i would say from people I know having kids in early 20s is a mistake, I cant think of 1 girl or guy I know that had kids in their early 20s that is still with the spouse, mid 20s to 30s fine, early 20s, ehhh.
i would say from people I know having kids in early 20s is a mistake, I cant think of 1 girl or guy I know that had kids in their early 20s that is still with the spouse, mid 20s to 30s fine, early 20s, ehhh.
Disagree with this. It just entirely depends on the people involved. In my case, having kids in my early 20's seems like a dream to me--minimal chance of something going wrong during the pregnancy, having plenty of energy for dealing with the kid once their born, having plenty of youthful years left once the kids are out of the house, and just being able to enjoy as much of your kids' lives as possible. The idea of being able to have kids so young just sounds incredible to me and I would love to do so if I could~ ^_^
Of course, whether that works out or not depends on what exactly the people in question want out of life, how like-minded they are in that regard, how effectively and clearly they're able to actually communicate this to each are, and so forth. They're really isn't any one-size-fits-all approach in regards to this at all and it just comes down to each individual couple and how they want the relationship to progress and mature and it just seems to me that it's not the age itself that really matters per se, but just clearly communicating with each other how you feel about this type of thing early on and making sure you're in the same place.
Stories like this boggle my mind. How does a conversation about life goals, family, and religion not happen within the first 6 months of a relationship? Each of these are certified deal-breaker topics, better to find out early than waste time in a doomed relationship.
