So I guess this is an excuse for me to go on with my thoughts about fursonas and the like. (Entry #1001 I suppose.

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When I started out in the community, I had the usual split. There was me, and there was my rabbit character, we were distinct. (My character actually came out of a fiction world, she was explicitly created as separate from me.) When I was in furry stuff, I was playing my character. It made sense, it seemed obligatory, and when you're hiding the idea of being a furry from the real world it seems like a pretty safe route to take.
Eventually, though, I did start seeing furries who were a little
too into their characters. Sometimes, their character was the entire depth and breadth of their personality. Some were really, really into the escapism that furry affords. To the point where, in a handful of cases, people were ignoring their real-life issues in favor of absorbing themselves into furry. And when I say "issues" I mean like... serious medical problems, which could've been very easily managed or avoided. I started to find it all kinda scary.
That sort of thing made me decide to try and avoid the escapist parts of furry. I liked the kind of person (as it were) my character was, so instead of having the separation I try to be more like her in real life. In a way it almost makes me sound crazier - I'm trying to
be the rabbit - but ultimately I think it's healthier than ignoring reality altogether. And it just so happens to have helped me be a better person, so... that's nice.