Mist, if you move can you post here? I'm playing on Marlboro from Japan, but the people In used to play regularly with moved back to the States and out of my time zone.
Might be worth transferring if there are more JPers on Ultros. Another player also recommended Tonberry (unofficial Aussie / JP server) as well. I'm still considering it since I play NIN and am constantly worried about ping. Interestingly enough, Primal DC is GOOD connection, while JP DCs are POOR.
Can't promise we'll always be active but as Hasemo said, we've got a small nest on Durandal. We've never really had enough people to make a static group for raids though. We also have a large Japanese community LS and FC outside of our private scandalous foreigner LS, too.