This. You should identify yourself by what you do not by the country you were born in/currently inhabit.
I'm going to make a more in depth thread on Neogaf one day, because I can't explain my entire thoughts in just one or two sentences.
But I want you and others to understand something. It's not from a lack of trying or an inability to identify myself why I still find my situation to be miserable.
Assuming you are British, you are lucky to live in a country where you don't have to worry about society tearing itself apart, because every city has become its own cultural enclave, and society as a whole loses trust in one other.
And that's why the whole "just be yourself" shtick begins to disintegrate. Because it only makes you even more isolated around other people who already operate in groups. Once again, how exactly are we suppose to call this a country or a way of life, when the government refuses to enforce any type of identity that all citizens can agree with?
And it begins to look really really strange when you have a country that claims to be about love & kindness & equal rights but if lets say there's a religion that doesn't think women are equal to men and should be treated worse, what do you think the government does? Well, they don't want to "offend" the religion because they're willing to throw away enforcing certain values in order to win votes every election.
This is a recipe for chaos to transform a country into a cultural free for all, and the winner will be the one who gets to claim the most territory based off their own special interests group and how much power they occupy in Canadian society.
Adjusting to a new country isn't that hard. Hell, in some ways you don't even have to adjust at all. How do you think my situation in Canada even exists? It's because the country doesn't believe in assimilation, that people can come here and start their own rules.
Britain I assume, is no where that far gone. Learning stuff like language or figure of speech, is very simple. Now imagine if you had to learn multiple languages instead, or know the right people just to get approved for certain apartment or housing rights? Welcome to Canada. That's hell.