So on reddit, someone asked a
valid question. And much to my surprise, the recent feel-good list made here on GAF, appeared
as an answer. No worries there, I actually appreciated that my list was, well, appreciated.
And of course, as expected, the backlash was huge. Lots of general 'lol shite list it's wrong it's bad person is fanboy' etc. I ignored it, because I don't care, but one person's comment
did rub me the wrong way.
So I replied to them, with what may well be
my final post to GW2 reddit.
I have to make a decision regarding my interactions online with parts of the GW2 community. Simply: it's just not good for me. While I enjoy reading the GW2 subreddit for news and information, since GW2 still lacks the kind of major central news site that WoW enjoyed with WoW Insider, and generally the community is very nice... it's the more toxic apples that just ruin the whole barrel for me. It's not GW2 specifically - it's the whole modern gaming culture, GW2 is just being the "final straw" as it were.
Ghandi said, be the change you want to see in the world. Welp, the change I want to see is that people stop engaging with the perpetual cynics, the haters, and the eternally dissatisfied. I'm okay with people having beef with a game, but there is such a night/day difference between people who have beef but express it as "well, it'd be nice if this was fixed", and those that rampage, rage, and scream their little tantrums as if the issues make the game simply unacceptable.
I disagree with the current climate that just because one likes a thing, one has lost all objectivity regarding said thing. I'm tired of all the Manichaeism in gaming culture. Just plain tired of fearing expressing any kind of like for a thing, then waiting for the other shoe to drop as the tide of "you're wrong defend yourself stop liking a thing I don't like" comes crashing in.
Originally I started participating in the GW2 subreddit because I thought, hey, people would only come here because they're playing GW2 and enjoying it, right? Stupid of me, I know. That's not to say the entire subreddit is nothing but hate, there's so much amazing stuff shared there, stories, art, creativity, humour. But I need to accept my limits, and realize that I just can't ignore certain types of people, and I can't fight them (you can't fight these big waves). So, remove myself from the equation.
Getting too old for this shit.
At least there's this thread on GAF. This is still a nice place.