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I have a stalker.

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Seeing that other thread I figured I'd share my current stalker experience.

There's this boy who rides my bus who is very, very disturbing. He dresses sort of gothy (black/pentagrams/zippers that don't do anything). He's thin, ugly. my age, extremely creepy, and from what I've witnessed he's an asshole to everyone except myself and other girls. He started riding my bus at around the end of last year. At the time I had no idea he was such a fucking weirdo, he asked for my AIM name and my phone number. I gave him my AIM name but not my phone number.

After that, nearly every day he would try to give my things like a bag of candy, a mirror, cheap dollar store jewelry. I would usually decline but often I was left speechless by how strange he acted. Sometimes he would put things into my backpack without my knowledge so I couldn't turn them down. He did this kind of thing with 3 of my friends as well. Eventually I got online using the AIM name I gave him and immediatly he IMed me telling me how much he loves me and he can't live without me, I wasn't sure what to say or if I should soften the blow of what I wanted to express to him. I just told him he was creepy, that I don't live him, and that he should never talk to me again then I blocked him.

He kept making new screen names spewing angsty bullshit like "I guess I was meant to be alone, I guess I'll just kill myself." After those conversations I avoided him like the plague whenever I went to school. Chills went down my spine whenever I saw him. After a while of not having any contact with him he called me at home, he asked one of my "friends" for my phone number and she gave it to him. He told me on the phone that he was going to bring a gun to school and shoot my boyfriend because by then I had gotten together with my first real boyfriend. Nothing ever really came of that and he doesn't bother me much anymore since my boyfriend sits next to me on the bus ride home and he could stomp the shit out of him. I probably should have told my school counselor but I didn't want to start any big trouble. He isn't really my "current" stalker, but the issues between him and I haven't been resolved and I think the situation might eventually elevate until I tell my parents or counselor, which might be when police get might get involved. For now, he's staying out of my way, but repeating what he did with me to some other people I know.
 

Cool

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There's a classic case that goes along with why I cannot stand goths.

I don't understand why he wouldn't take the hint, putting myself into his shoes, I think I'd take the hint. It's not like you're going to fall madly in love with him if he just keeps pestering you by stalking you and calling you. And of course, in normal "goth" fashion he had to threaten to kill himself and say he'd take a gun to school.
 
I'm 13, he's 13. I think his birthday is a few days before mine but I base that soley on remembering him bringing a bunch of cupcakes to school in early December last year.
 

Cool

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Camillemurs said:
I'm 13, he's 13. I think his birthday is a few days before mine but I base that soley on remembering him bringing a bunch of cupcakes to school in early December last year.


Holy shit, this kid has got some serious problems for being that young.
 
Tazznum1 said:
You're both weirdos. If he's a weirdo and you gave him your AIM name, then you have to be a weirdo.

I gave him my AIM name before he ever did anything for me think think he was a weirdo. Besides wearing pants with zippers that go nowhere.
 

Tazznum1

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impirius

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Seriously, if the guy said that he'd bring a gun to school and shoot your boyfriend... you might want to consider letting someone at your school know. It was probably a meaningless threat, but you never know.
 
You need to let someone know about this, especially if he's doing these things to other people. He needs counseling. His behavior is not normal and could esculate into something much worse if not attended to immediately.
 

Rlan

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Fake Goth seems to have taken over usual Goth. Most Goths you see around today are Super Happy.

"Hey! I carved a demonic symbol into the palm of my hand, it hurt a bit but it's pretty! He he he!"
 
Call him a poser, that you would never go out with him, and if he wants to cry about it, suggest he does it over his Good Charlotte or Linkin Park albums, because they are hardcore and understand his pain.

That'll teach him good.
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
I've already solved your problem.

Firstly, IM him on AIM and apologize for being so rude; just tell him you were on your period. Chances are, it's true.

Then, tell him to meet you after school you so you can apologize in person. He will undoubtedly accept the offer and most likely commence a vigorous masturbation session involving fantasies of him screwing you in every zippered-up orifice of your body (remember, this is just his goth fantasy, which most likely involves lots of zippers. now you know what those unnecessary zippers are for)

Meet him after school, and tell him you want to make it up to him by offering oral sex. Find a secluded spot, unzip his pants, and begin.
Then BITE OFF HIS DICK.


He'll never bother you again.




wait, you're 13? uhh.....nevermind this post.
 

Leon

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Camillemurs said:
I just told him he was creepy, that I don't live him, and that he should never talk to me again then I blocked him.

Hopefully, you'll consider the guy's feelings next time, no matter how fucked up he can be.
 
Leon said:
Hopefully, you'll consider the guy's feelings next time, no matter how fucked up he can be.

Should I respect the feelings of someone who says they love me before they even really get to know me? How would I handle that situation in a sensitive and understanding way?
 

Leon

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Camillemurs said:
Should I respect the feelings of someone who says they love me before they even really get to know me? How would I handle that situation in a sensitive and understanding way?

You should respect the feelings of someone like that even more, because they are evidently less stable than others. I'm not defending the goth's actions, but I can't say I'm surprised. The creepier the guys who like you, the more careful you should be when you turn them down.

How to do it? Well you're 13, so I don't think the way I'd do it applies to you. But one way would have been not to block him. You basically beat the shit out him, then locked him inside a room for him to heal himself in any way possible. And his specific way to heal himself is to take it out on you because (and the "gothness" should have been a hint) he puts his pride, his ego and his image before anything else. And also because he's just 13.
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
Camillemurs said:
Should I respect the feelings of someone who says they love me before they even really get to know me? How would I handle that situation in a sensitive and understanding way?
I agree. This kid is psycho, and needs to be put in his place. Also needs therapy.

Camillemurs said:
I already have hit puberty and there will not be a next time for me to consider his feelings.
No, he means that in a short while you're probably going to start hearing "I love you" a lot from guys. That is, if you're hot. If you're not....then I'm sorry.
 

AeroGod

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demon said:
No, he means that in a short while you're probably going to start hearing "I love you" a lot from guys. That is, if you're hot. If you're not....then I'm sorry.

:lol:lol:lol

Awesome.
 

darscot

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If you had any respect for this guy you would have told him straight up that your not interested and never given him the AIM name. Situation like this only happen when you allow them to. End it like a band-aid one motion.
 

Tazznum1

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demon said:
No, he means that in a short while you're probably going to start hearing "I love you" a lot from guys. That is, if you're hot. If you're not....then I'm sorry.


Also known as SHE. And if you are or become a goth chic, all you will attract is weirdos anyway.

Goth = dying for attention from anyone. Negative or positive.
 
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