledge it. Me respecting someone regardless of their skin color doesnt mean that i cant acknowledge that racism unfortunately happends and when it happends. Your explanation of what colorblindess is isnt exactly what i was talking about, so i just wanted to clear up that misunderstanding, its not a matter of semantics indeed.
On the subject of jokes, racism is primarily hate towards other people because they are of a certain race. If two friends make jokes like this to eachother, there might not be a shred of hate in those jokes and they both know it. I doubt anyone of them feel that they are racist to eachother even if the jokes have elements of things that can easily be understood as racism. The problem with those type of jokes is mainly if they are being said or written where people who dont know the person who say those jokes. In those cases, the people who read or hear those jokes doesnt necessarily know the full intention of those jokes, and they can easily be understood as being racist. So its best to avoid those jokes unless one are certain that the other person knows that the joke-teller means no hate with those jokes, and that the other person can apperciate that type of humor.
EDIT: Late edit, but i just wanted to add that just because there might be some thoughts about what a certain race does (like stereotypical things), it doesnt necessarily mean that there are any hate/racism against people because of that. Otherwise it kinda sounds like you're saying that basically everyone in the world is racist to some degree, and that would include you as well. I mean, sure, people make jokes and such, those things happends indeed, but there doesnt necessairly have to be any hate behind it. The problem is if someone takes the joke the wrong way, but there is a difference between that and being racist i would say. Racism is about hate, so the joke's intention have to be hateful for it to be racsim. Also, if basically everyone is like that as you mention (making jokes etc. that could be concidered as being racism), wouldnt they have understanding that such jokes doesnt necessairly have any bad intentions if someone else makes them? If basically everyone was a racist and had hate towards other races, i dont think that races could co-excist as well as they do in a lot of places on earth. My point was that even if i know about some stereotypical stuff about a certain race, if i see a person of that specific race, i dont think "that person is like that because he/she got that skin color". I know that the person can be the kindest person on earth for all that i know despite which skin color he/she is. That is what i ment with "it doesnt concern me which skin color people have".