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Marius_ said:
Idk, it was done indirectly I'm in another town. My sisters told them because someone found out and was intending to use that fact to cause me drama with my parents, so yeah. Apparently there were some tears. I wont see them for like 2 more weeks

But a huge weight lifted off my shoulders, but I wasnt expecting it
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Wow, but at least your sister got your back. And who was the asshole that was going to "use it" against you?


And Mega Man (OMG Mega Man is in GayGAF :p)...
In general, just talk to him. He sounds too..obssessed. And if he doesn't believe you, even when he was in the same site; well..relationships are about trust and communication. And if he fails at that, you might as well end things now.

Yeah, he's a nice guy (and heck, I'd love for a nice guy..or any guy for that matter); but relationships are more than just someone been nice to the other.
 
Mega Man's Electric Sheep said:
I feel like a jerk because I can't tell him I don't feel a connection because I know it would devastate him, and the thought of hurting someone's feelings like that is more than I can handle emotionally. Is this a "rip off the band-aid" situation where I just tell him we aren't right for each other? Is there really any non-devastating way to handle this?
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Tell him how you really feel. It's not you fault you're not into him. The truth will hurt him but at least he won't be waiting something anymore. If I were him I would like to know what's up, tbh.
 
fernoca said:
Wow, but at least your sister got your back. And who was the asshole that was going to "use it" against you?
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My aunt, fucked up right? Bitch likes to spread rumors and this time I was her target, but of course the rumor was going to be true so beans needed to be spilled.
 
julls said:
Roberto Arango?
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Hahahaha, Grindr is incredible.

If I weren't trying to be a good boy in this new relationship, I'd be up there right now. Grindr has the trade and the bait. BGC and A4A don't

EDIT: Arango isn't THAT bad looking guys

[lil kim voice] Puerto Rican Papi used to be a deacon, now he just sucks me off on the weekends[/lil kim voice]
 
Marius_ said:
My aunt, fucked up right? Bitch likes to spread rumors and this time I was her target, but of course the rumor was going to be true so beans needed to be spilled.
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How did she find out? or did she just guess right?

Also, doesn't this belong in the coming out thread? :p
 
_Isaac said:
How did she find out? or did she just guess right?

Also, doesn't this belong in the coming out thread? :p
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Yeah she guessed.

Yes.... but no one uses it anymore and the second to the last post is me giving some not so popular advice
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The Abominable Snowman said:
EDIT: Arango isn't THAT bad looking guys
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Actually he isn't that bad looking, and he had some..charm when he went around in local channels doing interviews and making jokes. Then he started losing weight and you could see some improvements.

But he's anti-gay personality and the closed mind attitude regarding many local matters and his sworn/blind loyalty to the same party the quickly asked him to quit and already had people lining up for his position..yeah, that made him ..less attractive. :p
 
fernoca said:
But he's anti-gay personality and he closed mind attitude regarding many local matters and his sworn/blind loyalty to the same party the quickly asked him to quit and already had people lining up for his position..yeah, that made him ..less attractive. :p
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When you deal with the trade you get used to it. Business in Broad Daylight. Pleasure in the Palace at night.
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
When you deal with the trade you get used to it. Business in Broad Daylight. Pleasure in the Palace at night.
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Yeah, his remarks when he was trying to be serious with matter like that, were usually "lol worthy". :p

He ended getting more fame for those things; like that letter in bad-written english he sent to the Congress. I mean, if I made the letter ..okay, since I'm just a random poster online. But a Senate, advocating for PR becoming a state and that same letter demanding US to decide what to do with PR...with many typos and badly written was ..just sad. :p
 
going on a date right now, if i don't come back and update within 1-3 hours i'm either A. Dead or B. Doing some extracurricular activities

badcrumble, he's hot!

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SpaceBridge said:
Im not having your avatar change Cid.
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james franco is my #1 <3
 
Mega Man - clinginess is the worst. The astrology is one thing, Batman & Robin is another. Dump dat bitch.

A friend of mine got all clingy and weird a few months back. I cut him off :p
 
ciD_Vain said:
going on a date right now, if i don't come back and update within 1-3 hours i'm either A. Dead or B. Doing some extracurricular activities
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UPDATE MEUS!!!

By the way Abominable, what happened with your friend? Did you guys talked things out?
 
fernoca said:
UPDATE MEUS!!!

By the way Abominable, what happened with your friend? Did you guys talked things out?
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Which one, the roomate?

He... he sent me a text last weekend saying hes moving out. He doesnt talk to me and I don't talk to him. His friend also was a bitch to me.

So no, it didn't work out. At all.
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
Which one, the roomate?

He... he sent me a text last weekend saying hes moving out. He doesnt talk to me and I don't talk to him. His friend also was a bitch to me.

So no, it didn't work out. At all.
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Darn, that sucked. What about the lease/contract; is he allowed to just bail like that and leave you like that?

At the same time, it seems you've moved on and going out with guys...I think. :p
 
fernoca said:
Darn, that sucked. What about the lease/contract; is he allowed to just bail like that and leave you like that?

At the same time, it seems you've moved on and going out with guys...I think. :p
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Yes, I moved on to something GORGEOUS!

In a footnote, however, I went through my roomates phone and laptop and found some amazingly horrible things. Pictures of their anus, them whoring to different guys on craigslist, A4A, BGC, fake accounts, real accounts, just general disgustingness. All while they were trying to talk to me.

Before and after they moved me in.

But like I said, my current trap is gawjus. I ain't stoppin. One monkey don't stop no show!

RE. the lease, yes his name is on the lease. He broke the previous lease he was in as well. This will be the 3rd lease he's broken since I known him.
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
Yes, I moved on to something GORGEOUS!

In a footnote, however, I went through my roomates phone and laptop and found some amazingly horrible things. Pictures of their anus, them whoring to different guys on craigslist, A4A, BGC, fake accounts, real accounts, just general disgustingness. All while they were trying to talk to me.

Before and after they moved me in.

But like I said, my current trap is gawjus. I ain't stoppin. One monkey don't stop no show!

RE. the lease, yes his name is on the lease. He broke the previous lease he was in as well. This will be the 3rd lease he's broken since I known him.
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Why would you go through your roomates shit?
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
Yes, I moved on to something GORGEOUS!

In a footnote, however, I went through my roomates phone and laptop and found some amazingly horrible things. Pictures of their anus, them whoring to different guys on craigslist, A4A, BGC, fake accounts, real accounts, just general disgustingness. All while they were trying to talk to me.

Before and after they moved me in.

But like I said, my current trap is gawjus. I ain't stoppin. One monkey don't stop no show!

RE. the lease, yes his name is on the lease. He broke the previous lease he was in as well. This will be the 3rd lease he's broken since I known him.
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stopped reading after that kiiiiiiiiiii
 
SpaceBridge said:
Why would you go through your roomates shit?
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Well... He was trying to Boo Baby me and whatnot, and a friend of mine's Ex was just over OUR apartment the weekend he was all "Aww you going home to your mothers, imma miss you baby" and all this bullshit.

So when I came in, and found out he was at his moms, I hopped on that laptop and phone. I sure did! Went through it like a rugby team on a slutty female sports journalist bitch.
 
Mega Man's Electric Sheep said:
So I need some advice. I'm in a weird situation, and I don't have sufficient dating experience to deal with it. I was in a relationship for 9 1/2 years which ended 2 years ago, so I've not had a lot of dating experience outside that.

I've been dating a guy for a few months. He was into me like right away and one of those kinda clingy pushy types, which was nice at first because my ex pretty much ignored me. My problem is that as I've gotten to hang out with him more, he's gotten clingier and clingier, and pushy to the max, constantly referencing "when we move in together" and asking me when I think I'd want to. He also says "I love you" which after 4 months is waaaaaaaaaaay too much for me. I haven't said it back, but he keeps saying it.

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Alas I think it's better to end it now rather than to prolong it and have him become even more committed to you. If you' have no real feelings toward him then it's not gonna work anyhow in the long run. It's less painful when you guys haven't seen each other for long.
 
I like his arm vein.

My favorite model is Andrew Stetson. he's may not be the hottest person i've seen (he's really close though), but something about him is just so captivating. i think it's his eyes and lips- it's like they're having sex with me.

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On topic:
The guy i was supposed to go on a date with was sending me texts all day yesterday saying you're really cute, i can't wait to hang out, and bullshit like that. he sends me a text saying he's going to take a shower then head over. he never showed up.
 
Mega Man's Electric Sheep said:
So I need some advice. I'm in a weird situation, and I don't have sufficient dating experience to deal with it. I was in a relationship for 9 1/2 years which ended 2 years ago, so I've not had a lot of dating experience outside that.

I've been dating a guy for a few months. He was into me like right away and one of those kinda clingy pushy types, which was nice at first because my ex pretty much ignored me. My problem is that as I've gotten to hang out with him more, he's gotten clingier and clingier, and pushy to the max, constantly referencing "when we move in together" and asking me when I think I'd want to. He also says "I love you" which after 4 months is waaaaaaaaaaay too much for me. I haven't said it back, but he keeps saying it.

The other day, I was online on a chat site that we both have profiles on, chatting with friends, and fell asleep because I was tired after work. He called me multiple times because he saw me logged in there, and when I woke up and answered he accused me of not wanting to talk to him, because I was logged into the site but not answering my phone. Which made me mad, getting criticized for taking a nap while logged into a site that he was logged into as well! When I explained, he didn't seem to believe me that I was napping, and accused me of being too defensive.

We also haven't had sex yet, at first because I wanted to take it slow because of only having sex once since my LTR broke up, but lately I've realized I'm not very attracted to him.

Also, I'm not feeling the connection personality-wise. Literally almost every movie I hate, he loves. The third matrix movie. The Twilight series. BATMAN AND FUCKING ROBIN. He is into the same kinda stuff as that surfer dude a few posts up, zodiac, moon cycles, etc. The only thing we have in common is playing video games, really. I like to analyse things and speak really passionately when I like or dislike something, and he is not a critical thinker at all. And so on. We're just not all that compatible.

All that said, he IS a nice guy. He doesn't yell at me or treat me poorly. He's constantly buying me presents, and admitted that he always trys to buy guys' affection when he dates them. I tried to tell him to spend the money on himself, but he didn't listen. Just 2 days ago on msn, he said he noticed I wasn't very affectionate lately with kisses or hugs. I took that opportunity to tell him I wasn't feeling as affectionate towards him, and I wasn't ready for a sexual relationship right now and didn't know when I would be. His response? "Gee, I'm glad we can talk about these things, just don't make me wait forever for sex LOL" I feel like a jerk because I can't tell him I don't feel a connection because I know it would devastate him, and the thought of hurting someone's feelings like that is more than I can handle emotionally. Is this a "rip off the band-aid" situation where I just tell him we aren't right for each other? Is there really any non-devastating way to handle this?
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This is a perfect example of people clinging to something that isn't here, inviting drama into their lives when there's no need for it.

The guy might be nice but he sounds insane. Getting mad because you're not answering his messages the minute he sends them? How old is he, 13?

Not wanting to hurt him is not a valid reason to not end things btw, you clearly don't like him romantically and stringing him along is not only cruel to him but it's also detrimental to you.
Break things off, you'll be uncomfortable for 5mins and you'll be able to move on to new and better things. He'll get over it and find someone that will love him back.
 
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