How long did you first relationship last?

First time? A couple days. It was a girl I met online. I told her I was older than I was. My dumb friend called us on a 3-way call and made me confess to him that I told her. She got on the line and that was that. If a friend of yours does that to you, rethink who your friends are.
 
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First time? A couple days. It was a girl I met online. I told her I was older than I was. My dumb friend called us on a 3-way call and made me confess to him that I told her. She got on the line and that was that. If a friend of yours does that to you, rethink who your friends are.
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or dont lie in the first place..................what a weird take
 
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Well, reflect upon it, call it a chapter in your life, and build upon your future. Our future is still unwritten.
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On and off for a year. She asked me to prom so I went, and I didn't know she had gotten pregnant by another guy. I knew I had not gotten her pregnant because I was not having sex with her. We were serious for probably 6 months, then broke up and dated off and on.
 
8 months although I should've been honest with myself that I was ready to move on at 5 months.

I used to hang out in the "punk, ska, & thrash" chat room on Yahoo chat and found out she was going to the same show as me, so we decided to meet up and we really hit it off. She was a really great person.

I still feel bad about breaking her heart but I was just nowhere near mature enough to settle down back then. Things could've been different if I'd met her a few years later.


I broke up with her first day of spring break 2002. Then I bought a PlayStation 2 + Final Fantasy X the next day.
 
Almost 2 years. From age 17 to 19. We were both sheltered kids when we started dating. We started partying with a group of people our second summer together and she decided she wanted to fuck one of the dudes in that group and that was that. What's funny is that she end up cheating on HIM with the guy who she's been married to for the past 15 years or so.
 
First proper relationship, as in not just a few rounds of hide the sausage, was 17 years. Ended amicably as both of us had changed from when we were teenagers and had drifted apart to the point it was almost 2 separate lives anyway. We had 2 fantastic kids and plenty of good times so no regrets what so ever.
 
DonkeyPunchJr said:
8 months although I should've been honest with myself that I was ready to move on at 5 months.

I used to hang out in the "punk, ska, & thrash" chat room on Yahoo chat and found out she was going to the same show as me, so we decided to meet up and we really hit it off. She was a really great person.

I still feel bad about breaking her heart but I was just nowhere near mature enough to settle down back then. Things could've been different if I'd met her a few years later.


I broke up with her first day of spring break 2002. Then I bought a PlayStation 2 + Final Fantasy X the next day.
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Bought a PS2 and never tried again? Lol
 
With my co-worker in my first job Rite Aid. We were both really young and became really chill with each other and always looked forward to working on the same shift and eventually got into a relationship for 1 year while still at the job. But then decided to end on good terms since she has to leave the job and move to another state for college.

Still talked afterwards but it became less and less and eventually no more contact. Miss that and it was a fun time, fooled around a lot when we're not working on the register when the store wasn't crowded. Her family liked me too so thought it would become something more.
 
Went on CatholicMatch and went on a date at a local music event going on in town. She showed up about an hour late and we only got to a second date at a restaurant before she said she "wanted to be friends" 😬
 
6 years

She destroyed my entire mental health with the way she casted me aside I fell into drink and tried to yeet.

Been 3 years now and while I've tried to meet women idk I think I'm too damaged for it all as I've zero confidence, and mental health is still beyond fucked.

Least I have my doggo
 
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Some minutes, never been into anything serious because basically I've never been serious about it, most girls are pretty annoying or just not likeable to be with in intimate, long relationships.

One day I'll find the one tho I hope.
 
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You made me dig through the cobwebs of my memories and travel 27 years in time...

It lasted way longer than it should have lasted, I think 8 months.
The guy was much older than me, he was a jerk and the sex was terrible, but I was naive and didn't know any better.
Eventually I cheated on him (I later found out he was cheating on me for quite some time too) and found out sex was actually amazing when done right and people don't usually step on and undermine others like he did to me.
 
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Around three months. One of those hurricane romances; incredible sex, incredibly emotionally unstable and toxic relationship in general, suspicion, fighting, cheating, then cheating on the people that we left each other for with each other.....

It was a beautiful disaster, wouldn't do it again but I cherish the memory.
 
My first real relationship — toxic and psychologically damaging — lasted about two and a half years, from 2002 to 2004, when I was 17. She wasn't a good person, and looking back, I realize that when she finally left, it was the best thing she ever did for me.
 
Late bloomer relatively speaking, I didn't date until end of college and that went right into living together for awhile, then she left town and came back pretty quickly, but no longer living together following that (yeah now that I think of it.. how'd that work? Ah we were both very young). After a couple years then it was MY turn to leave town, she was going to follow me after some traveling of her own, but honestly, after being out of each other's immediate space for just a short period of time I realized "oh wait why am I in such a good mood all the time? Oh nooooo....."

Anyway that was about 4 years all said and done. Impossible to imagine that we might've ended up married, which would have been a big mess I am sure (clearly neither of us were ready for it at the time). Haven't spoken to her since, and now that it has been (literally) half a lifetime ago, my only hope is that she wound up happy with whatever direction her life took.
 
Me and this girl were just friends for three years. Out of nowhere, she said she wanted to be together. I said no at first, but then I felt bad and said yes. The second things didn't go her way, she did a complete 180. And just like that, I felt like I finally understood women in a nutshell.
 
About six months and I shouldn't have kept it going for that long. I knew I didn't love her and she was hurt when it ended. We were both young and inexperienced but she was better to me than I was to her. I came from a messed up childhood and was depressed, lonely and selfish. She deserved better and luckily she moved on.
I've done a lot of work on myself in the decades since and been in plenty more relationships and I think I'm almost at the point in my life where I can attract a stable, healthy love.
 
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Not 100% sure, less than a year though I'm fairly confident. I'm not really sure which relationship was even my first "official" one. My first 1+ year relationship came way later though.
 
Can't remember exactly, but it wasn't too long. A couple of months or so. Looking back at it now, I certainly wasn't ready for a serious relationship back then, and didn't really know how to actually behave in one.
 
So far, going on 23 years! My first girlfriend, became my wife. We met on the night I landed at Kansai International Airport in Osaka, and she's been in (and changed) my life ever since! We spent a year working in and exploring Japan, and then built a life back in the States. We're actually going back with our three sons to Osaka next year for our 20th wedding anniversary!
 
About 3.5 ish years. Ruined me when it ended at the time, but in hindsight it was definitely for the best. Well past double that with my wife and honestly that first go at it probably should have finished up around a year based on how much better I have it nowadays.
 
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