outunderthestars
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When I went back to school in my early 30's I was pretty much a sugar daddy for someone. I basically took care of her, bought her things, etc. It was worth it. 

Dirt never stays under the rug.I agree but it's likely that you wouldn't find out. Nobody is going around saying this.
They're lying to you. They totally sleep with them. It's pretty much a normalized form of prostitution which is why it's so gross. Here in the Brickell area a bunch of girls are in school by whoring themselves like this. All they're missing is a pimp and more clients.I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.
I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
The real question is why would you pay a girl to have sex with you when you have escorts much better at the job?
I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.
I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
Jeez sorry to hear. That's fucking terrible. It's sad that people think this is acceptable.My sister used to do it with her friends and maybe still does. She's not doing it for school though, she just wants a taste of the rich life. It's pretty gross and really had my mom shook. She wouldn't stop so it caused a lot of drama in our house (exasperated by the fact that we are Muslim) until she moved to another province. Now, she's selling her ass to oil workers in Alberta for all I know. So I would say that I am against the whole sugar daddy thing but I don't really care, I guess.
Jeez sorry to hear. That's fucking terrible. It's sad that people think this is acceptable.
'She wants a taste of the rich life'Yea, how terrible that an adult lives life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
Yea, how terrible that an adult lives life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
Religion was a part of it but her escapades went beyond that. She told my sisters about everything she did and when they told the rest of the family, we were quite shocked. During the months before she left, she made frequent trips to the U.S. Places like New York, Florida, Las Vegas, etc. She went to these places with no plan and often times not much more money than her plane ticket. She stayed at the homes of these men and put herself in a really vulnerable position by taking their drugs and requiring their money to go home. In terms of religion, she could do all of this and be fine if she comes around in the end but with her short-sighted and dangerous living, she could be killed by a faceless man that would never be found. I think that the sugar daddy lifestyle attracts irresponsible men and women, and is a shortcut for both. Easy girls for the men and easy money for the girls (which isn't for school, in my experience).Yea, how terrible that an adult lives ghe kd life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
'She wants a taste of the rich life'
Capitalism making people slave themselves for the ultimate goal in this crappy system which is getting more coin than your fellow man.
I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.
I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
I have no respect for these people.Equally terrible how one does a job some consider odious instead of something like working in fast food, being a garbage man, or getting paid to kill brown families oversees.
These dudes couldn't perform if they wanted to. Plus, I'm really tight with these girls and we're super open with each other so there would be no reason to lie.They may be simply not sharing all the details with you.
Sugar Daddy's are lame but they still get some sort of sexual favor, even if not often.
saw some documentaries: they all said, they don't have sex with the guys.
Well, of course they did.saw some documentaries: they all said, they don't have sex with the guys.
You're right. Everyone should be a prostitute atleast once in their life.Yea, how terrible that an adult lives life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
You're right. Everyone should be a prostitute atleast once in their life.
I had a married woman I was involved with when I was 22 pay for everything. I took care of my rent and bills but she covered anytime we went out for dinner / drinks / movies / concerts. Not the same situation as a most "sugar baby" relationships but it was pretty awesome. Also she expected sex whenever she came to visit. Eventually it fizzled out when her husband found out. Reflecting it on it 7 or so years later she had a lot of serious self esteem problems and would refer to me as "my little broken robot that no one will ever love". As far as I know her and her husband are still together.
Whoa. How'd a relationship like that even come about?
This isn't a sugar daddy. That's straight up prostitution with some paid company before hand to make it look different on the outside
Whoa. How'd a relationship like that even come about?
Broadly speaking, for society, the idea of a sugar daddy and a college student ... I don't care? Two consenting adults.
On a personal level, I had a relationship once that was getting too close to the sugar daddy dynamic, and to this day it still makes me extremely uncomfortable when I don't have financial autonomy or reciprocation.
Whoa. How'd a relationship like that even come about?