OP I'd definitely recommend getting a hotel, preferably on their dime, worse case on your own.
Commutes are weird though, I think there's a lot of variables to consider:
1) What is rush hour traffic like? My 30 mile commute from my parent's house was a manageable 50ish minutes in the morning, but there was too much variability coming home. If I was lucky, it was the same 50 minutes, most times it was closer to 90. You have to think if you can tolerate the commute during the shittiest part of the day.
2) Are there flexible work arrangements? Can you work from home one day a week? A longer commute might be more tolerable if you make it four days instead of five.
3) Is public transit an option? If you gave me the option of 45 minutes by car, or 45-60 minutes by train where I can comfortably read a book, I'd take the latter every time. Driving sucks
edit: Also right now my commute is 40 minutes or so each way with very little traffic variation, but I'm moving in September and I think it'll be at least 45 minutes in the morning and around an hour coming home. A little longer than I'd like it but I'd rather live in the city with a longer commute than move out into the burbs