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[whitehawk]

So I met this cute girl in one of my classes, got her number. We went on one date, or at least hung on. I've been busy so that was about a month ago, but she's contacted me a few times since then. She contacted me again today, and we are going to hang out tomorrow.

She's a really nice girl, cute, share many interests, but oddly enough I've been kind of reluctant to hang out because I'm not sure if I want a girlfriend at the moment. I'm trying to focus on a lot of stuff, and I know how much time a girlfriend can take up. I clearly didn't make a move last time, and I probably won't tomorrow. I've been kind of going into this like "Hey you guys could end up just being friends, and meeting people at university is good". (and tricky since I don't live on residence).

Anyone else been in this situation?

 

[Attackthebase]

So I met this cute girl in one of my classes, got her number. We went on one date, or at least hung on. I've been busy so that was about a month ago, but she's contacted me a few times since then. She contacted me again today, and we are going to hang out tomorrow.

She's a really nice girl, cute, share many interests, but oddly enough I've been kind of reluctant to hang out because I'm not sure if I want a girlfriend at the moment. I'm trying to focus on a lot of stuff, and I know how much time a girlfriend can take up. I clearly didn't make a move last time, and I probably won't tomorrow. I've been kind of going into this like "Hey you guys could end up just being friends, and meeting people at university is good". (and tricky since I don't live on residence).

Anyone else been in this situation?

I'm not really interested in a GF atm either (nor have I found someone who has retained my interest for that long), but you could simply turn her into a friend with benefits if that interests you at all.

 

[kid ness]

Hey there GAF, hoping you guys can help me out with this one.

I take some music classes down at a school near me a few days every week. It's really small, there's always one or two girls sitting at a desk by the front door to greet people who come and go, and just chill there and answer questions.

One day on my way out I tell the two girls that are sitting there good night like I normally do, and right before I'm about to walk out they stop me. Apparently they thought I looked really familiar and was someone famous, and asked me if I was. Being not famous at all, I built up a lot and joked around until finally admitting I wasn't, and they laughed a bit. It's been two weeks or so and whenever I see either of them I have a nice, quick conversation as I'm on my way to class.

Here's the thing; I'm really interested in one of the girls, she's really cute, funny, has a great smile, etc and I'd like to get to know her better. She seems really receptive at my jokes and smiles a lot when we talk-- I just read The Game and guess thats an IOI. But I'm taking classes at this place for at least another year and wouldn't want to make things awkward, especially by asking her out during work, or if she says no and I'd have to walk by her three times a week for a year with an awkward hello.

A few pages ago Acid08 posted that he took a piece of paper and wrote his number on it, and said to a girl, "I know this is really corny, but I think you're really cute and I'd love to take you out for a drink." I'm thinking of doing something like that, but I'm just not sure if it's worth it due to the awkward possibilities. I'm not at afraid of rejection, just making things uncomfortable.

 

[grap3fruitman]

She wants your babies. Bailout.

 

[JambiBum]

Oh man, you even have a bigger baby face than myself. I didn't think that was possible. Your profile makes you feel like a relaxed person, you have a job at 22 (helping out the older people, brownie points), your profile has some humor to it. I'm not too surprised by the results.

One girl messaged me a few days back, and ask if I was a real person, since my profile made me look like a legit person and a lot different from the norm of creepy guys on PoF. Reminds me, I need to contact her sometime tomorrow. Have her number, but been too busy with studying exam to remember to text her.

I posted my main picture in the post pics of yourself thread with a caption about my baby face. It is pretty ridiculous. I have been carded multiple times in the same night at the same restaurant because of it. I just stopped ordering alcoholic drinks when I go to restaurants because it is a nuisance to deal with.

Also I got a message quite similar to that the other day. Baby faces unite!

 

[Miguel]

I wish there were more options for dinner near the concert venue I'm going to. Hard Rock Cafe is the closest place that's not some hole in the wall nor upscale.


Edit: Actually, Hard Rock will be my backup, but I may just go with a pretty cool bar about 4 blocks away. Flying Saucer. Pretty good food and all sorts of beer.

 

[luckyboyceo]

First off, congrats on the kiss.

Second, the age factor is tricky. 18 is young, no other way to spin it. In my experience, dating teenagers is usually only good for sex and/or fooling around. Even though she acts much older than her age, she's still considerably less experienced than yourself in ....everything. You can't go out for drinks, visit certain clubs, etc. because of that age restriction.

As for the the religious aspect, as long as you aren't an asshole about asking for sex, and respect her wishes, she might be open to it. Besides, bible freaks tend to be just that in bed. Freaks.

IMO, if you want a solid relationship out this, dating teenagers is such a gamble. Most of the time don't know what they want in life, change their mind every few months, and are inexperienced.

But hey, you're young as well. I'd personally go with the flow, don't expect anything out of it, and ultimately have some fun. Bring us a story out of it.

Thanks man, really great advice.

All of the age restrictions you listed have been concerns of mine. I go to the bars usually every weekend so it would be weird not being able to bring her along, but I suppose I'm getting ahead of myself there. I'm going to see how things play out and decide whether or not it would actually be an issue.

Hey there GAF, hoping you guys can help me out with this one.

I take some music classes down at a school near me a few days every week. It's really small, there's always one or two girls sitting at a desk by the front door to greet people who come and go, and just chill there and answer questions.

One day on my way out I tell the two girls that are sitting there good night like I normally do, and right before I'm about to walk out they stop me. Apparently they thought I looked really familiar and was someone famous, and asked me if I was. Being not famous at all, I built up a lot and joked around until finally admitting I wasn't, and they laughed a bit. It's been two weeks or so and whenever I see either of them I have a nice, quick conversation as I'm on my way to class.

Here's the thing; I'm really interested in one of the girls, she's really cute, funny, has a great smile, etc and I'd like to get to know her better. She seems really receptive at my jokes and smiles a lot when we talk-- I just read The Game and guess thats an IOI. But I'm taking classes at this place for at least another year and wouldn't want to make things awkward, especially by asking her out during work, or if she says no and I'd have to walk by her three times a week for a year with an awkward hello.

A few pages ago Acid08 posted that he took a piece of paper and wrote his number on it, and said to a girl, "I know this is really corny, but I think you're really cute and I'd love to take you out for a drink." I'm thinking of doing something like that, but I'm just not sure if it's worth it due to the awkward possibilities. I'm not at afraid of rejection, just making things uncomfortable.

Even if she says no, it will only be awkward if you make it awkward. If she says no and you act like nothing even happened, she'll follow your lead and things will be fine.

I say go for it, regret is a million times worse than rejection anyways.

 

[Miguel]

Well she seems to be super into Hard Rock, so I guess that'll work. She really seems super excited about it. lol... I need to stop gushing... we haven't even gone out yet. lol

 

[HerbertFish]

Well, first off, I'm drunk as fuck and need to get this off.

I've posted multiple times, including just last weekend, about breaking up with my GF of two years. We've had problems as of recent.

So tonight, at the bar, she gets rocked as fuck, as its her school reunion for the weekend. I get rocked too, but basically just at the pregame with the guys. Anyways, I get to the bar. We hang out a bit. She doesn't know where shes at. Whatever.

Then I come up to her later, talking to some guy. I hear "well, you owed me a text back". And heard her respond "yeah, I did". Basically, it was the guy she was with before me. I looked at her, and she stayed in conversation with him. I just left the bar after hearing this and here I am. I'm just going to be done with her, which I told her via text and she oddly enough has not responded. I feel weak, don't let me go back GAF. I seriously ask you that. She's going to try playing this off like it is no big deal, but it is to me, especially knowing our relationship. I've been dying to be single to be honest, and I feel "cheated" about this situation.

 

[lawlohwhat]

Well, first off, I'm drunk as fuck and need to get this off.

I've posted multiple times, including just last weekend, about breaking up with my GF of two years. We've had problems as of recent.

So tonight, at the bar, she gets rocked as fuck, as its her school reunion for the weekend. I get rocked too, but basically just at the pregame with the guys. Anyways, I get to the bar. We hang out a bit. She doesn't know where shes at. Whatever.

Then I come up to her later, talking to some guy. I hear "well, you owed me a text back". And heard her respond "yeah, I did". Basically, it was the guy she was with before me. I looked at her, and she stayed in conversation with him. I just left the bar after hearing this and here I am. I'm just going to be done with her, which I told her via text and she oddly enough has not responded. I feel weak, don't let me go back GAF. I seriously ask you that. She's going to try playing this off like it is no big deal, but it is to me, especially knowing our relationship. I've been dying to be single to be honest, and I feel "cheated" about this situation.

Sober up, dude.

 

[whitehawk]

Yeah, sober up and then come back to this thread tomorrow.

 

[Count Dookkake]

Leaving the girl at the bar with the guy... not good.

 

[CF_Fighter]

So I went to a local craft beer bar tonight, just to hang out. Had the best time at a bar in a while and I knew no one there. Played a game of pool with this really cute girls with a great rack and ass, got her name but no number. She goes there all the time so I'm sure I'll run into her again. She was in our last Ren Fair where she wielded a mace in the human chess match. I might very well start going once or twice a week. Been building up a renewed social schedule this last week.

 

[Miguel]

So I went to a local craft beer bar tonight, just to hang out. Had the best time at a bar in a while and I knew no one there. Played a game of pool with this really cute girls with a great rack and ass, got her name but no number. She goes there all the time so I'm sure I'll run into her again. She was in our last Ren Fair where she wielded a mace in the human chess match. I might very well start going once or twice a week. Been building up a renewed social schedule this last week.

Bolded for awesomeness... underlined for great rack and ass... heh.

Get the number next time, which I'm sure is already the plan.

 

[Rahxephon91]

Yes, you can ask her out but first you have to strike up a conversation to break the ice. Ask her out for a cup of coffee and it will go from there.

Ok thanks. I've never done this so I am quite unsure of what to do. I already know how to strike an icebreaker, it's just the actual doing part. I really have no reason to do this other then I think I've caught the girl's glances in class and well I guess I see no real negative in trying to ask her out. And besides it could be good for my confidence to actually do it regardless of response.

 

[Jhoan]

So here's a few brief updates from me:

I hit up two chicks on OKC while I was hammered last Thursday. I haven't logged back in to check if they responded, although, I'm not holding my breath.

I went to an open mic in school on Wednesday and read some of my poetry on the stage; feels good man. People dug my stuff. I didn't meet any chicks there because I didn't go with the intention of meeting chicks; it was to watch and do my thing. As I got off the stage, I didn't make eye contact with no one, so that's something I need to continue working on.

I've been making casual conversation with women even if it's as brief as saying "There's a seat over" there as well as with cashiers like I did with the chick at the art supply store earlier.

Lastly, I talked to this Jewish chick that's in my English class that I've been meaning to talk to but she always leaves with another chick that's in my class that waits for her, so it's hard to talk to her as a result. I opened by asking her "What did you get on the paper?" So we went from there. I could have invited her to lunch, because I asked her what she was gonna do and she told me she was gonna go write a paper, then asked me what I was gonna do; I told her. She had that look that she wanted something else; unfortunately, I left my phone at home, so I let her go, told her that I'll see her on Monday and went on my way. I hate putting looks on the pedestal, but I have to admit, she has a pair gorgeous grey eyes.

So the plan is to invite to lunch, or attempt to go for her number on Monday provided she doesn't leave with said chick. Otherwise, I plan on shadowing them until I see that the chick has been cut loose, then go for it. We'll see how that goes. Although, I'll admit, I'm a bit scared of doing it due to previous bad experiences with chicks (I think I get too clingy/obsessed with them) plus I haven't asked for a chick's number in a person in a while. All I know is that with my last in person experience, it felt right and there was good chemistry so I went for it.

Otherwise, gotta keep on truckin'. I've been reading a lot of your success stories guys, and all I can say is, I'm happy for you all; I'm hoping to have the same kind of success stories to report. If you guys have any advice, then I welcome it.

 

[overcast]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

 

[Boozeroony]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Be gentle. Don't go in there like you had a meal for 3 days, just go with the flow. Don't go for the hot spot directly. Take a detour .

 

[Meadows]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Don't try and be a tough guy by holding your spunk in, she'll feel like she isn't doing a good job.

Spoiler

but don't finish in like 30 seconds or something

 

[Bucket-o-roadkill]

I come home and she invites me over for dinner because she missed me so much. We have a great evening, go to bed, have morning sex, and I am happy and content and could easily wait for her for 6 months. I was not clingy, I never called her, but replied on everything she sent.

Same morning though, I write her a text saying thanks for last night.


But I never get a reply. This was mere hours after I left.

Wow. Nice. I'd hate to be 'that guy', but could you imagine if this happened but you were the girl and she was the guy, how awful it would seem? Yeah. She just wants no strings sex whenever it suits her and seems to be pretending there's more to it to keep u interested. I'd bail after getting your keys back if I were you, you're better than this

 

[MisterNugNug]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Enjoy it. People fuck up cooking eggs for the first time, so don't feel like you've got to be the best lay she's ever had. Good sex takes practice. You'll get there, enjoy the road to it. Ask her what she likes, if she doesn't know, explore with her. And communicate.

 

[Dina]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Detours is something I can get behind. Kiss her on the things, lick her there, proceed slowly.

 

[ecurbj]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Don't be nervous. Just be slow and steady, kiss and lick but tease the shit out of her.

 

[NihonTiger90]

Fun update on the OKC profile:

I got a message today. Was from a gay guy, just wanted to say that I was good looking, apparently, LOL. But he made sure to preface that with "I know you're straight, but ..."

I guess that's some level of progress.

 

[~Kinggi~]

I hate this fucking thread. It taunts me. Fuck you.

 

[JambiBum]

Goes to OkC profile for the day, sees influx of guys from gaf looking at my profile. Feels weird and awesome at the same time.

 

[Xun]

Well she seems to be super into Hard Rock, so I guess that'll work. She really seems super excited about it. lol... I need to stop gushing... we haven't even gone out yet. lol

Reminds me of that girl who was into me last year...

We went to Hard Rock and she claimed to only have £5 so that I would pay for her meal.

Bear in mind she was the one with a job, not me.

 

[Mr.City]

I hate this fucking thread. It taunts me. Fuck you.

How does it taunt you?

 

[Attackthebase]

Goes to OkC profile for the day, sees influx of guys from gaf looking at my profile. Feels weird and awesome at the same time.

If you want to see mine, it's Lovelycraft. It's up to you to see who looks younger, you or me.

Got another message from a hair stylist last night. She seems cute, only picture though. Claims she's thin, I'll take a gamble on this one.

 

[RayStorm]

So... online dating. Please give me your read on this situation. I kind of see it differently than two friends of mine.

Anyway, here goes:

She writes me, asks me something about my profile and if I'm interested in getting to know her. I answer, say I'm interested and say that I'm not much into writing all that long despite doing that.
She answers back with questions, I answer them, ask her if there's anything to know before asking her to meet up.
Her brief answer just lists three things she's also written in her profile.

I proceed to set an activity and give her two possible dates (that are 2 and 5 days in the future). Reply from her: She's busy both dates.

Right now I'm definitely getting a vibe of not interested from her. What does GirlAge think?

 

[Miguel]

Reminds me of that girl who was into me last year...

We went to Hard Rock and she claimed to only have £5 so that I would pay for her meal.

Bear in mind she was the one with a job, not me.

I'll usually offer to pay and back off if they want to split. Although that sucks in your situation, I'm intending to pay unless she says otherwise.

 

[~Kinggi~]

So... online dating. Please give me your read on this situation. I kind of see it differently than two friends of mine.

Anyway, here goes:

She writes me, asks me something about my profile and if I'm interested in getting to know her. I answer, say I'm interested and say that I'm not much into writing all that long despite doing that.
She answers back with questions, I answer them, ask her if there's anything to know before asking her to meet up.
Her brief answer just lists three things she's also written in her profile.

I proceed to set an activity and give her two possible dates (that are 2 and 5 days in the future). Reply from her: She's busy both dates.

Right now I'm definitely getting a vibe of not interested from her. What does GirlAge think?

Ive found on Cupid people dont give a shit and simply wont message you if they are not into you. If you message her again and she replies then there is something else wrong with her.

 

[JambiBum]

If you want to see mine, it's Lovelycraft. It's up to you to see who looks younger, you or me.

Got another message from a hair stylist last night. She seems cute, only picture though. Claims she's thin, I'll take a gamble on this one.

Baby facessss. I am not really sure who looks younger. We need an impartial judge.

 

[Attackthebase]

Baby facessss. I am not really sure who looks younger. We need an impartial judge.

Ladies just love the baby face.

Fun update on the OKC profile:

I got a message today. Was from a gay guy, just wanted to say that I was good looking, apparently, LOL. But he made sure to preface that with "I know you're straight, but ..."

I guess that's some level of progress.

When my profile was listed as "Bisexual," I got way too many messages from guys. Every week, I swear I would get four-to-five messages from men lusting for me. So, I turned it to straight, worked out pretty well.

 

[ConradCervantes]

So once again I've become The Other Guy.

A few weeks ago I was invited out to a bar by a good friend of mine. There I met a girl who I immediately began crushing on, and she crushed right back on me. I got her number right before we left. This past Tuesday I'm at the local mall eating at Subway when she walks past me. We both eye one another, gradually recognizing each other, then hug and catch up. We make an informal date to hang out some time. Last night she gets a hold of me through Facebook chat and we nail down plans for today.

Today we went out to buy me some buttons for my coat and then Victoria's Secret for her. Before we go into VS we stop in Spencer's to look around. We're in the back of the store looking at sex stuff, really close together, when she leans in. I lean in and kiss her. She is a biter, which I love. This continues over the next couple hours as we go from store to store, I kiss her ear and neck, her "trigger" areas as she says, and she bit my neck in an elevator, which got me ultra-horny in a hurry.

We sat down and talked VERY frankly about our sexual preferences. She is into everything I am: scratching, biting, anal, you name it, she was game. She's even a sub, so I could restrain and tease her if I pleased. We leave the mall, me thinking I had this in the bag. We get back to her place, and I ask her if she'd like me to come in.

She looks down and says "I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much."

MOTHERFUUUUUU-

She explained that the guy she was living with was a fling that had gone on too long, that she had taken a strong liking to me ever since she met me that night. The damage was done, though: I mean, if this girl was willing to cheat with me, what would stop her from cheating on me?

This shit always happens. Fate won't let me be attracted to any woman, it has to be women who are already taken. I kissed her goodbye, saying absentmindedly that I'll see her around, then drove away. What a waste of a day today was.

 

[Jaladinozozo]

So once again I've become The Other Guy.

So um....why don't you just like hit that and have some fun? Why does she have to be your next faithful GF or something? And just because shes cheating on someone else with you doesn't mean that much. Plenty of people cheat just the same if they are single when they meet someone.

 

[RayStorm]

Ive found on Cupid people dont give a shit and simply wont message you if they are not into you. If you message her again and she replies then there is something else wrong with her.

While it's not on okcupid I agree. I'm just kind of puzzled that there's somewhat mixed signals. On one hand she replies, on the other hand just in the briefest possible fashion. And while I feel I offered her an opportunity to let me down easy if not interested (yet), she didn't really take that either.
Then again why wouldn't she shoot back with some general time frame that suits her for a meeting? Am I really supposed to now ask her, when she's free? I'll probably do that along with a question about one of the reasons that she gave for not having time. But still, I feel like I'm pursuing by doing that. And Brent wouldn't be happy with that.

 

[JambiBum]

So once again I've become The Other Guy.

A few weeks ago I was invited out to a bar by a good friend of mine. There I met a girl who I immediately began crushing on, and she crushed right back on me. I got her number right before we left. This past Tuesday I'm at the local mall eating at Subway when she walks past me. We both eye one another, gradually recognizing each other, then hug and catch up. We make an informal date to hang out some time. Last night she gets a hold of me through Facebook chat and we nail down plans for today.

Today we went out to buy me some buttons for my coat and then Victoria's Secret for her. Before we go into VS we stop in Spencer's to look around. We're in the back of the store looking at sex stuff, really close together, when she leans in. I lean in and kiss her. She is a biter, which I love. This continues over the next couple hours as we go from store to store, I kiss her ear and neck, her "trigger" areas as she says, and she bit my neck in an elevator, which got me ultra-horny in a hurry.

We sat down and talked VERY frankly about our sexual preferences. She is into everything I am: scratching, biting, anal, you name it, she was game. She's even a sub, so I could restrain and tease her if I pleased. We leave the mall, me thinking I had this in the bag. We get back to her place, and I ask her if she'd like me to come in.

She looks down and says "I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much."

MOTHERFUUUUUU-

She explained that the guy she was living with was a fling that had gone on too long, that she had taken a strong liking to me ever since she met me that night. The damage was done, though: I mean, if this girl was willing to cheat with me, what would stop her from cheating on me?

This shit always happens. Fate won't let me be attracted to any woman, it has to be women who are already taken. I kissed her goodbye, saying absentmindedly that I'll see her around, then drove away. What a waste of a day today was.

I'm not a believer of the whole "once a cheater always a cheater" thing. Sure that definitely applies to some people, but it also doesn't apply to everyone. You don't know the full circumstances surrounding the situation. If you like the girl then ask her what's going on instead of just leaving the situation.

 

[Dabookerman]

Pro tip.. Don't hit on girls when very drunk...

 

[soultron]

So once again I've become The Other Guy.

We sat down and talked VERY frankly about our sexual preferences. She is into everything I am: scratching, biting, anal, you name it, she was game. She's even a sub, so I could restrain and tease her if I pleased. We leave the mall, me thinking I had this in the bag. We get back to her place, and I ask her if she'd like me to come in.

She looks down and says "I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much."

MOTHERFUUUUUU-

Just bring her to your place. She's obviously not GF-material, so treat her as such and have some fun.

 

[overcast]

Be gentle. Don't go in there like you had a meal for 3 days, just go with the flow. Don't go for the hot spot directly. Take a detour .

Don't try and be a tough guy by holding your spunk in, she'll feel like she isn't doing a good job.

Spoiler

but don't finish in like 30 seconds or something

Enjoy it. People fuck up cooking eggs for the first time, so don't feel like you've got to be the best lay she's ever had. Good sex takes practice. You'll get there, enjoy the road to it. Ask her what she likes, if she doesn't know, explore with her. And communicate.

Detours is something I can get behind. Kiss her on the things, lick her there, proceed slowly.

Don't be nervous. Just be slow and steady, kiss and lick but tease the shit out of her.

Alright, thanks a lot for the advice guys. If it does happen I'll probably report back here. For reference, she's completely new to this too. So it makes it better for me.

 

[UFRA]

So I met this cute girl in one of my classes, got her number. We went on one date, or at least hung on. I've been busy so that was about a month ago, but she's contacted me a few times since then. She contacted me again today, and we are going to hang out tomorrow.

She's a really nice girl, cute, share many interests, but oddly enough I've been kind of reluctant to hang out because I'm not sure if I want a girlfriend at the moment. I'm trying to focus on a lot of stuff, and I know how much time a girlfriend can take up. I clearly didn't make a move last time, and I probably won't tomorrow. I've been kind of going into this like "Hey you guys could end up just being friends, and meeting people at university is good". (and tricky since I don't live on residence).

Anyone else been in this situation?

Yup.

I've been single for the last year or so now, and lately I've been kinda wanting to pursue some girls that I've had opportunities with. Then, at the same time, I find myself kinda backing off when I actually could be progressing things.

It's almost like I'm in a rut and I'm so used to being single right now that I don't want that change. Yet at the same time I do...lol

Ugh.

 

[Dina]

Alright, thanks a lot for the advice guys. If it does happen I'll probably report back here. For reference, she's completely new to this too. So it makes it better for me.

I meant thighs, but you got that right?

 

[CherryWoodFuton]

So chances of getting/performing oral on this girl in the next few days is just about 100%. I'm pretty nervous, since it's my first time. Anything I should know going into this? (I'm telling her I'm not circumcised before hand, we're young so I wanna know if it will be a problem).

Try to write the alphabet with your tongue on her clit and see if she's lasts to M

 

[Minamu]

GAH! I was supposed to meet a girl last night, who even changed her entire evening plans just to be at the same place as I. Yet when I finally get there, her tongue is deep down the throat of a former class mate of mine... I feel like Donald Duck's got nothing on me, because this streak of bad luck is getting obnoxious. This mental image is making my interest levels drop *very* rapidly now. Should I be bothered by this? :S Not sure how to handle something like this. Neither of them have done anything wrong per se, and I don't actually blame them, it's good for them, really. But still, I'm not so sure I want to talk to this girl anymore We both had a great window of opportunity last night, a window she created, and I can't help but feel like that window is closed now, just because I happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time.

 

[Danj]

Finally got around to mentioning my OKCupid profile to my therapist, so at my most recent session (yesterday) he helped me improve it a bit. Also just shaved the stache off again and had a haircut and have a party invite tonight (though I don't imagine there'll be any single women there) so hopefully will get an updated picture of me.

 

[Minamu]

This was pretty epic :O
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4SyrLtN4Nc

I've decided not to be bothered by this Too stressful and wasteful of energy.

 

[low-G]

GAH! I was supposed to meet a girl last night, who even changed her entire evening plans just to be at the same place as I. Yet when I finally get there, her tongue is deep down the throat of a former class mate of mine... I feel like Donald Duck's got nothing on me, because this streak of bad luck is getting obnoxious. This mental image is making my interest levels drop *very* rapidly now. Should I be bothered by this? :S Not sure how to handle something like this. Neither of them have done anything wrong per se, and I don't actually blame them, it's good for them, really. But still, I'm not so sure I want to talk to this girl anymore We both had a great window of opportunity last night, a window she created, and I can't help but feel like that window is closed now, just because I happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time.

Err, so you go to meet a girl and when you get there she's kissing another guy and you don't know what to think? Are you just looking for friends? I don't understand.

 

[Kad5]

Weird scenario:

-I ended up with a group of drunk girls and two other guys.

-One of the girls was flirting hard with me while drunk.

-She was going around kissing random guys (about two others at least outside the room we were in)

-At one point we ended up outside and she held my hand and asked me if i was single

-Long story short everything was cut short because one of my friends got alcohol poisoning. She's fine though.

-I didn't remember her name. Shit sucks. Oh well.

The world just loves to be my cock block.

 

[theignoramus]

anyone get the feeling they have to put forward an unusually high amount of effort just to even get a fucking number? Like moreso than the average swinging dick?
I keep asking myself why it seems so difficult. If it was this difficult for everyone, we'd have sex and dating statistics like Japan.