olimario said:
For the third day in a row this girl in this truck has pulled up while his wife has been away, stayed for a little over an hour, and then left.
He works out of his house and his wife has a job downtown. She always comes at 2ish and leaves between 3-3:30.
I think he might be cheating... What should I do?
Here's the girl
What should you do?
1. Stay out of other people's business. You can have your suspicions, but even with those pics, you can't prove a thing.
2. Speaking of which, you shouldn't be taking pictures of people that don't give you their permission.
3. Furthermore, posting these pictures on an
internet forum where people from multiple countries have now seen this woman is a big no-no. You're playing with fire, oli.
4. It would be wrong for you to interfere with someone else's life and ruin a marriage like that. If he is cheating, and it stays pretty frequent, the wife will find out eventually. Let it go. You don't know what your neighbor is
really like. If you exploit what he is doing, you might be helping his wife. But who knows what he'll do to you after that? These are the things that make people snap. Consider yourself lucky if all that happens is a nasty letter/phone call or a brick through your car window. You don't even know who that woman is, and on top of that you don't even know what his wife is like. For all you know she could be cheating on him while she goes out of town or whatever. Not saying she does... but it's best to stay out of people's personal lives.
5. I'm sure other neighbors have seen it. Make an effort by asking other people on your street what they think. Maybe they know the guy better, and would advise you to stay away. Or, they could all come together and join you on your quest to end a potential corrupted marriage. This would be the smartest thing to do, especially if no one comes forward about who took the pics. He'll have no one to blame everything on, and everyone in the neighborhood is aware of what he's done.
