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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
i_am_ben said:
Brutal.
Electivirus
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i_am_ben said:
Ouch.
MidnightScott
Banned
Fixing to head over to my friends house in an hour or so. 
Electivirus
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fernoca said:Dat smile! <3!
[im]http://i.imgur.com/WkYMi.jpg[/img]
Dammit, I need to stop. Yesterday-talk about him, made me remember not only him, but that I haven''t been following UFC/MMA a lot during the last months..
I melted. ;-;
SpaceBridge
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Im just leaving this here.
Electivirus
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SpaceBridge said:
Cold movie sets are the best movie sets.
He's no Ryan Reynolds, though.
dragonlife
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Bitch, please. I don't even like shooters, unless it's TF2 and L4D.TheSeks said:
dragonlife said:
Shush Mr. "Oh, I didn't play the tutorial because it bored me."
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"HOLY SHIT THIS GAME IS AWESOME!"
I should totally make a Godhand edit for FS of you. "Man, the tutorial is pretty boring. I wonder what the fuss is about..."
"HOLY SHIT I'M CLIPPING PEOPLE BECAUSE I GUESSED THEIR PLANS RIGHT!"
"FUCK YES! YOU ARE THE BEST TACTICAL GAME EVER!"
The Abominable Snowman
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Oh boo. No more posting pics unless its you.
I need to know whether the person im PMing my smut pics to is thec one in pics or not.
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Just left a lesbian club. Im drunk and sweaty
but im reminded that the white guys in the club arent interested in black guys, no matter how cute I am.
I need to know whether the person im PMing my smut pics to is thec one in pics or not.
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Just left a lesbian club. Im drunk and sweaty
but im reminded that the white guys in the club arent interested in black guys, no matter how cute I am.
SpaceBridge
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TheChaos said:'Sup fellow GayGaffers. My first post will be adding to the hot Latino dudes postathon:
Tell me thats you. And that you live in my city, down the street.
@The Abominable Snowman: Dont fret. You aint missing much anyways.
The Abominable Snowman
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I bought two different guys a drink, danced with them for a few but I wasnt either of their type.SpaceBridge said:
Meanwhile every black guy in the club, an indian guy, an asian guy and one "down" white guy approached me. None of them were MY type. :/
SpaceBridge
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The Abominable Snowman said:
Are you attracted only to white guys?
The Abominable Snowman said:
Well, why do you HAVE to be with a white guy?
Hell, on that note, what is WITH all the racial specificity these day when it comes to people expressing attraction? It seems like every time I get into a conversation about guys these days my friends end labeling their flings by their race before they even get to their names ("this spanish guy I hooked up with..." "This Asian guy I'm dating..." etc...)
And, I swear if I stumble upon another few pages of people fawning over Brazilians in this thread I'm going to pull my hair out.
GUYS ARE HOT PERIOD!!!
chronos4590
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Damn TheChaos for a quick second I thought that was you. I was about to take the next flight to where ever that was taken lol. Now you must post a pic out of curtsey, or not if you choose but welcome.
The Abominable Snowman
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I agree! Race is but one thing that distinguishes guys, but its one of the easiest distinguishing traits one can make,o its used more often. I dont mind being regarded as that black guyroyalan said:
Oh nawSpaceBridge said:
I also chatted with one black guy who I found attractive and a Latino guy who was atttractive. But there were two white guys inparticular who I found flawless! I felt kind of dumb that i was dissed by the white guy after ditching the latino guy for him!It just felt like for the guys who were in the club, all the black guys immediately hovered towards the corner by the DJ booth, there were an assortment of guys, largely non-white, right outi\side of the black circle, and the white guys, and one asian, were all over the rest of the floor (minus the lesbians of course).
SpaceBridge
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The Abominable Snowman and The Chaos need to post pics of themselves. (If you havent already).
There are a few people I've been meaning to reply to in this thread but I haven't had the time to write a proper reply yet, my apologies!
Sometimes you meet a guy who is just that little bit hotter than all the others though. :3
I am so glad to see someone post this, it seems I am not alone in thinking so... XD.sruckus said:
This is so very very true.royalan said:
Sometimes you meet a guy who is just that little bit hotter than all the others though. :3
Just like you can be attracted by different body types, you can be attracted by different skin colors. I know the issue is usually a delicate one because of racism but that's just the way it is.
Doesn't mean you won't talk with people who aren't a certain race but there's no need forcing yourself to do be with a guy just to prove a point.
Doesn't mean you won't talk with people who aren't a certain race but there's no need forcing yourself to do be with a guy just to prove a point.
Alcoori said:
Oh - definitely not thinking of it as a "racist" thing. Especially because most of the people posting pics of hot Brazilian men aren't Brazilian themselves. But... I don't know, it just seems to be especially prevalent lately.
I recently snapped at one of my friends while we are out because of this. He dates a lot, and when he talks about guys to me and our other friends it's full on paragraphs of "yeah, I went out this hot Asian guy," or "Look this sexy guy I'm talking to on Grindr. He's from Puerto Rico so you know he's a freak." And one night he was whining about them, and I was tipsy and said something along the lines of "how the heck do you expect us to take any of these guys seriously when you don't? Hell, you don't even refer to them by name half the time!"\
I don't know, I realize my opinion is a little jumbled - people have their preferences and that's fine. Sometimes it just comes off as a little narrow to me.
I went out with a guy a few months ago. Thought he was totally awesome and super hot, but he spent nearly half the date commenting on my blackness ("Your skin is so sexy," "I love your hair! Can I touch it?" "I love black people lips..."). I could tell he thought he was complimenting me, so I didn't get upset. But I was DEFINITELY turned off. Everyone wants to feel admired and attractive, but there's a difference between that and being exotified...
MidnightScott
Banned
Well I'm here again and he just blew me. I still wasn't even able to cum. I even jacked myself and still couldn't get off. (I even thought about other men naked too and it still didn't work)
Oh well atleast we have our games to play.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Black Swan.
Electivirus
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MidnightScott said:
Got someone else on the brain, maybe?
SpaceBridge
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Replicant said:
^^^^This. I think he mentioned earlier that he wasnt attracted to him.
Or maybe change things a little bit.
He said that one of the first times he did something with him; even when he wasn't fully attracted to him he still got all excited and wet; because the guy was massaging him and touching him nicely. So, maybe they could try that route again.
Or maybe back then, he was more exited with the idea of been touched by someone, than for actually been touched.
Though Midnight has given the impression on having multiple things in mind: the idea of been with a guy, the no ejaculation, that he would like to experiment with a girl...so maybe he's more worried about specifics, rather than enjoying the moment. I mean, he doesn't have/need to ejaculate to have a good time; so maybe he'll be better by just clearing his mind and "have fun". Even if he "gets" another guy and "finishes"; there could be other factors than just actual attraction. Same way many guys can masturbate and cum with just thinking of someone; in the end sex is also tied to the state of mind.
He said that one of the first times he did something with him; even when he wasn't fully attracted to him he still got all excited and wet; because the guy was massaging him and touching him nicely. So, maybe they could try that route again.
Or maybe back then, he was more exited with the idea of been touched by someone, than for actually been touched.
Though Midnight has given the impression on having multiple things in mind: the idea of been with a guy, the no ejaculation, that he would like to experiment with a girl...so maybe he's more worried about specifics, rather than enjoying the moment. I mean, he doesn't have/need to ejaculate to have a good time; so maybe he'll be better by just clearing his mind and "have fun". Even if he "gets" another guy and "finishes"; there could be other factors than just actual attraction. Same way many guys can masturbate and cum with just thinking of someone; in the end sex is also tied to the state of mind.
Had a first date with someone outta the blue, without meeting in person beforehand (yes, from the internet). We apparently had very different reactions to the night; I think he thinks it went super well, and I was a mix of bored and annoyed, lol.
Nice guy though. I don't want to be the jackass that never responds to "would like to hang again sometime!", but don't want to be the jackass that responds with "I'm sorry, I just didn't feel the spark I was looking for, and don't wanna be the guy that leads anyone on!"
Which is the worse jackass to be?
Nice guy though. I don't want to be the jackass that never responds to "would like to hang again sometime!", but don't want to be the jackass that responds with "I'm sorry, I just didn't feel the spark I was looking for, and don't wanna be the guy that leads anyone on!"
Which is the worse jackass to be?
SpaceBridge
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Magnus said:
You should probably say you felt no spark, thanks but no thanks. Dont wast his time, or yours.
BTW: No offense, but why do I get the impression your difficult to please.
SpaceBridge said:
Because I'm an undeservedly picky bastard.
I have a firm conviction that I'll feel a spark very quickly, or I'll know it isn't there just as quickly. Everyone always tells me to stop being so dismissive after first dates, but really...life is g'damn short. And I'm not made of money. So it feels like a waste of everyone's time to burn time and money on a second date when the first one was anything less than thrilling. I've felt the butterflies in my stomach from first dates where the spark was around and where some kind of dating stretch came about (whether a few weeks or a couple of months). Makes me feel like anything at all that feels like less than *those* butterflies isn't worth pursuing.
I mean....it's kind of like a job interview. How often does an employer give anyone a second if the first didn't go well?
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Magnus said:
That's not being a jackass at all. You're being honest and not feigning an interest that would only cause more trouble, frustration and possible heartbreak.
SpaceBridge
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Magnus said:Because I'm an undeservedly picky bastard.
I have a firm conviction that I'll feel a spark very quickly, or I'll know it isn't there just as quickly. Everyone always tells me to stop being so dismissive after first dates, but really...life is g'damn short. And I'm not made of money. So it feels like a waste of everyone's time to burn time and money on a second date when the first one was anything less than thrilling. I've felt the butterflies in my stomach from first dates where the spark was around and where some kind of dating stretch came about (whether a few weeks or a couple of months). Makes me feel like anything at all that feels like less than *those* butterflies isn't worth pursuing.
Alas.
So in your minds eye, when you think of your dream man, what do you see?
Also, sometimes dating can be fun too, you dont need to go out with guys just to search for a mate. It can be fun just meeting new people.
Cosmic Bus said:
In theory, I'd always want to have a guy tell me he's not interested, rather than hear nothing and either assume disinterest or endlessly wonder what's up.
In practice....I think I'd actually be gutted if someone said those words to me though, and in that moment would probably have wished the guy just never got back to me.
You know? =/
SpaceBridge said:
Agreed, totally. I guess I hope he sees it that way too.
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