Can we get some back story to this? I'm curious as to how this happened.
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I made out with an older woman last night
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Can we get some back story to this? I'm curious as to how this happened.
Hypereides
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How exactly do you plan to get out of that when it eventually happens, mr. Bond?
captainraincoat
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If her husband was gonna come home you should of taken her out the back
and attended to her lawn..if her hubby comes home your already halfway to the back fence just make sure you dont pull your pants down.....let russell the love muscle poke out through the curtains and she can pretty much be starkers or clothed like you.
and attended to her lawn..if her hubby comes home your already halfway to the back fence just make sure you dont pull your pants down.....let russell the love muscle poke out through the curtains and she can pretty much be starkers or clothed like you.
Met a girl at a club, danced with her for a bit, made out a bit, etc. I'm pretty much instantly really into her. Attractive, funny, playful, just my type. I ask her for her number so I can get a hold of her later. She then gets a bit withdrawn and strange acting. I pressed her a bit and eventually she confesses to not only having a BF, but being recently engaged. At that point I was like "fuck this!" and decided to bail. I said goodbye to her and went to find my friends. Couldn't find my friends, so I just went outside to catch a cab to go home. That's when the sly little mynx appears out of nowhere, hops in the cab with me and changes her tune.
Jetpack!
peanutbutterlatte
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Eh, I've been with my girlfriend for four years, I'd want to know if I was being screwed over.
At least you do feel bad.I don't know him. To be honest I do feel bad. I've been on the opposite end of a situation like this before and it sucks.
But she's reeled me into her vagenda
Ya know, with girls like these, they tend to just be cheaters in general. Its not that you're so special that she puts aside her normally faithful ways to be with you on the side, its that she is lousy enough to not care about her relationship deeply enough to not cheat in the first place. So if it wasn't you, it would probably be somebody else.
I've never 'been on the opposite side', like you were, but if I were, I don't think I'd be pissed at the guy like most people tend to get. Its my girlfriend/wife/whatever that is really the one doing something messed up.
I don't think sleeping with somebody who is involved with somebody is necessarily 'right', but I put it in a gray area. If anything, its just kinda stupid of you to involve yourself in that potential drama. But again, its hard to resist an attractive chick that wants you. You can play that moral highground card and say no, but it likely just means somebody else will be getting laid instead.
I agree 100% with all of this.
First, I have no illusions here. As you said, it's not that I'm some special gem that made her question her relationship. Chances are I'm not the first nor will I be the last. I think she likes men and men really like her. And if it werent me, it would likely have been someone else.
And yeah, I agree that the anger should go towards the cheating partner, not their participant. It's the cheater who is doing wrong by making the decision to step out, not the partner-in-crime, who is just getting with someone they find attractive/have a spark with.
And amen to your final point. Show me a single guy who says he can resist an attractive woman who is into him and I'll show you a liar.
Hypereides
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I expected something fancier.
Be cautious of any hidden sidearm in her stockings. Though, I'd imagine that would only arouse you further.
And you'd expect the guy she's cheating on you with to tell you? That's crazy. The guy is trying to get laid.
That's a terrible argument that can be used to justify practically anything.
Not really. Its not something that makes it 'right'. Its just something to consider with the pros/cons of making the choice to do it or not.
peanutbutterlatte
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Of course, that's crazy, what am I thinking. Monogamy isn't cool.
That has nothing to do with it. Its just unrealistic to expect some dude to tell you he's sleeping with your girlfriend out of some moral respect for you.
KnightSlyder
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That's a big problem with the world today. Plenty of 'guys', but men with integrity are few and far between.
That said, I agree that if someone cheats the issues lie with the the people in the relationship not the interloper. In other words, don't fault the 'guy' for screwing your girl. You don't have a relationship with him and he's just being a typical dude.
WordAssassin
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I remember that thread, was the first thing I thought of too.
Good luck OP keep us posted!! I want to believe you haven't seen the last of her.
Conor_Fool
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I updated the OP, should I have just started a new thread?
Anywho, I hope you all enjoy
Anywho, I hope you all enjoy
Pop On Arrival
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I got a little turned on reading your story...
Vicetrailia
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I'm weak, I would have been all up in it.
ConfusingJazz
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Sounds like you had a reservation at the mile high club.
Nathan Muir
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Dude, she's married! Messed up relationship with her husband or not, you've got to draw the line.
At 20, I made out with a 31 year old, and I thought I was hot stuff. Thankfully, she wasn't married, nor did she have kids, but she did have a boyfriend. The novelty wears off quickly, and you realize it's really not worth the risks. At all. Run!
evil solrac v3.0
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Dude, she's married! Messed up relationship with her husband or not, you've got to draw the line.
At 20, I made out with a 31 year old, and I thought I was hot stuff. Thankfully, she wasn't married, nor did she have kids, but she did have a boyfriend. The novelty wears off quickly, and you realize it's really not worth the risks. At all. Run!
he's not the one ruining anything, she started it. he's the one that's single.
Patrickv27
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Daymn son. So much awesomeness. But run bro run!
peanutbutterlatte
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... needed to be more confident bro. She wanted more.
Conor_Fool
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Her college friend is a married woman, the milf was saying I should come there and eat dinner and shit. I'm not about to hang with a bunch of adults in a college town where I might run into someone I know, super sketchy... Plus, my only ride was my buddy who is neighbors with her and is totally weirded out by the situation, not to mention this chick is annoying/weird as hell.
And to the picture seeker, she made us take a picture at the STL airport bar to send to my buddy (her neighbor), and then she took a picture of me when we were smoking a cigarette, pulling my headband out and insisting I become a model (I think I mentioned this in the OP, but I don't get too much action and I am not the most attractive dude). Don't want to post the pic and give away her identity though, thats uhh kind of creepy. And probably ban worthy?
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