How do you feel about sugar daddies and college students?

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When I went back to school in my early 30's I was pretty much a sugar daddy for someone. I basically took care of her, bought her things, etc. It was worth it. :)
 
trixx said:
I agree but it's likely that you wouldn't find out. Nobody is going around saying this.
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Dirt never stays under the rug.

Ronin said:
I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.

I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
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They're lying to you. They totally sleep with them. It's pretty much a normalized form of prostitution which is why it's so gross. Here in the Brickell area a bunch of girls are in school by whoring themselves like this. All they're missing is a pimp and more clients.
 
True Savior said:
The real question is why would you pay a girl to have sex with you when you have escorts much better at the job?
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I don't think they're paying the girl, they're paying for her expenses. That would be a different dynamic, something more of a trophy wife than engaging with someone who is in complete control of the transaction. Also prostitution is illegal i guess (where applicable), there's less risk.
 
Ronin said:
I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.

I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
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If they are students at Georgia State then they most certainly are.
 
My sister used to do it with her friends and maybe still does. She's not doing it for school though, she just wants a taste of the rich life. It's pretty gross and really had my mom shook. She wouldn't stop so it caused a lot of drama in our house (exasperated by the fact that we are Muslim) until she moved to another province. Now, she's selling her ass to oil workers in Alberta for all I know. So I would say that I am against the whole sugar daddy thing but I don't really care, I guess.
 
Walpurgis said:
My sister used to do it with her friends and maybe still does. She's not doing it for school though, she just wants a taste of the rich life. It's pretty gross and really had my mom shook. She wouldn't stop so it caused a lot of drama in our house (exasperated by the fact that we are Muslim) until she moved to another province. Now, she's selling her ass to oil workers in Alberta for all I know. So I would say that I am against the whole sugar daddy thing but I don't really care, I guess.
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Jeez sorry to hear. That's fucking terrible. It's sad that people think this is acceptable.
 
What a dream of a country where you have to prostitute yourself in order to study in order to maybe have a shot at getting a real job later

It's pretty gross.
 
outunderthestars said:
Yea, how terrible that an adult lives life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
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'She wants a taste of the rich life'

Capitalism making people slave themselves for the ultimate goal in this crappy system which is getting more coin than your fellow man.
 
outunderthestars said:
Yea, how terrible that an adult lives life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
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Equally terrible how one does a job some consider odious instead of something like working in fast food, being a garbage man, or getting paid to kill brown families oversees.
 
outunderthestars said:
Yea, how terrible that an adult lives ghe kd life the way they want to instead of basing it on what their mom or religion thinks they should.
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Religion was a part of it but her escapades went beyond that. She told my sisters about everything she did and when they told the rest of the family, we were quite shocked. During the months before she left, she made frequent trips to the U.S. Places like New York, Florida, Las Vegas, etc. She went to these places with no plan and often times not much more money than her plane ticket. She stayed at the homes of these men and put herself in a really vulnerable position by taking their drugs and requiring their money to go home. In terms of religion, she could do all of this and be fine if she comes around in the end but with her short-sighted and dangerous living, she could be killed by a faceless man that would never be found. I think that the sugar daddy lifestyle attracts irresponsible men and women, and is a shortcut for both. Easy girls for the men and easy money for the girls (which isn't for school, in my experience).
 
Ronin said:
I know a couple of girls that do this. Not to pay for school, but because they like getting nice stuff. They're not even sleeping with the dudes. They basically play eye candy on his arm whenever he's out in public or at an event.

I can't hate. Wish I could do it too.
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They may be simply not sharing all the details with you.

Sugar Daddy's are lame but they still get some sort of sexual favor, even if not often.
 
Count Dookkake said:
Equally terrible how one does a job some consider odious instead of something like working in fast food, being a garbage man, or getting paid to kill brown families oversees.
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I have no respect for these people.

As for the other jobs, at least there is some supervision. If a crazy person jumps out of a dumpster and attacks a garbage man, his co-workers will save him. When my sister is with a sugar daddy, he could easily beat and murder her without anyone knowing - and she could do the same to him. Working at a brothel is safer and my mother would probably prefer that.
 
JrBaconCheeseburger said:
They may be simply not sharing all the details with you.

Sugar Daddy's are lame but they still get some sort of sexual favor, even if not often.
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These dudes couldn't perform if they wanted to. Plus, I'm really tight with these girls and we're super open with each other so there would be no reason to lie.
 
if thats how you wanna live your life, i ain't gonna stop you . Sugar daddy, sugar mamma its whatever. As long as everything is consensual and everyones cool screw it, who am I to judge your life.
 
Friend of mine worked as a cook at Hooters and said a good number of the servers had sugardaddies – just look where the employees parked behind the building over half the cars were all luxury and sports cars..
 
I never really thought about it to a saw all the billboards in South Africa like this

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I know people often say they are in control, but still exploited.
 
from the stories here it seems the girls who do it enjoy it. it seems to me like its collage that is doing the real exploiting.
 
Personally I'd hate to ever see a family member or friend get involved in it, and my respect for them would diminish if I discovered they had a sugar daddy. But, we all do what we must to get by or get what we desire. I won't judge someone as a good or bad person if they do it, but I don't have to respect it.
 
I had a married woman I was involved with when I was 22 pay for everything. I took care of my rent and bills but she covered anytime we went out for dinner / drinks / movies / concerts. Not the same situation as a most "sugar baby" relationships but it was pretty awesome. Also she expected sex whenever she came to visit. Eventually it fizzled out when her husband found out. Reflecting it on it 7 or so years later she had a lot of serious self esteem problems and would refer to me as "my little broken robot that no one will ever love". As far as I know her and her husband are still together.
 
richardhawk said:
I had a married woman I was involved with when I was 22 pay for everything. I took care of my rent and bills but she covered anytime we went out for dinner / drinks / movies / concerts. Not the same situation as a most "sugar baby" relationships but it was pretty awesome. Also she expected sex whenever she came to visit. Eventually it fizzled out when her husband found out. Reflecting it on it 7 or so years later she had a lot of serious self esteem problems and would refer to me as "my little broken robot that no one will ever love". As far as I know her and her husband are still together.
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Whoa. How'd a relationship like that even come about?
 
My opinion

it's disgusting and deplorable on all parties

have some more dignity for yourself ... People around the world go through shit mountain but still don't choose prostitution.
 
The Wall said:
This isn't a sugar daddy. That's straight up prostitution with some paid company before hand to make it look different on the outside
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Where is the line between sugar daddy and prostitution? She doesn't have s pimp, they pay her bills by giving her cash for company and/or sex. She meets them on the sugar daddy website... They give her gifts sometimes too. Depends on the guy. What makes this not a sugar daddy relationship?

white dynamite said:
Whoa. How'd a relationship like that even come about?
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Can't speak for him but in my case, which was pretty similar to his, the older lady and I met on a dating website. She wasn't looking for relationships... She's a career woman who doesn't have a lot of time for that, but she wanted physical attention and sometimes to go out on dates. It was fun while it lasted, it's nice to go out to dinner and nice places and get the expensive wine and all that. Shame that it ended.
 
backslashbunny said:
Broadly speaking, for society, the idea of a sugar daddy and a college student ... I don't care? Two consenting adults.

On a personal level, I had a relationship once that was getting too close to the sugar daddy dynamic, and to this day it still makes me extremely uncomfortable when I don't have financial autonomy or reciprocation.
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Doesn't the second part sort of contradict the first part? You don't think that dynamic would also apply to many others?

Sure technically both are consenting. But one of the two is much less mentally mature and also facing a mountain of debt. They could easily feel pressured into doing something uncomfortable because hey feel they have no choice? Combine that with the potential power exerted by a rich guy and it could be a very unbalanced relationship
 
I had one.
No regrets whatsoever. Helped me graduate with no debt whatsoever when I finished college and get other things that were a need.

It shouldn't have to be a problem between two consenting adults if they want to do it.
 
I guess the question should be "would I enjoy fucking that man even if he had no money or power". If yes, then it's not abusive and you just take the money etc. as a bonus. If the answer is no, that's an uncomfortable thought imo, it's not exactly rape-y but instead of being physically forced into sex you have to mentally force yourself to do it :/
 
Bunch of prudes up in here. I would love a sugar momma
Send a PM ;)
 
Knew 2-3 girls who did this. Can't say I ever cared but some of them started expecting other people to also pay for stuff from usually having no money but being taken care of so it started becoming unbearable to hangout.
 
I personally don't care, but I would be lying if I didn't say that I would look at both parties in a different light. Especially when the guy is married... which is usually the case. And having said that, the girl is probably in another relationship as well, at least from what I have seen.

Plus, the whole idea of a sugar daddy is the epitome of "a girl needing a guy", which does set feminism back a bit.
 
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